i am a married woman and love my husband a lot.even he is very faithful with me.my problem is before my marriage i had a very healthy good friendship with my cousin,whom slowly i started to love but never told him.he fell in love with another girl and i helped him a lot in this issue,he got married after which he said to stop talking to him as his wife is very suspicious type,i felt insulted but to save his marriage i kept quite.meanwhile i got married and now he is divorced and alone.even today i care for him want to talk to him,but same time sincerely and truly love my husband.i am confused,this person is always there on my mind,it is been nearly 3 yrs i saw him face to face.i told my husband about this cousin of mine that we were good friends without the knowledge of both r parents as they wanted to get us married and we didnot.but i never told my husband that i secretly in my past loved my cousin and felt the same from his side but both of us never said to eachother openly.
2006-11-04 21:35:50 · 7 answers · asked by reena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is real Jerry springer ****,my advice girl is let sleeping dogs lye
2006-11-04 21:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What country are you in? He is your cousin, so forget about it. I think what you are feeling is lust and not love. You may have urges to finish what you both started and are naturally attracted to each other. You are taking a chance on loosing your husband if all of this is true.
2006-11-05 05:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by AJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a beautiful thing you say , that you love your husband . I am deeply impresed your felling about your husband and if you love your husband please do not let him down, your cousin is a relative for you and your love for him will always their as a blood cousin, but leave it like that , please do not cross you line of love between your husband and your cousin,
help him to get back to his married life and find someone eles better then first, and that is ture love if you care about him and love him as a blood cousin.
Please do not involve him in your sexual disires , hope your husband is quite enough for all that , and your can increase it with your love and care.
Hope and wish you have a very peacefull and loveable married life , and nothing will come in between you and your husband.
reply me if you want , my e mail add is amodsons@yahoo.com and also snuff@iafrica.com, and my name is MOHAMMAD ASLAM SHAIKH.
I am in SOUTH AFRICA .
2006-11-05 06:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by amodsons 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Reena,
I have been in to the subcontinent and have an idea about customs and religions there. Please do not indulge in any thing with the old cousin. I have a question, why do you still have feelings for him if you are saying that you love your husband dearly? Do add me on bh37bh37@yahoo.com if you want to discuss.
x
tom
2006-11-05 05:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sure four get your cousin and stay with your husband you still can care for your cousin but not in the way of a loved
2006-11-05 05:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u was in love may be true but i think its attrection of that age beacouse u was medieter of another girl whome ur cousine love, U r married and happy marriege life now and dont try to disterb ur life ask ur husbend to help him dont try to go near him other wise u will be reasponcibel to ruin for ur own married life .U just wait and watch he will be happy soon .
2006-11-05 05:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't look for him he is your cousin and you shouldnt have any feelings for him, if your happy with your husband just stay with him
2006-11-05 05:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by butterflynjazzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋