What do i do?????please advise me?
How to handle it if my ex turns up at my house???
how do i handle it if my ex comes to my house?? i love him alot and want to be with him but everytime he turns up i tell him i love him and im pushing him away by doing this. how can i get him back?? i have told him if he wants it over to not contact me so i can get over him and he still contacts me
2006-11-04 17:58:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I truly mean You no harm, I just want You to evaluate this situation. Your life is way out of control. Now 71 questions about the same thing. I took the time to go back and count all the answers that You have received, the total is six hundred and ten. And You are still asking the same question. What is the answer that You want to hear? What answer would solve this for You? How about You tell us, please. You are 22, to put this in perspective You will be 71 in 49 years. You were like 16 when You feel in love with a Man 24. He was Your first love. And He wants what He wants, but He wants You to be there just in case. Change Your number, make it unlisted. Change Your email. Write letters to Your Friends stating that if anything happens to You, to look at this Man. Get a restraining order to keep Him from Your work, and home, and then call the Police when He shows up. Send Him a certified letter telling Him He will be arrested if He comes anywhere near You. People who love You do not put You through this. If You would move on You could give Yourself a chance to find this out.
If I didn't care, would I have done all of this reading of Your questions, and counting. You are on shaky ground, You HAVE TO MOVE ON, and get Him out of Your Life.
A very wise Man said one time, would You rather be in a bad relationship for 10 years, OR ten years and one day?
2006-11-05 06:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him the no more treatment, seems like he is getting a rise out of the situation and might eventually take advantage of your feelings, aka Booty calls. I would suggest you break it off with him and tell him when he can be a man and truely be there for you, or can make up his mind, then and only then give you a call. Tell him that his dropping by and taking advantage of your feelings is juvenille at best and it's unappreciated!
2006-11-04 18:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by jls1znv9999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason this guy is your ex. So why aren't you going on with your life? Get on with your life and meet someone new. Tell your ex to move on, though I know you said you love him, if you loved him so much, and he loved you so much, then you both would not be ex's right now.
2006-11-04 18:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i know this is hard, and by the sounds of it you want to do the right thing but this guy won't let you by always coming over.
So i know this is not going to sound nice, But all you can do in this situation is not answer the door. just don't let him in.
if he ring you and you say hello hung up .
and hopefully he will get the message and leave you alone
I hope and pray that he will, Remember that Jesus loves you
2006-11-04 18:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by jan d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kyle Petty?!! You hafta be kidding. additionally, I undergo in concepts Mark Martin a pair years in the past saying that 0.5 the adult men on the music shouldn't have a license tochronic, no longer to mentionchronic in NASCAR. additionally, somebody relatively mentioned Stewart, lmao. i might ought to circulate with Carl Edwards, Burton, Kahn.
2016-11-27 19:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by doolaghty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur ex obviesly still wants some contact with u so whats wrong with it.if u still love him ur spending time with him. as for getting ova him try to find another guy i guess
2006-11-04 18:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by wolfmother_rockz_1993 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't take his calls for like a week maybe two. You need to not be so available to him. he is getting his cake and eating it too. He is in control you need to gain control. He will come around and if he doesn't. This is a great saying my mother taught me... Men are like buses one comes around every 15 min. you just need to figure out one to ride.
2006-11-04 18:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by girlio33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's messing with you because he likes the attention. Quit being stupid and don't let him in or talk to him next time. You're just feeding his ego.
2006-11-04 18:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a dog
2006-11-04 17:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont talk 2 him...if he shows up at ur house...just ignore him dont talk 2 him i no u love him but he anit worht it just fck him hun....kk
2006-11-04 18:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋