i have a hard time trusting anyone...i have been hurt by trust so many times...and everyone is asking me 2 trust them and i just cant...i cant stand peeps....idk if i should trust peeps or shouldnt....the only person i trust is this dude i like...thats it...what should i do
2006-11-04 18:05:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow, you sound a lot like me.
I have problems trusting people too. But sometimes... I can't stay quiet and I start trusting people. But then I get afraid and I runaway from them.
You need to find a friend you could trust and try your best to not runaway from (if you are anything like me).
Email me if you want and I could try to help. It seems we have a lot in common.
2006-11-04 18:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by ♥LostHeart♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a hard time trusting people too. Many of my friends have stabbed me in the back already. When I meet new friends, I dont tell them my secrets because I dont know them very well yet. If I were you, I would try to learn who they are first before trusting them with anything. Get to know their true personality.
2006-11-05 07:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lija 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem too..i have trouble trusting people..just don't trust them unitl you get to know them for a long time
2006-11-05 02:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing then you're in good shape ! It is always good to trust your gut feeling ! And 98% of the time it's right .Don't trust everybody!
2006-11-05 02:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them to trust you on something, on something fairly major... then do it several times... if they have to put themselves in a place where they have to trust you, they're showing if they're worthy of your trust.
Also, if people spend a lot of time saying, "Trust me," you're right to be wary.
2006-11-05 02:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by Buckaroo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it so much if you don't trust someone right away its okay because with time if their really trustworthy you'll learn to trust them
2006-11-05 02:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by ikinkaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure, i have a similar problem myself. But i would defently make sure you tell whoever it is that you care and trust him!
2006-11-05 02:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by david g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better safe than sorry.
2006-11-05 02:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋