Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

O have posted on here many times about how great my partner is - and he is - he is one of lives good guys and we have a loving and supportive relationship. But just recently when I come home from work (I work as a chef and often get home late) and go to check my emails or something on the computer I have found erotic, quite tasteful, pictures of women that my partner has obviously been looking at. The first time he apologised and I asked if he had been searching for them ad he said 'no'. But this has happened twice since and today I found the 'search' that led to the image. I don't know whether to say anything - I mean he is entitled to his own private time and use of the computer, they are not 'porn' as such but nice, arty pictures of naked women. But I do find them upsetting - like I am not enough for him. It is especially strange as our love life has been on the up recently - more frequent and more adventurous. Any thoughts?

2006-11-03 02:45:53 · 37 answers · asked by Leapling 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-03 02:45:49 · 23 answers · asked by Muralidhar V 1 in Weddings

my b-days coming up and my boyfriend is asking what i want from him for my b-day.i dont know wat to say!!!!what should i ask for...should i just let him choose???

2006-11-03 02:45:02 · 11 answers · asked by xvintageloverx 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 02:44:26 · 5 answers · asked by Grae(ME) 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know ive asked this question before but new things keep comming up.

Ok heres the deal.

1)when he first got there he pined her down and kissed her
2)she had a girl friend at the apt.
3)they guy got naked and go into her bed
4)later she got into the bed thinking he was passed out (supposibly)
5)He aparently already had a condom on then go on top of her and took her clothes off
6)She told me that she said no 3 times to him, but did not do anytyhing else besides that
7)After she put her clothes on and told him she felt sick, he wanted to **** again
8)she sounded normal on teh phone this morning
9)she didnt call the police, but text messaged a friend who showed up after the guy left

NEW THINGS
I talked to the guy and he says that he didnt rape or force her
a girl that is friends with him said he would never do that, shes known him for 3 years
She said she wansnt drunk
She said HE brought 3 condoms with her
SHe says he call her to come over, he says she called him

PLEASE HELP ME

2006-11-03 02:44:15 · 14 answers · asked by john 3 in Singles & Dating

do women think guys are totaly boring if they run out of stuff to talk about on the phone. For instance, once in awhile after talking with a woman I have been dating now for a couple of months...we talk on the phone on a daily basis but there are times when I run out of sstuff to talk about. What exactly is going through her mind about me when that happens? Does she think Im boring or no life...or doesn't it really matter and she understands just because the phone talk can run dry?

2006-11-03 02:44:03 · 3 answers · asked by chewey 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 27 and so is my partner of 4 years. We do not live together, or have children. My partner has been abusive to me under the influence of alcohol and has expressed violence to me then, and this I cant forget even though we are fine when he is sober.He has recently attended aa meetings, but I have lost allot of love and have met another person who is very kind to me and has been there for me when I have cried all my tears as a friend. I have feeling for him now and him for me, what do I do now my partner is showing change as I do love him also

2006-11-03 02:43:58 · 29 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Like what makes them more approachable...........and how do you make it known that you like her.

2006-11-03 02:43:52 · 5 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

so there is this guy who I have had a crush on since my freshman year. Now I am a junior and i still like him and he likes me back. But now he has a kid on the way and I'm kinda waiting on a guy to get out of jail but we are both single...should I still feel this way about him?

2006-11-03 02:43:29 · 7 answers · asked by chelsea e 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 02:42:55 · 8 answers · asked by Kristykay41002 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i made a fool out of myself when i call the guy i thought he liked me.
we work together but in difference work place. at first i thought he like me b/c he wouldn't stop looking at me or talking to me. i told him i like him and he said he wasn't looking for relationship.
months after that i called him he would answer and sometime, he wouldn't answer or call back.
the last phone call i did, is making me not want to go to work this week b/c i don't want to see him. i feel like a fool b/c i decided not to call him and i did b/c he flirted with me and it was something i never seen him doing to me. that was the reson why i call him and he didn't answer or call back. i didn't know wat the flirting was about.
i just feel like fool and i didn't go to work yesterday b/c we have the same sheldule and today he leave at 5pm and i start 4:30pm. my plan was to go back to work next week & wouldn't care if he's there or not. 2day, i want to go to work but he will be there.
plz help me.

2006-11-03 02:42:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

afterwards you felt like crying and you didn't drink liquor during a meal like you were accustomed to. what does that mean?

2006-11-03 02:42:07 · 8 answers · asked by janice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-03 02:41:06 · 44 answers · asked by Gossip81 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a girl at a club, I'm 23 and slept with her. Now we're going on dates. How can I continue to be with my girlfriend and still see where this new relationship is heading?

2006-11-03 02:41:03 · 29 answers · asked by djlopez57 1 in Singles & Dating

My young love is locked up right now and he is getting out in June he writes me all the time telling me he wants get married once he gets out and we get older. I really feel as if Im in love with him but I have never hada relationship with him before (just friends since we were 10) what should I do?

2006-11-03 02:40:52 · 14 answers · asked by chelsea e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He has an xbox and PSP and I thought about getting him games but I really want to find something sentimental..I have asked him what he wants several times and he won't tell me..Please help!! Have to mail stuff out very soon!!!

2006-11-03 02:40:40 · 18 answers · asked by MOM OF 3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Those of you who get worked up by this kind of question, this is not real in my life just now. But this situation has occured before.

2006-11-03 02:39:52 · 41 answers · asked by Josephine 1 in Friends

Is there anyone who deals with this sort of issue where their spouse feels like they don't get enough encouragement or you yourself need more encouragement. My husband used to be basically a loser, no job, smoking pot and drinking with his friends all the time. During his I put so much pressure on him and stood by his side through all this until things began to change. When we had a child and got married he has stepped up. He's working and has bought a house and is an involved father and did all of this at the age of 24. He frequently complains that I don't give him positive reinforcement or encouragement. I don't as much as I should, but he wants to hear things like "thank you for changing so much from what you used to be, thank you for buying me a nice house, thank you for being a good husband." I don't say those things to him. When I do talk about it I'll say "wow I can't believe the change and where we are nor compared to 3 years ago.

2006-11-03 02:38:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just want to know what gifts do you prefer to receive on your birthday?

2006-11-03 02:37:54 · 4 answers · asked by ems 1 in Singles & Dating

i love talking to guys...i dont know y. sometimes i feel like they understand me so much more. its weird. y is it that i love talking to them? guys r so kool!

2006-11-03 02:37:46 · 6 answers · asked by hot_mama 3 in Singles & Dating

my daughter in law has a girl5 and a boy 4.she never cleans.the house is always dirty and as a grandparent im livid////what can i do

2006-11-03 02:36:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We work for the same company just different locations. He was my date for 2 of my friends weddings and I have been to his parents house for a card game. I really good friends with his sister and she even wants me to date her brother. We get along just great and always have a good time together.

2006-11-03 02:35:41 · 16 answers · asked by Phoenix77 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in relationships but this time its so strange to me.
I feel I want to be with him all along and alot. I like to just be near, like to talk to. But I don't feel to process him for my own. But if he is not around I will miss him alot. We also used to have some body contacts but ...if anyone can put some idea on it if its which kind of love or it is not a love, please welcome. Thanks in advance

2006-11-03 02:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by rosesherryrose 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend accuses me all the time for being unfaithfull to her but i am not. I love her so much but she gets angry whenever she sees me talkin to any girl even if the person in question is my sister. what the hell do i do about this?

2006-11-03 02:34:45 · 16 answers · asked by Charles T 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i have a friend that i love with all of my heart and she now has a boyfriend (or something like that) today i confronted the poor guy and now i feel like death, i told him i dont like him. I think i'm just jealous of what she has and that i am not getting her attention as much as i used to... Now i feel like S*@# do you think what i did was Childish?

2006-11-03 02:33:35 · 16 answers · asked by Thobie 3 in Singles & Dating

she acted calm cool and collective.

2006-11-03 02:33:32 · 31 answers · asked by john 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 02:33:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I WOULD HAVE TO SAY THAT MY FIRST KISS WITH A BOY WAS WHEN I WAS FOURTEEN. IWAS WITH A OBY THAT I LOVED. BUT THEN HE CHEATED ONE ME. WHICHED SUCKED BUTT.

2006-11-03 02:33:30 · 6 answers · asked by girlie 801 2 in Singles & Dating

i here guys, my guy friends saying all the time, that girls are only good for one thing!
SEX,
I tell them that they are good for that but not only sex , we are good for other things to, why cant you guys relize that??

2006-11-03 02:33:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hmm i am a loner A Singaporean. Going to NS soon after my nursing course. No Gf till now hai such a failure. Any skills in getting a gf?

2006-11-03 02:32:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends