What do you do when you have an ex by one day whom you care for very much and love a lot still, but you just found out when he is angry he beats people up, and ended up in jail last night for ( taking aguy`s head off), he is a boucer, always swears, smokes weed, and you so desperately want to improve his life style by teaching him things but bang your head on a wall, now you I am pregnant he does not want to know and does not care as he said call it a day and will not even remain friends, and I am constantly apologising for hurting him before by lying of my 3 year old`s dad living in london and keeping contact, because I was afraid he would not understand and when I say this he f`s and b`s I am 25 he 41
2006-11-04 23:53:46 · 6 answers · asked by FLAVIA D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like the classic case of a woman from a bad childhood now reliving that experiences in an equally bad adult relationship. You have no center to your own identity. You do not see that you are a good person who deserves a better life. You settle for living with a violent and worthless man instead of being free and looking for relationships with decent, loving men. The choice is yours. But to make it, you must change how you see yourself. For the sake of your child (who will simply repeat this same pattern) please make a plan and a fresh start far away.
2006-11-04 23:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may care for this person alot, but there is a time in a persons life where you have to draw the line, you don't want to have to go throught the worry and stress of waiting for your turn to be abused verbally and physically, no one deserves to be treated that way, and to tell you the truth, there are people out there who you can confide in and not have to worry about abusing you, they will support you 100%. sometimes you can not change people the way you think you can, those are the ones who have to want to change, and obviously he is not one of them, chin up and walk tall with your head high and someone will notice you and treat you the way you want to be treated.
2006-11-05 08:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by j.errington 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find u someone that is compatable not as in daylight and dark
2006-11-05 07:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeezus Kerrist...........DUH!
He's a loser..why would you want to be around somebody like that? DUMP HIM!
2006-11-05 07:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U GOT WHAT U DESERVE CUZ U LIKE BAD BOYS & NOW IT'S TIME TO PAY FOR IT !!!
2006-11-05 08:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
choose someone ur age or near it :P
2006-11-05 07:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by S@D L@Dy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋