Yes, Im fat! I have been told, if I slim down I will be real cute and pretty. Maybe alot of ppl have also told the SAME thing to YOU.
But you have a loving bf or gf to be with you. Why am I still single? I wanna to be attached too! It's irritating to have friends and relatives asking, where is your boyfriend? Argh! Im 25 and still single. WHY?! Pls answer!
2006-11-06 23:51:25 · 26 answers · asked by ProblemGirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know why you are single but there is nothing wrong with it. PLEASE do not let having a man or not having a man define you and don't care what your family says to you. You need to be happy with yourself and your own body image. Eventually you won't be single anymore and you will have that loving boyfriend in your life. Don't try to rush it. Just enjoy your life and know that you are a good person and you don't need a man in your life to make you complete.
2006-11-06 23:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that everyone deserves love, no matter what you look like. But there are a lot of superficial and shallow people out there, many of which are tricked into thinking that slimmer is better. Maybe you should lose some weight, but only if it bothers YOU. Don't do something that you don't want to do, just to prove yourself to someone else. Do it for YOU.
I kno that this is going to sound really stupid, but try an online dating service. In your profile put all the good things about you and your personality. But be sure to mention that you are overweight, but post a flattering picture of yourself. That way, you can fidn a person that is interested in your personality.
But keep in mind, there is nothing wrong with being single, no matter how old you are. You don't need a man to make you feel better about yourself. If you respect yourself, then others will too.
Good luck!
2006-11-07 08:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by bonca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Everyone deserves love be they fat, think, short or tall. True love lies in the eyes of the beholder. The reason you are still single is because you don't wish to settle for someone lesser who only treasures the outer beauty. In the first place who said fat=ugly? In some cultures, being fat is prized. You would have to accept that people will constantly ask that question. From what you wrote, it seems you want to be attached because you feel the whole world is doing it and that being fat is the only reason.Love yourself and you'd find love knocking at your door when you least expect it.
2006-11-07 08:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by sweetiepie_cal_5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to lose weight, do it for YOU, not for someone else! And yes, I'm fat too! And I do have a bf who loves me very much. But I am trying to lose weight so I can live longer, not to change anyone's opinion of me. Maybe your weight has nothing to do with the fact that you're still single! Just concentrate on being happy with who you are, and don't worry about what other people think!
2006-11-07 07:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was slim at 25 and I had a lousy boyfriend. We broke up after 3 years together. Now that I'm 30 and gradually gaining a monstrous amount weight, my current boyfriend loves me more than the world itself. So, I really don't see why you shouldn't deserve any love. In fact, be the way you are. Love comes to those who are beautiful inside.
2006-11-07 08:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people see with their eyes.
To be honest, a lot of guys can love a girl that isn't pretty, but they'd much prefer if she was. I know that beauty is seen with the heart, and not the eyes though, and I went out with a girl society deemed fat. Unfortunately, a month later, social pressure on all sides (except hers) was telling me to break up with her, and it came down to leaving her gently, or else I was basically thrown out of the house.
Don't worry. Everyone deserves love, and I will always be one to give it. Being fat does not make you any less beautiful, but if you want guys to notice you physically before they get to know who you really are, unfortunately the only real option is to lose some weight.
I love you. Don't forget that either. <3
2006-11-07 07:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by Link 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry sweetie, 25 is not old, it's just a number that you are having an attitude about. Being without a boyfriend at 25 never meant that one will never get one, NO. It's just that the one for you has not yet come. I assure you that he's on the way. Don't hurry things.
2006-11-07 07:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry girl. My wife is plum too. The good thing is dont need pillow when I sleep. Just joking lah.
You only 25, maybe the time had not arrive.
By the way, how you define fat. I do see some slim girl that told me they are fat too.
2006-11-07 08:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Clive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what does being 'fat' have to do with being single?... Would you really want to date a guy that just wants an arm trophy?.... I would really hope the types of guys you are going for see you for more than just your pants size.... There is nothing wrong with being single either.... Enjoy yourself while you're still young, you have the rest of your life to worry about being with someone...
Love yourself for others to love you as well.
2006-11-07 08:01:47 · answer #9 · answered by WoWChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deserves love, no matter who you are, no matter how big or small you are. People also need to learn to accept each other as we are too. Lose the weight and do the diets, ONLY IF YOU WANT TO DO IT. Don't think you have too! Remember, as long as you are a good person inside, that's all that should really matter. I wish you well. Don't go looking for love, let it find you.
2006-11-07 07:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋