My friend is jealous because I asked this boy out the other day and she's been acting funny lately what should I do?
2006-11-03 00:08:53 · 20 answers · asked by Breeona L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you and a friend are interested in the same guy, he should be hands off.
2006-11-03 00:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your friend like the same guy and you asked him out first,she got jealous and is now acting funny? I think you should see why she is so jealous, I now she likes the same guy, but if she was a real true friend and he said yes to you, she should be happy for you. If you think it's going to effect your friendship then talk to her and see if she would be mad if you did date him. If you are good friends with her, either you or your friend would find a way to resolve it so that you are both happy. I don't know if I'm right or wrong but that's what I think you should do.
2006-11-03 12:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by djdapimp21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had the same situation except two guys liking the same girl. I knew he liked her more than I did and I did not want to risk losing my friend so I moved on.You should evaluate your feelings for this guy and see if it's worth possibly losing your friend. The two of you can agree to make this guy not datable so neither of you feels betrayed or hurt and then you can move on. You should have a heart to heart with your friend and see how much she likes him. True friends will support you if it is really major love. But it seems as teenagers whom I assume you are one of, don't feel true love that is worth risking everything for. Good luck.
2006-11-03 08:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by joe19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would never take a man over a friend. That is a good friend. Also jealousy is immature. Won't get anyone anywhere. Decide who is more important and go with it. It sounds like you are young so I'll tell you now you will like alot more guys before you marry but a good friend is one in a million!
2006-11-03 08:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this reminds me of an episode in 'friends' wherein chandler and ross likes the same girl.
you know what they did? they just avoided the girl so it won't affect their friendship because they really are close.
you should do the same because you can find other boys but at times, it's hard to lose friends because that friend might always be with you.
just explain to your friend that you two should avoid that boy and it would be a-ok.
2006-11-03 08:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by Unexpected Hopeless Romantic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the boy who he loves
2006-11-03 08:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by POWERBS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*friends forever,boys whatever*
I can honestly say that your friendship with her is more important than you having him as a boyfriend.most of the time,boyfriends don't last...but friends do.don't let guys get in the way of you two being good friends.did he say yes? if so,you may wanna break up with him,because of your friend.
2006-11-03 08:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide whether this boy is worth losing your freind over. (and I can tell you the answer is always a big fat NO) no man is worth losing a female friend for.
2006-11-03 08:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your friend know that you also wantED him but then back off & let her have him. Then, only HINT to him that you like him & step away from the 2 of them. NOW, be as hot as hot can get without interfering with their relationship & watch as he gives in to you & she cant be mad.
2006-11-03 08:12:43 · answer #9 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL ONE TIME I REMEMBER GOING TROUGH THIS WITH A FRIEND OF MINE...WE MET TWO GUYS BUT WE LIKE THE SAME GUY... SO SHE TOLD ME OR THAT ONE I WANT... I TOLD HER SO DO I... SO WHAT WE DID WAS LET HIM CHOOSE WICH ONE OF US HE WANTED TO DATE... HE CHOSE ME...LOL BUT SHE HAD TO ACCEPT IT.. BECAUSE IF HE WOULD OF CHOSE HER...I WOULD OF HAVE TO ACCEPT IT TOO.... I THINK THIS ONE IS ON HIM... GOOD LUCK AND YOU AND YOUR FRIEND SHOULD TALK ABOUT THIS SITUATION AND COME TO SOME KIND OF UNDERSTANDING..IF YOU GUYS ARE REAL TRUE FRIENDS THIS SHOULD NOT BE A PROBLEM BETWEEN YOU.. GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-03 08:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋