Met a boy in June. he was lovely to me flirty etc.. all ended up in a crux moment a couple of months ago where he got drunk hit on me, i kissed him but refused to sleep with him and told him i liked him but wanted to go slow which he took as total rejection. it is unclear if he wanted a one night stand or more he says more. he has been funny for a few months contact been scarce out of his embarassment (i think) more than anything but he is a bit of a player. hes still single and walked into the bar i was in yesterday wed been texting a few days previously anyway so there was communication. he joined my party and was very nice although he ws completely drunk, i suppose my question is, does he now want to be friends and got over the rejection, does he possibly want more or was he just being polite. he had previously mentioned in his texts the day before about meeting up - also shld i text him and say nice to bump into you to get back on track or shld i wait for him to text me.
2006-11-04 21:59:40 · 16 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i suppose i am saying what is his game and what does he wish to achieve
2006-11-04 22:00:11 · update #1
he didnt hit me - he hit on me - i.e made a pass at me
yes he has a binge drinkign problem which he has asked me to help him with
and said he wld give up drinking if need be
hes not an alcoholic but when he drinks he drinks
he is also very disorganised and admits to being useless at communication if not in front of someone
2006-11-04 22:06:12 · update #2
yes sober he is a very caring individual and really sweet drunk like most he is flirty outrageous and pathetic!
2006-11-04 22:07:06 · update #3
I gave up trying to read this unpunctuated piece of drivel after 4 lines.
2006-11-04 22:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was really tricky to read!
Do they not have punctuation in your country? Or is lack of education the problem.
If I were you I'd Leach onto who ever you can because it is hard for the incredibly uneducated to get decent life partners! I would also offer you the same advise about jobs - try something manual possible, or at least something that doesn't involve writing of any kind!
Good Luck!
2006-11-04 22:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by beflihippy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He'd like to have sex with you but he doesn't really want to put the time and effort into romancing you. If you're willing to accept a few text messages and a long island ice tea as foreplay, he's all yours.
2006-11-04 22:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are wasting too much time thinking about him. The bottom line is HE HIT YOU.
Put him out of your mind & move on. He is not worth another thought.
2006-11-04 22:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are wasting your time on him and why would you want to mess around with a drunk?
2006-11-05 10:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a drinking problem, go for it - if you are ready to handle that, and think he's worth the trouble.
2006-11-04 22:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start dating some nice boy. He is not worth spoiling your mood.
2006-11-04 22:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by rams 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he wants a one night stand then he will disappear don't bother with him sounds like one of my mates from long ago who believed in the four F's
2006-11-05 00:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by P felix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi - he is after your pu55y and not you. He was only interested in ramming your cat.
A guy who has a drink issue is bad news.
Find another.
2006-11-04 22:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by Tatiana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋