Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

we have four kids and i dont know if i love her orif she loves me i have asked here to go on tripes but she says she does not like to fly or no one will wach the kids i was abel to get to france for a week but she would not come and see me i could not go home i will be home for the first time in 8months & asked to send a weekend together to go some where she said will see what the *** sould i find someone over here to do things with or what come on ladys what do you want from us guys i have done everything to try to keep my marriage going i dont know what to do any more

2006-10-30 23:59:06 · 18 answers · asked by lost 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need company. should i start a family or rather start keeping new company or what. pls sincere answers only. thanks.

2006-10-30 23:58:16 · 35 answers · asked by ineem20012005 1 in Friends

i was at the store last night and this cute manager was flirting with me. and he remembered me and my mom from sunday . do you think he flirts with every girl. he was being really nice to my mom sacking food for her almost like he was trying to get her trusts?

2006-10-30 23:56:37 · 24 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

My mum has recently got in touch with her son that she had adopted when he was born. My brother and I are meeting him for the first time on our mums birthday on the 18th. He sent me a birthday card (my birthday is tomorrow) and in it he asked for advice about what to get our mum. I have no idea what to get her myself, let alone what to tell him to get her. She likes travelling (she is currently in S.Africa), but i'm not really sure what else. Mumsy things really! She's about 55

2006-10-30 23:55:53 · 16 answers · asked by Dunk 3 in Family

I've been with my girlfriend for over 7 months. We've been through a lot together and get on really well but every now and then, she pushes me away, saying she needs space and that she doesn't want me. This never usually lasts more than a couple of days and then she can't get enough of me again.

It's happened again, in a big way and she's ended things with me. Then, the next day, she wants to see me and ends up staying round my house. She still seems unsure about what she wants and despite saying she doesn't feel love for me and that there's no "spark", she then admits she does, at times, feel love for me. It's very changeable, sometimes she's 100% sure about me and loves me to bits and then, within weeks, she doesn't want me.

I'm not going to give up on her as I love her to bits and I don't want to force her to make a decision and stick to it but I feel at a bit of a loss. Other than give her space to think, what can I do?

2006-10-30 23:55:26 · 21 answers · asked by bitofacretin 3 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-30 23:54:38 · 10 answers · asked by Kizzy_ 5 in Singles & Dating

not really in a financial postion to do it I really want a baby as I feel time is running out a bit and I don't want to leave it too late. My boyfriend would be happy for us to have a baby but is worried about the financial implications. My family are also worried about this. Is there ever a right time to have a baby.?

2006-10-30 23:54:09 · 12 answers · asked by Muffin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's a married guy that i once worked with before he left for another company. I like him as a friend but of late he's actions confuse me. He takes me out during weekends, I feel turning him down will be a little unkind if by any chance he has no feelings what so ever for me. We only talk as mere friends though, we don't get personal, meaning he doesn't know anything about my BF and i know nothing about his wife, except that they have a son. I wouldn't commit adultery with him, but i fear not everyone will understand or believe me.

2006-10-30 23:52:08 · 16 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Friends

I am not sure what I am supposed to do with his key. He gave it to me and I understand the trust issue. But what does it mean? Am I supposed to walk in there and clean, take his dog out, make his dinner, come in when he isn't there? Cuz when he is there I don't need a key. Im confused (doesn't take much). Just go in and hang out while he is at work? huh? *rolls eyes* Someone please explain this part of the dating process.

2006-10-30 23:51:21 · 12 answers · asked by nightcanon.rm 2 in Singles & Dating

If you're a guy who flirts alot and then you are sincerely interested in a girl. How would you try to impress her? Would you continue to flirt with other girls in front of her? Do you think that would impress her? Or you're just not interested enough to flirt less?

2006-10-30 23:48:51 · 9 answers · asked by bestwomanberry 2 in Singles & Dating

what can i say? he lies, he steals, he doesnt care about anyone but himself. 4 years of this is just too much.

2006-10-30 23:48:26 · 27 answers · asked by -Dank- 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was abused as a child by my mums boyfriend i am in counceling but i wonderd what all you have to say all advice would be greatfull i used to HATE my mum but not now i am older i realise it wasnt her fault but yet its still hard please help me if you can

2006-10-30 23:47:44 · 11 answers · asked by Ricky S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-30 23:46:50 · 4 answers · asked by Alexander B 1 in Friends

I live by my own, have a kid to raise and everything is fine in my life except for my mother. She is controlling and abusive, she likes to make me feel miserable, and even worst, she is thinking about selling her house to move with me!! Help! How can I tell her no without hurting her feelings? I know she doesn't mean to be mean but she is, and I cannot stand this anymore.

2006-10-30 23:46:30 · 7 answers · asked by marylapana 2 in Family

Sometimes my bf drinks from friday 'til sunday. And it's not even in a special ocassion, like a holiday or something. He drinks and gets drunk because he wants to. Recently he missed a compromise he had with his boss to work on a Sunday. Plus, he didn't go to work on Monday and Tuesday. I've decided to end our relationship because of the many times he has done this. What makes me even more mad is that when he does this he has me up all night, when I have to go to work the next day, because he's either sorry, his back hurts or he has chest pain. (Go figure, the heat from all the alcohol). This time there's no turning back, but he keeps on saying he needs help and he wants me to help him get help because supposedly he accepts he has an alcoholism problem. I would like to believe him, but it's so convenient for him to tell me this every time he goes in these drinking weekends. And then there's his manipulating mother also. This is a real situation. Please help!

2006-10-30 23:45:42 · 4 answers · asked by Playera 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are both very scared, It was huge like a bazooka.

2006-10-30 23:45:41 · 6 answers · asked by andre 1 in Friends

I call him for a booty call (this has been going on for 3+ years-- great sex) and his reply this time is: Ut Oh... I'm starting to feel some stirrings and I don't want to bait them.... I say ok and he apologizes before we hang up...... Is this over?? or was that an 'I'm unavailable today"?

2006-10-30 23:45:04 · 12 answers · asked by who me? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 23:44:05 · 21 answers · asked by meeraharinder 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my husband have been married for 9 months.It was a whirl wind romance ,he made me laugh and made me feel really good about myself.

when i met him it was the best thing ever .we got married after being together 4 9 months.too soon ,i start to think now....

i truly love him,he makes me feel special he turns me on,i do fancy him.
But he acts childish,he is only 21,i am 23,but i grew up very quickly .
I find myself keep thinking this relationship isnt right,i have always had older boyfriends ,at least 10 yrs older etc.
i like to be looked after ,taken care off,i do work ,but i mean the household bills etc finances.My husband dont havea clue ,i find myself struggling with with everything,he is a typical 21yr old.

i really do love him but wish he would grow up a bit ,am i just kidding myself ,should i finish things now before my love turns sour and start despizing him for the things he cant do.

2006-10-30 23:40:47 · 22 answers · asked by bradderswifey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why some people love to leave hickey on their partner's body?

2006-10-30 23:40:02 · 13 answers · asked by omid 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 23:37:14 · 16 answers · asked by long tall sally 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 23:36:48 · 10 answers · asked by Jeff W 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-30 23:36:47 · 15 answers · asked by MAXY 2 in Weddings

If you do not live with your partner and they invite a person of the opposite sex (an old freind) to stay with them for a month (in your absence), are you ok with that?

2006-10-30 23:33:40 · 11 answers · asked by Triestobewise 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it just telling her: "Hey, you know, I have been wanting to tell you something I can't keep to myself anymore. I really like you. Do you feel the same way towards me?"

Or is there another way to do that?

But, please only the one that I can do in a tuition place.

2006-10-30 23:32:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf, is kind of naturally jealous, she always been like that. But it never bothered me and in some way I kinda liked it, it made me feel safer.

She had a real problem with me going out, so I went out less. She even had a problem with me when I mentioned going on cigarette breaks with the girls at work. We even went to a bar once and when I was queuing up at the bar, a girl next to me said she had been waiting a while already and that I was going to have a long wait ahead, I made conversation, I didn't want to ignore her. When I returned with the drinks I got one evil look and my gf said stuff like, who was that, what you talking to her for etc etc.
But now, she's made a friend (some dude - I’ve met him and he's alright) at work (she only works on the weekends) and she’s out (only for a few hrs to have a drink after work) like every sat and sun.

I said to her, if was doing that, there would be a problem, but she insist she wouldn't be.

Why the change?

2006-10-30 23:32:02 · 26 answers · asked by speedball182 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I've noticed a pattern I have of having relationships with men who are elaborate liars. None have gone so far as to cheat and I'm sure of this, but they will not be honest about small things, like if they were working or at the bookstore, etc., and this happens over and over. If anyone has experience with something similar and has an idea why this occurs, I'd appreciate your advice!

2006-10-30 23:31:17 · 7 answers · asked by lulu 2 in Singles & Dating

I have no idea what this means. As a guy, that kinda makes you feel a little on the, ah, little side... At first impressions anyway... Any girls out there understand this statement and care to help a guy totally in love with an amazing woman understand?

2006-10-30 23:26:33 · 22 answers · asked by Skakig 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 23:25:43 · 2 answers · asked by stanley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 23:25:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating