i feel my long distance gf is lieing to me about her living conditions saying she living with relatives when i know for afact she living with her parents, she claims she gotta leave and she been paying rent and she will be in a shelter, but i think she just trying to get money from me i love her but am feeling well used by this now she hasnt emailed me for 2 weeks! what do i do
2006-11-04 21:34:16 · 21 answers · asked by john d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find another girl.
2006-11-04 21:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
pay her a surprise visit, that's the only way to find out....if you know for a fact that she is living at her parents then just go there unannounced....she may be telling the truth, not all women are money grabbers, she may be genuinely telling the truth, i mean 2 weeks without an email, she could be in a shelter, not all shelters have internet or computers, find out for sure before doubting her, she may need your help, try and find out where she is....good luck
2006-11-05 05:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and confront her with what you believe is the truth. Ask her what she really needs the money for and if you still believe she is lying to you then you should end the relationship. Especially in a long distance relationship you need to have trust and honesty with your significant other.
2006-11-05 05:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lori V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she usually prompt in emailing you? Sounds strange that she hasn't and is your girlfriend! Maybe pay her a visit if possible... help her explore other ways she can get accommodation without you having to fork out the money...
2006-11-05 05:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by christine s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her,she obviously doesn't love you,why would you want to be with a liar like that.there is no way my family especially my mum an dad would ever chuck me out of my home.she is a user!
2006-11-05 05:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by sarah t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her and find another. There are literally millions of women out there, there's always another, and another, and another... You don't need to put up with the drama, especially not from a "long distance" girlfriend. Move on, you'll be happy you did.
2006-11-05 05:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
she's a waster by the sounds of it, also pick up a phone and ring her instead of spending the entire time on tenterhooks waiting for an email, which wouldn't express proper feelings anyway.
2006-11-05 05:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by kneel_down_and_blow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well parents are relatives!! but i suggest hat you forget about her for all ya know she could be secretly married in a plot for money! JUST A THOUGHT!find a lovely girl form your own country!
2006-11-05 05:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by *BABALICIOUS* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try & come to terms with the fact she has been using you.It will be hard however you will not believe this evenually you will meet some one who loves you & not your money.Goodluck in the future.
2006-11-05 05:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too lies, ifs, buts and maybes....I think it's time to look for real commitment and honesty. It sounds as if sh'e moved on already if you haven't heard from her for that length of time.
2006-11-05 05:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by minitheminx65 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, parents are relatives...sounds like she's just after you for money. Walk away.
2006-11-05 05:37:03 · answer #11 · answered by F 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋