i made a fool out of myself when i call the guy i thought he liked me.
we work together but in difference work place. at first i thought he like me b/c he wouldn't stop looking at me or talking to me. i told him i like him and he said he wasn't looking for relationship.
months after that i called him he would answer and sometime, he wouldn't answer or call back.
the last phone call i did, is making me not want to go to work this week b/c i don't want to see him. i feel like a fool b/c i decided not to call him and i did b/c he flirted with me and it was something i never seen him doing to me. that was the reson why i call him and he didn't answer or call back. i didn't know wat the flirting was about.
i just feel like fool and i didn't go to work yesterday b/c we have the same sheldule and today he leave at 5pm and i start 4:30pm. my plan was to go back to work next week & wouldn't care if he's there or not. 2day, i want to go to work but he will be there.
plz help me.
2006-11-03 02:42:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow.. well if i were you.. i would give my self time.. i would just suck it in.. act normal.. like dont make a big deal out of it.. well it will be hard but you should try it.. because im kinda noticing that this situation can really effect ur carreer.. pls dont let him ruin that.. dont show ur weakness
2006-11-03 02:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by mike s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tia,
It's a sign of personal maturity to realize your mistakes and deal with the fall out. So go to work ... talk to him and simply say .... you were having a bad time and were looking forward to talking to him .. you like him for his ... (what ever - but include "his maturity) and you needed to vent a bit ... apologize for the little rant you did and move on ... he may still think your nuts... but by telling him you were seeking someone to talk to and then accepting the responsibility for what you did / said it shows your not a immature kid.
Remember in the future ... some things once said, can leave marks you can't wipe away.
2006-11-03 10:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to remain employed I'd be going to work. You might be wise to inform this man that you will not be contacting him any longer as you feel embarrassed and don't want to look like a fool around co-workers. Just go to work and make out like nothing has happened soon enough all will be forgotten.
2006-11-03 10:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting your time with someone who seems to be just playing around your head. Don't let this situation affect you in any other way. He seems not to know what he really wants in his life. Move on and ignore him. He's not worth it.
2006-11-03 10:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Damngorgeous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you concentrate of giving your employer the 100% he pays you for???? GO TO WORK. FORGET THE GUY. MOVE ON.
And don't start any office romances. It makes the water very muddy.
2006-11-03 10:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so you know he does not like you big deal, go to work, you can not go to work you have bills to pay, its not like being in school where you sit behind him and everyone in school knows about it, your both mature and just brush it off your shoulders now, go to work.
2006-11-03 10:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always go to work. Just ignore his stupid self! And go on with your life girl! Be tough, you can handle this.
2006-11-03 10:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by wwjd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes go wit him now 4 real
2006-11-03 10:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋