I am currently dating two guys... This is very hard for me because I have always been the good girl... I have not made a commitment to either of them... All I have done is kiss them... Both of them seem to like me a lot... Both of them consider me their girlfriend... I do not think that either of them are the one... But I do enjoy their company... I feel like I am being dishonest, even though I have not made a commitment or lied to either of them... Should I just keep doing what I am doing? Leave both? Just pick one?
2006-11-06 23:53:55 · 17 answers · asked by tanglo02 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u r not happy !
i can fell it from ur words !
cause if u r happy why r u asking?why u don't know what to do ?
but the important matter that u r not happy !
what u r doing is spending time with them , one day here and the other there!!
think in a right way , it doesen't matter what u r doing is right or wrong but what's matter if u r happy or not !
u don' t have to choose one of them , u can continue with both of them but
ur pb as i can see that u need love , u need someone to care but u haven't found the one that u could love him and care about him !
u can wait untill u found that person and u can continue what u r doing ,, but take care cuse u can lose urself and always be the one who can be with two persons!!
2006-11-07 00:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell both of them about the other one and let them decide what to do. They have the right to know that you are not committed to either of them and that you are seeing other people. Maybe it something that they are comfortable with and maybe its not and they have the right to make that decision. It is not right to lead them on and make them think that they are the only one that you are seeing.
2006-11-07 07:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to live in the tension of caring for your self and your feelings and looking after the feeling of the guy(s) you are showing attention to. It could really hurt one (or both) of them to know he is not "the only one." Or maybe its no big deal either. But...you owe it to them to ask yourself whether this could hurt one or both of them. If it seems like it might, be honest with them and end one, or both; but don't keep going with both without being honest with both.
2006-11-07 07:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they both know what u doing, y are u worried? U where at least totally honest with them ( weren't u??) If u cant handle the situation, u have to make a choice, or let both of them go in order to find the one.
2006-11-07 07:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest ,let each one know you are dating both , at that point you may need to make a decision, don't let anyone pressure you into a decision you can't live with,right you are being dishonest,after all you said you are a good girl
2006-11-07 08:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy! This is a rare occurrence these days. If feelings change for either one, then consider making a change, but until then, you go, Girl!
2006-11-07 07:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by HCH32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can date a many guys as you want as long as you don't make a commitment.
2006-11-07 08:11:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just fine BUT if you start having sex with one of them then you should tell them both. Then pick one.
2006-11-07 07:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't plan on developing anything serious with either one..
Why not date them both?
2006-11-07 07:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them both about the other, and offer a 3some... ;) If they are happy with the arrangement, then you are sorted, if one leaves, you have the other to continue with...
2006-11-07 07:57:26 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋