my boyfriend left me after 3 years. he told me he wanted to be able to goto clubs and do whatever he wanted without having to worry about me finding out. i am still very much in love with him, i don't even know what i was doing wrong and i don't know how to be single again.
2006-11-04 18:17:40 · 14 answers · asked by hotboy_from_la 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's just like riding a bike. It'll come back to you. Also, how can you be so sure that it was you who was doing anything wrong? Sometimes people decide, for whatever reasons, they don't want to be in a relationship any longer or they fall out of love with the person. Obviously your boyfriend just didn't want to be in a committed relationship. Yes, it's hurtful to be dumped, especially by somebody you really love and who doesn't have the decency or the balls to sit down and really be honest about why he really left (because he wanted to be able to screw at will) and not leave you trying to figure out what you did wrong.
Forget his azz (literally and figuratively). Pick yourself up, go out with friends, keep moving forward and one day you'll look up and he'll be a distant memory and you'll find someone new.
2006-11-04 18:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not about any wrongdoing on your part. Your guy simply wanted to be free to date others and not be in an exclusive relationship.
I think that you are fortunate that he was honest enough to tell you, rather than go behind your back.
You need to get out there and meet new men. And, you will find a love interest again if you're open to it. That's how you learn to be single again...
2006-11-04 18:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that hurt. It will take some time to get over him , but u will. It is better to know the truth than to live a lie. about being single again... it's like falling off a bike, you gotta get back out there but only when u are ready
2006-11-04 18:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by southernchick340 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got faith you felt those issues because you haven't any longer had a dating for see you later and because she is so desirable you possibly already questioning with regard to the form you may experience in case you misplaced this female. that's complicated commencing a dating after being on my own for see you later, my advice could be to easily enable issues take its organic reason and make issues paintings. She sounds great and that i'm jealous haha!!
2016-12-28 13:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aparently he thought you were untrust worthy because he couldnt tell you certain things without you feeling like he was going out to do something you considered wrong..but as for living a single life well think about ways to get your life straight and maybe consider being friends then go back to what was before...or adjust your life and find a new guy to be with.
2006-11-04 18:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to take my advise, don't dwell on him. Don't give him that satisfaction. Go out and do something for yourself. You'll feel much better when you do. When you're not looking, love will surprise you again.
2006-11-04 18:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by magicrose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In today's society, more men are coming out of the closet so I think you're chancing of finding another man is pretty good.
2006-11-04 18:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by namedcal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are free!!!! Once you start showing your face out at clubs he is going to freek. Try not to pay attention to what he is doing.
Just have fun. Bet you he changes his mind really quick. Hopefully by that time you probably wont want him anymore.
2006-11-04 18:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by girlio33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get drunk, hang out with your friends, hook up with random people at the clubs, and have fun. It is pretty simple
2006-11-04 18:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rest, chill, You will meet someone who wants to be with you. But don't look like your looking for a new love.
2006-11-04 18:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋