Why do girls like bad boys, then go to their friends or come here & cry it out for been misstreated ?

Question

I dated few of those & nothing but trouble & bars/nightclubs are full of them,but i learned my lesson the hard way, lucky unharmed(pregnant,beaten or non like that). Now i date a nice gentle guy, whom i met grocery shopping.
To girls who like bad boys, i would say, " u deserve what u asked for" & hope u learned ur lesson as i did.

Answer 1

I learnt my lesson the hard way hun....he stole from my house mums mobile, bros ps2, xbox games, money and lots more stuff!! Since dating him i have def changed my ways BRING ON THE GENTLEMAN is all i can say. Dating a 'bad guy' doesnt make you cool.

Answer 2

First of all girls like bad boys because they are different. They are exciting and adventurous. I for one am a bad boy and i will say all bad boys dont miss treat woman, only the ones that are insecure with them selves. I am a bad boy but good boy. Meaning I grew up on the streets in Chicago and I dont go by what everyday society goes by. I play my own games, my own way and i write my own book. Im not a follower, nor do I dress like everyone else in this world. When I say good guy, I know how to treat a lady and respect one as well. So those who are out there saying oh my god what a mistake and so on, guess you just chose the wrong bad boy. I consider a bad boy as myself to be fun, daring, I say what i want and do what i want when and how I feel appropriate. I take the little extra steps out of the box and dont follow the same routine eveyone else follows. I dress different, meaning I dress what i feel is comfortable and not what todays society expects for what ever occasion it may be. I dont look to please others as long as I am confident in doing what i feel or want. Me being a bad boy is different from others, cause no one expects what they do and people look at you and dont know weather to say hi or look the other way. They are usually scared because you are different and woman find that facinating and they love the challenge. But one thing I really want to stand out here to be a bad boy doesn't mean to mis treat a lady that is considered a whimp and no bad boy's where i grew up would ever do that. Treat a lady as a lady and do to others as you would want done to your self. Remember bad boys you have a mother talk to your ladies with the same respect as your mother. If you dont respect your mother you can never respect a lady. So please get it right all bad boys arent woman abusers, we just have a different way and not saying our ways are right or even the best. But the ladies love it for whatever reason's they do and believe me I wouldn't have it any other way. I tell it like it is and say whats on my mind, if you don't want to know the truth dont ask because i wont sit there like half the fake people in the world and tell you what you want to hear, I will only speak the truth and tell you like it is. Take care all and ladies please don't judge all of us because of the whimps out there that dont know how to treat you.

Answer 3

Because people like to push the envelope, they just don't like the results when they get trapped in their own goo...some, like you come out unscathed and learn fom experience. Others(most, as a matter of fact!), either get trapped by their inability to break the habit, or die in the process of realizing their own stupidity. It's a pity, but then the Earth IS grossly overpopulated; it's called "culling the herd"...the weak, incompetent and slower-reacting animals will always be the first to fall prey. Survival of the fittest!

Answer 4

You are right. I can ask the same about women that are abused, why are you sticking with the bum. They usually have answers like " I love him" "he'll change" "the kids" and they end up in the hospital eventually, dead or without anything, including their dignity.
It's an age old question and it'll be asked until the end of time.

Answer 5

I've been asking that question for years. If girls date bad boys don't complain about being mistreated. That's what bad boys do!

Answer 6

girls who like bad boys...isn't that like 90 % of women? but there are bad boys that treat them like shi* and there are bad boys that just do crazy stuff to prove they are macho!

Answer 7

If girls had brains we would have not needed this site

Answer 8

Well said!

Answer 9

that's what they want to do,
isn't it?

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you got out of that world and met someone different?
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