I am going crazy now ... they say my wife only has a week left to live if that ... see she has Hotchkins lymphoma and I don't know what to do if I lose her!
I just keeping thinking how much I will miss the love we made in bed and the times she spent preparing my food for me ... I am going to miss all those special times ... and I don't know how to replace her and those little special things, I mentioned, she would do for me ...
2006-11-04 17:48:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to step up, quit thinking about yourself, hold her hand, be supportive and let her go with dignity.
2006-11-04 17:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In December of 2004, the doctors said my husband had 3-5 good years left. This was after a heart condition. I thought, well that is not much but, i will take what i can get. Then February 15th we found out he had an aggressive cancer. I was told by the Hospice nurse that he had 2 months and that was stretching it. Again i thought, i will take what i can get. 6 days later, he was gone. When i found out my time with my husband was short believe me, i was not on the computer wasting our time. I was at his side every waking minute. But you sound so self centered and more worried about yourself when you should be caring about her and what she is going through.Makes me wonder what kind of a husband she has.
2006-11-05 04:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by shyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would miss my dying wife as well. ...
I love having sex and eating the food my wife makes! I guess if she died I would have to go out and get another ... I suggest you do the same.
Also don't wait ... these doctors are sometimes wrong she may live years at least if you start looking know you can prepare for you future life. Afterall, she is going to die sooner or later ... you better prepare!
2006-11-05 05:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMg that is hard. I think you should try to show her how much you love her. Do something special for her know what I would want.... I would want my man to be there for me to hold my hand when the end comes. It will be hard for you but it will ease her pain and show her that you love her. Take off work or what ever you have to do but she will feel honored that she is so special, also let her know that you wll never forget her no matter what happens
2006-11-05 01:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by southernchick340 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are religious than you should pray and ask the "Higher Source" or "God" about keeping your wife and that you need her. If you are not religious, then it doesn't hurt praying. You can even ask your family and friends to help pray for your wife.
By the way, I'm also a healer and I practice Reiki. So if you would like me to send healing to your wife I will need her permission. This will not work if she doesn't grant her permission. You can email me by clicking on my nickname and sending your request. I will need her first name and last name initial and location (city, state, country and hospital is fine.I don't need a full address)
2006-11-05 01:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be with her every moment. Show her that even though you may not have been with her her whole life, you'll be with her now and even after she is dead. You have to make her know that you'll care for her no matter what. Make that last week the best 7 days of her life. Ask her what she'll want for those days and make sure she gets it. Show her that you love her with more than words
2006-11-05 01:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
People should really read all the other questions and answers that people ask when they ask questions that are pretty out there... click on this guys name to see other Q & A... a person with this problem really wouldn't be on here typing away a wife's moments.... DUH!!!!!
2006-11-05 03:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by Country 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so self centered. You probably don't deserve her in the first place. She's going into peace and rest and away from the likes of you.
2006-11-05 02:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Michael,
You need to be strong and be with her and do all you can. Doctors are not God, they do not know when she will die. Pray and turn your troubles over to God. I am so sorry for you!
2006-11-05 03:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the things your going to miss arent the things you SHOULD miss.you seem more worried about whos gonna feed ya than her well being.
2006-11-05 01:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋