Family & Relationships - 4 November 2006

2006-11-04 22:13:46 · 13 answers · asked by azeem_bangalore_007 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for almost an year ...but my s''life is nearly dead..its b,coz he is never interested..a few months back he told me that he was in love with a girl but couldnt marry her b,coz of his parentsbut he,s over her and says he is happy wid me then what cud be the reason for aman to behave like this knowing that his wife is very romanticand he doesn,t seem to be doing anything about it..i cant have a kid with him unless i am sure he has accepted me in every way..i am 26 and he is 31..i hav tried talking to him but all in vain..the interesting part is that he wants a baby next year just to complete his family..in my view dat child wud be a symbol of his compromise and not of his love for me..i am new to his country whichis y i feel dat i shud stand on my own feet first rather than having a child wid such a husband..am i right

2006-11-04 22:11:35 · 35 answers · asked by chubby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

By saying mail frined, I mean thos people, who will attach my id when they are forwading some good mails to their friends. Also those to whom I can send such mails. Some times back I was having many such friends, but then I got busy and was not able to keep in touch with them. Now I miss such forwards. Its a great feeling when you see a new mail in your inbox. I am missing this happiness. I have joined lot of groups, but the feeling you get when you see the mail of a person is much more valuable than a mail from group.

2006-11-04 22:08:55 · 9 answers · asked by manoj Ransing 3 in Friends

I lived with my brother after I graduated from college for about 5 mos, but during those 5 mos, he was verbally, emotionally and physically abusive so I moved out. He almost strangled me, and wouldn't let me use the phone or the computer all that time. I couldn't turn on the lights at home, and he would leave me in the house without food nor the ability to take myself to the market since it was driving distance.

That was six years ago. I recently found out he got married and his wife had a baby. Should I try to get to know her by opening myself to her by sending his wife a gift?

We live in the same state however, they live 6 hours away from me. What would you do if you were in my situation? Thanks for your comments in advance.

2006-11-04 22:07:11 · 6 answers · asked by the_memory_of_ashes 4 in Family

If you had a hopeless life and you were unhappy? What would you do?

2006-11-04 22:06:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my guy just moved in together.
he wants sex every night .
i'm on a birth control and he always uses condoms so there's no worry that i would get pregnant.
what i'm worrying is that it might be not healthy to have sex every night.
plz help.

2006-11-04 22:02:20 · 19 answers · asked by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 22:01:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Met a boy in June. he was lovely to me flirty etc.. all ended up in a crux moment a couple of months ago where he got drunk hit on me, i kissed him but refused to sleep with him and told him i liked him but wanted to go slow which he took as total rejection. it is unclear if he wanted a one night stand or more he says more. he has been funny for a few months contact been scarce out of his embarassment (i think) more than anything but he is a bit of a player. hes still single and walked into the bar i was in yesterday wed been texting a few days previously anyway so there was communication. he joined my party and was very nice although he ws completely drunk, i suppose my question is, does he now want to be friends and got over the rejection, does he possibly want more or was he just being polite. he had previously mentioned in his texts the day before about meeting up - also shld i text him and say nice to bump into you to get back on track or shld i wait for him to text me.

2006-11-04 21:59:40 · 16 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

Im absoulutely useless at flirting so guys think they cant joke with me the same way. So what is classed as flirting. My idea of flirting is laughing at blokes jokes and looking interested ive never been good at innuendos so any advice to help me flirt better would be appreciated

2006-11-04 21:58:18 · 7 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 19 and ater a week of deceiding whether or not to see a lad again i am meeting him this afternoon for our 2nd date. this is the first time ive properly dated a lad, as i was forced by my dad to focus on my horseriding career (now ended!). im really nervous, what have you lot usually done on a 2nd date?

2006-11-04 21:57:43 · 5 answers · asked by lauz 1 in Singles & Dating

Best & worst pick up lines?

some I heard...

"You must be tired, you have been running through my mind."

"You are like lightening, you charge your beer to my tab."

"Craziest dream, and wow! You were in it."

"Have you been on the 9th green? It is greener on the back nine."

"Have you lost your wings? Heaven must be missing an angel."

"I'm the egg, you can be the chicken. Together we'll find out the answer."

"My mom always wanted me to bring home a 'nice' girl."

"Have you seen my date? Thank God, you want to get out of here."

"I'm scared of the dark, can you walk me home?"

"Have you been good because Santa is making a list."

"I have a lot of money and I don't know what to do with it."

"Buy you a drink for a smoke."

2006-11-04 21:54:50 · 9 answers · asked by R C 3 in Singles & Dating

lil kids these days dont listen
its 9 pm trying to get them in bed but they refuse they kinda listen to me if i mention micheal jaskon LMAO !!
any new ways to make them listen?

2006-11-04 21:54:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have being in luv with a girl who i dicided to marry in future, she attends Jahovah witnes and i Presbyterian church . since the time i meet her, she has demanding i quiet my church to join hers before her congregation can allow us to get marry or allow her to get marry to me ....... i will like to ask are we not worshipping the same God Who created heaven and earth? and what is the difference between Jahovah Witness and Presbyterians?

2006-11-04 21:52:01 · 13 answers · asked by blueinaus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my groom passed out before we got to do anything, that damn bastard. We finally consumated our marriage 2 days later after suffering from alcohol poisoning.

2006-11-04 21:51:55 · 8 answers · asked by MamasaidknockUout_1978 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going over to a new boyfriend of mine and he has really dry skin on his back, neck legs and arms and do you think I should be pampering him, and covering him with lotion head to toe until his skin is just right?

2006-11-04 21:51:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my long distance gf has not been intimate with me, and she wont even get sexy online or on the phone or anything doesnt really talk about it, but she claims to be very passionate was a rabbit with ex's, i feel like she not having me as a bf like that, she claims not to have had sex for 4 yrs, nothing, am i being duped

2006-11-04 21:51:40 · 22 answers · asked by john d 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 21:50:26 · 8 answers · asked by meghna k 1 in Friends

my new g/f thinks shes ugly and i dont want her she keeps saying "why do u wanna be with me" so i would love some tips on what to say plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

2006-11-04 21:49:15 · 13 answers · asked by BEN F 2 in Singles & Dating

yesterday me n my bf went to the pictures ryt and wen we came bak we met up wit one of his mates,josh. now this is the first time iv met him but we got on really well so he asked if we could meet up tomoro just to chat basicaly. wen i told my bf this he flipped and goes on about all my past relationships and said he doesnt trust me! weve bin going out for just over ten weeks and weve had our ups and downs but weve pulled through, now i feel like im losin him, please how can i make my bf c that nothing is guna happen btween me and josh?

2006-11-04 21:45:52 · 24 answers · asked by devils sweetheart 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I felt it could be avoided.Many things were said and done.Id it possible to start fresh and act like the fights never happened.Right now she won't even talk to me.I never fall this easy for a girl,but I did this time.

2006-11-04 21:45:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he only gets his son on the weekends when she tells him he can, they have been divorced since 1998 because she cheated on him, she apparently has a habit of getting a new guy every two years, my bf has been alone for the whole period of their divorce, he says till he met me, he never found anyone he wanted to date, we just started dating about 2 months ago, his ex wife has been nagging him for about a month and a half that it is not fair to their son, and that he needs to be alone with their son on the weekends, that he is psychologically damaging their son by forcing him to be part of this immediate family, my boyfriend and I think that we all need to learn to like each other especially since me and him click really good and are thinking long term. but she is making him feel so guilty that he is confused on what to do? is our way of thinking right? or is the ex right?

2006-11-04 21:42:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

tell me what is most important in any realtion

2006-11-04 21:41:33 · 10 answers · asked by shane 1 in Friends

know this is a stupid post but the guys where i work have cheeky jokes with the flirty, chatty types of the department yet with me they dont joke with me the same way as im shy. Should i take it as a compliment or be offended. As i feel left out when they dont joke with me the same way and wish they would. Is there anything i can do to rectify the situation

2006-11-04 21:41:02 · 18 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Singles & Dating

Megan, Abby, Shortie & jake.
Serious question, nothing silly please.
She took them without my consent
I did no wrong.

2006-11-04 21:40:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Would they seek any friendly company? Would they cheat? I mean, they also have their sexual desires? What would be the % of women who would indulge in casual online/real sex (discreete) while her hubby is away?

2006-11-04 21:37:52 · 9 answers · asked by bh37bh37 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a married woman and love my husband a lot.even he is very faithful with me.my problem is before my marriage i had a very healthy good friendship with my cousin,whom slowly i started to love but never told him.he fell in love with another girl and i helped him a lot in this issue,he got married after which he said to stop talking to him as his wife is very suspicious type,i felt insulted but to save his marriage i kept quite.meanwhile i got married and now he is divorced and alone.even today i care for him want to talk to him,but same time sincerely and truly love my husband.i am confused,this person is always there on my mind,it is been nearly 3 yrs i saw him face to face.i told my husband about this cousin of mine that we were good friends without the knowledge of both r parents as they wanted to get us married and we didnot.but i never told my husband that i secretly in my past loved my cousin and felt the same from his side but both of us never said to eachother openly.

2006-11-04 21:35:50 · 7 answers · asked by reena 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been having sex with this guy for about 2 months now and its great its amazing sex and im starting to really like him but there are a few things he does that make me feel like im just his jump off. he lives in 135th and i live in downtown brooklyn i always travel really late to see him and he never picks me up from the train station, i always buy the condoms, and once he asked me to go out and get the condoms and it was drizzling outside, another thing is he's never asked me out, he doesnt have a job so he says he doesnt have money to take me out, he said he treats me like he would treat his girl but i just cant believe that. he told me that he is feeling me even though he may not show it. he really makes me feel good and he seems to care a bout me am i making a big deal out of nothing or should i stop seeing him. im really into him and im hoping maybe a relationship can come out of this so am i just his booty call or am i a potential girlfriend?

2006-11-04 21:35:16 · 26 answers · asked by DulceVeneno 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel my long distance gf is lieing to me about her living conditions saying she living with relatives when i know for afact she living with her parents, she claims she gotta leave and she been paying rent and she will be in a shelter, but i think she just trying to get money from me i love her but am feeling well used by this now she hasnt emailed me for 2 weeks! what do i do

2006-11-04 21:34:16 · 21 answers · asked by john d 1 in Singles & Dating

i like really like this guy so how do i know he likes me back and how would i make him like me? (he's cute)

2006-11-04 21:33:04 · 8 answers · asked by mary 1 in Singles & Dating

i failed my exams, my parents r devorced, i live with my neighbours who treat me like servants and i just broke their new extremely expensive camera and my only pet,a cute rat just died. i wanna die.but how? jump of a building , burn myself? or what?tell me quick because i only have 2 days more to live.

2006-11-04 21:31:23 · 17 answers · asked by wobwobwob 3 in Family