I have brought up the issue about us not being a couple yet, and he says he is not ready for a serious relationship. I truely love him and would love for things to work out. We get along well and go on dates every week, he brings me around his family too.
2006-11-03 00:01:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are happy with him then go at his pace. It sounds to me like you're a couple if he takes you around his family and you go out every week. You have to decide if you are content where you are for now. If not then tell him you need more...of course this is at the risk of losing him, but if you're not happy or content then you need to say so.
2006-11-03 00:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there are some individuals out there who just wants to date without commiting to anyone special.they keep their options open while dating freely.but if they like you better then the others, they would date you more often than them.sounds like your guy dated you often so you dont worry so much about having a status with him. because sometimes when 2 individuals date each other,one is bound to grow attached to the other.if you feel you are being emotionally attached to him but he cant offer you a relationship,i'd suggest you lie low.dont be too available for him.let him miss you once a while.hope that will give him a wake up call.
2006-11-03 08:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by pristine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he afraid to be seen with you as something more than a token girl? It sounds like he has a need to keep up appearences. However, you are a couple in fact. I'd say let him go on believing he hasn't commited himself. He may need the illusion that he's not stuck with you forever! Seriously, his definition of "couple" is something you should ask him about. But remember, nobody likes pressure.
2006-11-03 08:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lightbringer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know if he's interested in another girl or is actually seeing another girl ? If he is then he doesn't want to compromise his other relationship but also wants to have a relationship with you (taking the best out of both).
If you're sure that he doesn't have another girl or anything then you should tell him that what you're both doing is basically a relationship. Maybe he's just afraid of actual commitment because once you're in a relationship you're tied down.
2006-11-03 08:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are either of you seeing anyone else? If the answer is NO then you might want to clue him in that if you have been dating for over a year you ARE in a relationship.
2006-11-03 08:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are being played and he's wasting his time, after a year I would say, make a committment or I'm out...he's playing you a fool.
2006-11-03 08:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is it that you want him to say? Based on what you said, things are working out. It is not clear what you want. If you want to get engaged/married, if you feel like you are wasting your time then move on.
2006-11-03 08:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by candace b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. I dated a girl for six months and never called her my girlfriend. Why? Because I didn't love her.
2006-11-03 08:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by FF Geek 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wounds like he's afraid of commitment. you are a couple, regardless of what he says.
2006-11-03 08:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-03 08:06:24 · answer #10 · answered by native,pride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋