Family & Relationships - 4 November 2006

i have a hard time trusting anyone...i have been hurt by trust so many times...and everyone is asking me 2 trust them and i just cant...i cant stand peeps....idk if i should trust peeps or shouldnt....the only person i trust is this dude i like...thats it...what should i do

2006-11-04 18:05:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-04 18:05:31 · 11 answers · asked by priya5343 1 in Weddings

i've been married for 8 months, and i am VERY unhappy. i have somehow managed to fall in love with my best friend of nearly a decade, and i'm in a terrible mess. my best friend and i have a history (that we put to rest more than 5 years ago) and now all the sudden, my world flipped upside down and i'm back, deeper than i used to be with him, but i haven't cheated, nor will i ever. he is a HUGE part of my life, and has been MUCH longer than my husband, and will never not be in my life; plus, things were bad before i felt this way. hubby doesn't talk to me, we don't laugh, we fight constantly..i'm so lonely. i do love him, but i question if i'm IN love,or if i ever was? i also have a 3 year old who my husband has raised with me since she was 4 mo old, and she loves him SO much. how do i take a father figure away from her? (her bio father is VERY active with 50% custody) i want to leave (not for my best friend) but am afraid to make the wrong decision. HELP..advise please!

2006-11-04 18:03:59 · 19 answers · asked by macnchz22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

different things make people happy in this lovely world of ours.
What are some examples for you?

2006-11-04 18:03:26 · 17 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

It's so pointless. They should just admit it. No one will look down upon them if they do. It’s so hurtful for them to not admit it.

I could also see it in their eyes that they realize they are wrong but still… they refuse to say they are.

2006-11-04 18:02:50 · 24 answers · asked by ♥LostHeart♥ 4 in Family

Plz help me...I got my friend 2 tell her b/f that i like this guy(cuz there like best frinds) and the guy i like(His name is Preston) sed he didnt like me back, so i sent him an email asking y and he sed he had a g/f...i cant get over it and i cant find sum1 else 2 like...wat do i do?

2006-11-04 18:02:33 · 8 answers · asked by BeeBee 2 in Singles & Dating

hey has anyone here tried experimenting with blowup dolls? i tried last night my girlfriend bought me one as a joke and it was lots of fun together! or has anyone tried those deluxe models that are like mannequins?

2006-11-04 18:02:25 · 4 answers · asked by hello! 2 in Singles & Dating

at the end of my marriage, i let my childrens father take them because at the time i was sick and was not sure if i was going to be out of work and also i had to stay with my parents, he had a good job and a home,thru everything i was suffering from depression,and he would take that and use it against me so i was afraid that i had no choice in the matter but he promised he would never take the kids away from me and i could have them anytime. in our divorce he has sole custody but i did not have to pay child support(for 2 yrs)and i did not have restrictions,like visitations.now i pay child support for the last 3yrs.i work 2 jobs ,i do not get to see my children as much and he will not let me have them like i did in the beginning.my children are suffering because they need me too. and he does not see it that way,he says that they have to have structure but children in divorces do not have structure they need to be balanced,that means they need both parents equally in there life.

2006-11-04 18:01:02 · 7 answers · asked by kindheart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I hate it when girls text me why dont you just call it takes me like 5 minutes to write a reply and then i feel stupid and wonder if if should only text. Whats the point of these things

2006-11-04 18:00:37 · 8 answers · asked by Ski_Bum 3 in Singles & Dating

if your family supported you 100%, would you date\marry\have children with someone who was of another ethnicity if there was a genuine connection?

2006-11-04 18:00:20 · 17 answers · asked by LM 3 in Singles & Dating

Well. Since you were all so helpful with my plot, I look to you for more help.

This is very simple and you don't have to have any knowlege of my other question.

I need a way to bring my heroin into a relationship. I would like lots of different ways how relationships started to reference from. You don't have to use thier real names. I just want details. If you don't want to broadcast them all over Y!A, then feel free to email me. Thankyouthankyouthankyou!

2006-11-04 18:00:15 · 13 answers · asked by Smo 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 18:00:10 · 26 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so theres this boy that I really like. And I've given him signs and hes kind of given me some signs that we like each other. And now all of a sudden when we went dancing tonight. He chose his sister and my friend over me, even though i wasn't kind of giving him the look that i wanted to dance it was still weird. We only danced once all night. Even though i was walking for most of the time around the building, it was still kind of weird. We only talked a little and danced once which is kind of weird for us. But after i left to go walking around he stopped dancing with people i guess. And the only time he would dance with someone would be when they came up to him and asked him to dance. Because his rule is u can't say no to a girl if she comes up and asks u to dance. I don't know if this is just all junk, and i should just give up on boys for a while. or if i should like him. Help please

2006-11-04 17:59:49 · 5 answers · asked by crazy little thing called love 3 in Singles & Dating

If sumone says they have a warm bed, what does that mean?

2006-11-04 17:59:18 · 6 answers · asked by The Trackstar Trainer 1 in Singles & Dating

What do i do?????please advise me?
How to handle it if my ex turns up at my house???
how do i handle it if my ex comes to my house?? i love him alot and want to be with him but everytime he turns up i tell him i love him and im pushing him away by doing this. how can i get him back?? i have told him if he wants it over to not contact me so i can get over him and he still contacts me

2006-11-04 17:58:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Please answer these if you are a guy.
(1) Straight hair or Curly hair?
(2)Blondes,brunettes, or red heads?
(3)Short or Tall?
(4)Thin, medium, big?
Please give details along with your answers, I want to know why you chose that specific answer. Thank You!♥

Also, no pervey answers. And when I say 'Straight hair or curly hair' I mean the hair on your head!

2006-11-04 17:56:28 · 20 answers · asked by Manx 5 in Singles & Dating

he is a dckhead and i want her 2 leave him but she wont...i dont understand y she wants 2 put me thru hell every fcking day...all i do is get yelled at for nothing...and my dad talks crap about me and my mom 2 otha peeps idk what 2 do...should i just have myself sent away becuz i cant take it much more or should i just run away or stay and take it?

2006-11-04 17:55:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to know every ones opinion

2006-11-04 17:54:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to know every ones opinion

2006-11-04 17:54:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Whenever I asked, "How about this wkeend? How about we do this or that? Go here or there?" My bf's typical answer is, "I don't know." OR "I don't know b/c I don't know what's going to happen."
My answer: "Nobody knows what's going to happen. If you want it then you plan for it."
My questions are: 1. Am I right to say that? 2. What does it mean when he never plan time to spend with me.
Background: We've been together for almost 3 yrs. We live half an hour apart. We see each other, at most, twice a week.

2006-11-04 17:52:32 · 8 answers · asked by webmail0806 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK THE GUY I LIKE IS SINGING AT MY CHURCH TOMROW SHOULD I MAKE A MOVE WHEN HES BY HIMSELF IF SO WHAT SOULD I DO

2006-11-04 17:52:26 · 15 answers · asked by brooke j. 1 in Singles & Dating

shes really starting 2 piss me off she is yelling at me becuz im talking 2 a guy she likes...he is just a ******* friend and she cant get that thru her head...what should i do?

2006-11-04 17:52:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im pregnant with your child...what do u do/say? what is your reaction?

2006-11-04 17:51:55 · 11 answers · asked by Elle 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to share so much with my guy. I want to show him how I feel and tell him and talk to him, and share the joy of how we're together. But I simply can't get him to open up. It SEEMS like he wants to, but he just can't do it. He's not cheating, he works hard and he's a good man. But its kililng me that we don't seem to connect on that sharing thing. Should I overlook it because he's good in many other ways. Do some guys just DO NOT open up?

2006-11-04 17:51:33 · 19 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok theres this guy. For the longest time hes called me hippie. in a nice way. he would be like hey hippie or ask other people, do you like hippies? i think hippies or cool. a few days ago he told me that someone told him that i like him, which i do, and called me by my real name! hes calling me hippie again but im confused. HELP!

2006-11-04 17:51:16 · 6 answers · asked by Samantha 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going crazy now ... they say my wife only has a week left to live if that ... see she has Hotchkins lymphoma and I don't know what to do if I lose her!

I just keeping thinking how much I will miss the love we made in bed and the times she spent preparing my food for me ... I am going to miss all those special times ... and I don't know how to replace her and those little special things, I mentioned, she would do for me ...

2006-11-04 17:48:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-04 17:48:46 · 8 answers · asked by paiper l 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on a guy whom I barely talk to. We do talk but not alot and well he's pretty cute and all. I dont know him all that well either. Now I wonder, I rly like him and I think he is super gorgeous and pretty and I rly rly wanna kiss him....would it be weird if I went up to him and kissed him? Or how should I get him to be interested in me? keep in mind that I am shy and he's the more social type.

2006-11-04 17:48:27 · 8 answers · asked by Amelia 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this one girl in my french class. we dont really know each other and i never talked to her. i dont really know much about her but im pretty sure she doesnt have a boyfriend at this moment. but then one day i found out that she is beginning to talk to this one guy and it seems like its possibly that a relationship could start. i really like this girl but i dont know what to do..

2006-11-04 17:48:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been hearing alot of girls saying how they want a mature guy etc. what exactly do u mean by mature???
say for example, a guy that cracks jokes, plays pranks on ppl, but still has his morals, has his future planned out etc, does that make him immature??

2006-11-04 17:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by thugster17 2 in Singles & Dating