I havebeen with a man for 4 yrs and the sex is great ! but he has issues in how to treat me and my kids out of the bed. We never go any where do anything and I can't even laugh and have fun with him.I think I should dump him and be with someone that I can laugh with even if the sex inst that great. What is your openion
2006-11-04 18:28:50 · 15 answers · asked by southernchick340 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You and especially your children deserve better.
2006-11-05 06:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you should dump this guy. You and your kids deserve to be treated the right way. Sex alone is not worth it. You're also right about finding someone that you can laugh with. Besides, great sex isn't just about how great the other person is... You can bring a lot to the table yourself. In other words, you have the ability to bring-out the fire in someone if you just put in a little effort.
2006-11-04 18:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by V o X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in a relationship 4yrs. just because the sex was great is not healthy for you or your kids there must have been something over the last 4yrs to make you stay with this man and if not it's time to move on because there's a man out there with great sex and time to give to you know you want better so get it don't have to just settle
2006-11-04 18:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you....This dude just sounds like a booty buddy. Get out of the relationship and find yourself a man who is going to take care of you and your children by showing you ya'll respect and going out to do various things. Sex isnt everything....As a matter of fact it is only one thing in comparison to the other needs that you have listed. Go ahead and move on..you can keep him around for screwing purposes only if neccessary but your main focus should be to find the man of your dreams.
2006-11-04 18:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people who have answered this question has failed to realize that because she has been with him for four years, mostly because of the sex, the guy is obviously a god. But yes, listen to the others and dump him.
2006-11-04 18:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by namedcal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer, don't you?
Great sex is an important component of any relationship but when it is the only thing, you've simply got no glue to make it last.
2006-11-04 18:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't everything. Find someone that knows how to treat you and your kids good.
2006-11-04 18:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely leave him...
you can always teach someone what you like in bed but you cant change someones attitude ....
leave him before you turn bitter (if your not already) and it starts to impact on the kids!
2006-11-04 18:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not give yourself a chance and find yourself someone new that will be good to you in and out of bed x
and think of your kids x
2006-11-04 18:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is more to life then just sex, think about it and anyway just get yourself a nicer guy and teach him
2006-11-04 18:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋