I met a girl at a club, I'm 23 and slept with her. Now we're going on dates. How can I continue to be with my girlfriend and still see where this new relationship is heading?
2006-11-03 02:41:03 · 29 answers · asked by djlopez57 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW... you are a PIG!!!!!!! I think that when you started thinking of doing something with this other girl you should have broken it off with you girlfriend..
Some advice from you.. I was in a relaitonship for 6 years.. we were highschool sweethearts... he cheated on me and then told me that he jsut wasn't sure what he wanted.. he hadn't experienced anything other than me so that is why it happened.. he said he loved me but didn't know if he was in love with me so he wanted some time apart to think... well that time apart turned into a few months and then you know what happened.. the jerk realized what he had and came back but it was too late.
so sometimes when you are in a relationship for so long you tend to overlook a lot things, you tend to take things for granted.. you tend to think do I really want this what if there is something else out there.. and then you follow your doubts and find out everything you wanted you had but its too late... don't let it be too late for you.. figure out what you want.. and you need to talk to your girl you can't hide that! Also I hope you used protection if not you also need to tell your girl and you both should get checked there are a lot of diseases out there!
Hope this helped..
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2006-11-03 02:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are in basic terms some those which could be acquaintances with their ex genuine away - incredibly while the breakup isn't a mutual determination. If she continues to be feeling this way while she gets returned from the holiday then tell her which you rather want a minimum of 6 months previously you additionally can evaluate questioning of her as in basic terms a chum. yet you should be arranged which you are going to ought to circulate on and settle for that if she enjoyed then you definitely yet somebody else can love you too. It speaks volumes of your character which you had a seven year dating at 15. it incredibly is a uncommon element to hit upon a individual prepared to commit at this manner of youthful age. there are various marriages that don't even make it that long. it is going to wreck for a on a similar time as yet you're approximately to be sure how solid you rather are. At 22 years previous - it is the initiating - no longer the tip. And in 6 months time i think you would know that.
2016-10-21 05:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. It's just not fair to either girl because either way you're going to hurt one of them. You should sit down and think of why you've been with your girlfriend for 7 years because if you are willing to see where another relationship will go while still dating her then you aren't showing much care and feelings toward her. If you really liked or loved your girlfriend then it wouldn't matter that you have the chance to see where another relationship could lead you. But if you still want to see where it could go then I suggest that you break up with your current girlfriend otherwise she will just be hurt and angry. Either way, if you see where the new relationship takes you then you may lose your current girlfriend forever in the process.
2006-11-03 02:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honest advice, grow up. You are 23 and clearly very unsure of what you want. You are not ready for a commitment, you met your Girlfriend when you were pretty much kids now you are a man and you want to taste the world, that's fine but be a man about it, tell your girlfriend that (I can't believe I am going to use this cliche) "you think you should see other people." You have to be fair to her, if you are going to see other people she should be allowed to see other people too.
2006-11-03 02:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You cheated on your girlfriend, regardless of how you'd like to see it. If you want to date someone else, break up with your girlfriend first and try the other relationship. Do not string along both girls until you find something that you like and drop one of them. That is a really horrible thing to do to someone especially if you claim that you love her (the girlfriend). You need to make a decision and stop thinking with your penis okay?
2006-11-03 02:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your girlfriend. If you feel the need to have a break with her, maybe thats what you both need. Just be honest with her. Its not fair to her or the other girl if you lead them both on. But, if you really love your girlfriend, then is it worth the risk to loose her to go into territory that is unknown and un secure yet. But, honesty is the best. If you let her go, and she comes back to you, she was yours to begin with, if you let her go, and you find love in this new girl, than that may be what you were searching for. Good luck!!! PS just dont be a pig about it.
2006-11-03 02:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by tweetybyrd23fizbak 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hell no you gotta be shitting me. you're basically saying you want to cheat on your girlfriend. you should choose one or the other.
think about it this way. if you slept with this girl just one night, doesn't it give you any ideas of what this new girl might be like? as to being with your girlfriend which you've known for 7 years now? this new girl might leave you in a snap, and your real girlfriend won't. think about it.
and unless you want your girlfriend of 7 years to hate you don't tell her.
2006-11-03 02:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by peacegal91 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a horrible thing going on here. Your best bet would be to either end the "new relationship" or end your girlfriend of 7 years. You need to tell your girlfriend what happened..maybe she will understand, if not, then I don't know what to tell you. You can't drag your girlfriend around like that..that't not fair!
2006-11-03 02:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by MOM OF 3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't and shouldn't want to. When and I did say when your girlfriend finds out she is going to feel like she was kicked in the stomach, hurt, betrayed. Why would you do that to someone you love. Maybe you are too young to be in a committed relationship and if you are interested in dating then move on.
2006-11-03 02:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by Hopey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need to end your relationship with your g/f..if you want things to work with the new girl you met then you don't want her to find out that you are cheating on your g/f if 7 YEARS! she'll think you are a cheater, break things off with your g/f and continue to date the girl!
2006-11-03 02:44:45 · answer #10 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋