yesterday me n my bf went to the pictures ryt and wen we came bak we met up wit one of his mates,josh. now this is the first time iv met him but we got on really well so he asked if we could meet up tomoro just to chat basicaly. wen i told my bf this he flipped and goes on about all my past relationships and said he doesnt trust me! weve bin going out for just over ten weeks and weve had our ups and downs but weve pulled through, now i feel like im losin him, please how can i make my bf c that nothing is guna happen btween me and josh?
2006-11-04 21:45:52 · 24 answers · asked by devils sweetheart 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i havent flirted wit josh at all we just get on well. and im sposed2 b meetin up wit josh in about an hour or so
2006-11-04 21:52:40 · update #1
the reasons weve had our ups nd downs is cause id *** outta a real bad relatioship and sometimes i cry and stuff wen i think about it so it puts a bit of stress on us both ya no?
2006-11-04 21:57:07 · update #2
I thik that everyone gets jealous and every guy would hate it if there G/F went out to meet there best mate. But maybe its happened to him before, maybe a past girlfriend went out with one of this friends and ened up hooking up with him. Or maybe he knows what this josh guys is really like.
2006-11-04 23:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Trent B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your boyfriend is just really nervous and has some confidence and trust issues. Try to ensure him that your intentions for meeting with his best friends are purely innocent. Ask him to come with so that you can all hang out together and so that you can show him that nothing is going on between you and Josh. Also, after you go and see Josh, make sure to spend some time with your boyfriend so that he can see that you are not trying to abandon him, but are in fact just trying to get to know him a bit better.
2006-11-04 22:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by laislinns 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sounds to me like your bf is insecure regading his friendship with josh and perhaps knows that josh is a bit of a ladies man, if i was you huni
i would only see josh when you are with your bf. if you and your bf split up at a leter date and you still like jiosh then the running is free aint it and there be no hard feelings. also if your relationship has had its up n downs like you said then it would seem to me that you got your work cut out already, look at yourself in 2 yrs time and see if you can picture it like that or beetter, good luck
2006-11-05 04:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by ang2912 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well huni CAN you BLAME him ???? honestly it's understandable if you look at it from his side of the fence....you have only been together 10wks, already had some ups & downs. Then you meet one of his mates for the first time and arrange to go OUT with him. All be it just for a coffee & chat, but your boyfriend won't see it like that & neither would you if he did the same thing. Tell Josh that your unable to meet up & the next arrangement to meet should be the THREE of you.
2006-11-04 21:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by Denise W 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well why would u wanna chat with josh anyways if u don't know him and how would u feel if it was the other way around with one of ur friends asking ur b/f after they met if he wanted to hang out with her...and is josh attractive or is he a player....honestly i would have a prom with that and i would confront josh
2006-11-04 21:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by wombizzle 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
nicely crystal i'm i guy my self and does no longer do this manner of bullshit and definetley no longer cope with a gurl this way. however the main suitable situation to do could be to easily stay broken up for sturdy in that he has a reason to interrupt up with you and all this is inflicting u to do is provide u a psychological breakdown. I see ur case as a rollercoaster journey as wen u bypass up u come back at the same time wen u bypass down u ruin up. I understand you like him regardless of if it would be maximum suitable to enable him bypass no count how a lot it hurts. probability is he isnt feelin you anymore. however the main suitable thank you to make certain issues is to talk to him in individual as quickly as you may c this. i'm hoping this enables alot.
2016-10-15 09:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont meet up with josh if u wanna keep this rship. its cool to get along with your guy's mates, but its not cool to hangout and talk about more personal things, especially when your bf isnt around.
honestly, u want your rship to work... u hav to set a limit on your usual interactions with other guys. after all, SERIOUSLY, there's no such thing as a straight good-guy friend, UNLESS he's already in a serious rship with someone else.
2006-11-05 00:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you think you have a real chance with your boyfriend then forget about this Josh guy and build a trusting relationship with your boyfriend.If you must go out with Josh then take your boyfriend along and show him that there is nothing fishy going on.
2006-11-04 21:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by mex 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Maybe Josh has a history of stealing girlfriends and your b/f is feeling insecure. To be honest, I wouldn't like it much if I were him. You should keep Josh at arms length, chat to him when you're in a group.
2006-11-04 21:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by F 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Don't go out with Josh till ur bf calms down
2006-11-04 21:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by ciaragw 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋