Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

i am 24 and my bf is 36, actually were planning to get married. But he always get jealous, the fact that i'm not doing anything wrong!!! when i ask him why does he got jealous, he will simply say because i love you so much and i don't wanna loose you!!! what do you think is the best that i can do to let him know that he has nothing to worry, avoid being insecure and to stop being jealous?!

i already try to discuss this to him but still nothing happened...

2006-10-28 23:55:00 · 25 answers · asked by she 2 in Singles & Dating

The other day I was rooting through the bins behind Asda for my lunch when I met a fellow tramp called Tom. We got talking and eventually started getting on really well. We shared some white lightning and had some games of trolley dodgems and trolley racing. Oh we had a right laugh all day long. The problem is a pal of mine (Hugh Jenas) has warned me that Tom has alcohol, gambling and debt issues. He said if i pursue this friendship it will be a disaster and all end in tears. Do you think I should listen to Hugh an stay away? Or carry on having fun with the bum?

2006-10-28 23:51:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Have you ever used a sexual activity to get what you want? I am sure you know what I mean, I dont have to be more explicit.

My wife did something for me so I would buy her this outrageously expensive handbag, I love her to bits, I would have brought her it anyway....lol

2006-10-28 23:49:19 · 23 answers · asked by Sidgey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 27 yrs of age, UNHAPPILY married, with 3 kids, 2 of which are my biological children. I work as a loan officer which in this day and age has its ups and downs. My wife works part time for USC and attends school fulltime. The original agreement was if you took accelerated units and completed school fast I would work and hold home down. That was 3 yrs ago. Times and money has changed. I asked her at the beginning of the yr to get a job so she could help. If need be take time off of school. Instead of taking a $60k a yr job she took a $13hr job so she could still go to school. Now money is super tight, behind on bills, and now Im the triflin one, im the one who isnt doing his job. Mind you im commision only. When I was out in the streets, I was everyting she didnt want. (Her opinion) Now im trying to do right, Im wrong! I fore warned her, she didnt listen. Now that money is gone and times are hard, she hates me. No Sex, Attention, the kids are constantly put ahead of me. Help!

2006-10-28 23:46:58 · 18 answers · asked by aukasted1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

havenot been with anyone in the pass five month i and my ex are no longer together but tuesday night i wanted to call but i donot wise to make it look as if we are geting back together

2006-10-28 23:41:21 · 8 answers · asked by lines 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like it when he leaves me mesmerized and his presnece creates the allure of opulent illusion & sexual mystery. I like men who are passionate and yet possess a subtle & discreet demeanor.

what do you prefer in your loved one

2006-10-28 23:40:13 · 7 answers · asked by Eden 1 in Singles & Dating

i its hard to concentrate but i desparately need help i have blundered by saying yes to marriage .i said yes coz of social pressure. i am not able to throw him out of my head. i have to still PREPARE A LOT FOR THE EXAMS

2006-10-28 23:40:07 · 13 answers · asked by j a 1 in Weddings

how can women like a mans hands to be sexey i have 3 smashed finger nals that have been messed up for years

2006-10-28 23:39:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

@ work it seems that having a good work ethic, exception technical skills and great customer service means sh*t all as the aspect of working with a team usually ends up in me pulling other ppl's weight. I get no rewards and miss out on promotions that I think I deserve for my diligence and pursurverance.
@ the social seem it is seem as uncool to be kind or show emotions.
In the relationship scene it's mostly rejection.
I wonder... I have this problem and I know alot of other guys that are really good people, but get harrased and never get the attention of decent women.
I feel sometimes as if the world is pushing me not to care and just be like the scum I see in my local town. I personally don't think alot of the same things as other ppl and I feel alienated because of my views to be morale and justified.
I often think that it is negatively skewed and the perception of it's only wrong if you get caught and to lie, cheat and steal is the way to go these days.I'd like to be wrong:-

2006-10-28 23:38:35 · 17 answers · asked by Psy. 1 in Singles & Dating

is aged 11 and doesn't know what she would like for christmas. she is sporty and likes to do outside things. any ideas on what to get her. thanks.

2006-10-28 23:37:59 · 18 answers · asked by magicalle 4 in Family

hates her name. what do you suggest to make her like it

2006-10-28 23:36:23 · 15 answers · asked by magicalle 4 in Family

for all the people that are in long term relationships (10 years plus). Do you wish there was more affection in your relationship or are you happy with the way things have doled down? Do you miss all the excitment of the new love? Do you just wish there was more in your relationship.

2006-10-28 23:32:23 · 21 answers · asked by I'm In Love With Delicious 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Some of the questions in "answers" from have been "My husband/partner treats me like dirt", "My boyfriend is sleeping around" or "he doesnt respect me" or "I dumped me 3 times should I take him back" or "He wants me but not my kids"

Why, when their partner has treated them so badly do they need to ask the question "what should I do" "but I still love him" "should I dump him, when the answer is clearly YES

Why do women put up with so much cr~p?

2006-10-28 23:28:18 · 40 answers · asked by Simon M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hmm..

I am 33. I like a girl who is 27 but i couldn't determine her feelings for me as we are still friends at this stage although i do know we have mutual feelings unlike most of the other platonic friendships i have.

There are few gals who enjoy my friendship but i turn down 4 dates thus far as I felt since they might not lead to marriage there is no point starting.

Somehow at this moment i notice another gal, 7 yrs my junior who seems to like to stick with me. i like her company too, i mean the interaction is so enjoyable. But i wouldn't wish to hurt her as she is really a nice gal. I sense that she like me but i hope i am wrong.

The 27 yr old gal is the kind of gal who i am looking for the lifetime, even my 2 ex-gf will never come so close.
I wish things is much easier for me and her.

I really don't like mind guessing.

What should i do?

2006-10-28 23:27:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've passed through several cases where you meet a friend ( in this case a guy) and at first they are nice to you. They seem honest, sweet, etc. for the first couple of days. Then somehow something has to happen and this "friend" stops talking to you.

Why in earth does this happens? What is it that you deserve this crap when you trusted someone and talked and shared things in a good friendly way? Why is people like this?

2006-10-28 23:27:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

for example: some ppl they save it like - honey, sweety, my love,ect.
what to you prefer

2006-10-28 23:22:51 · 10 answers · asked by supremeiran 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 & I'm studying in a pre university college. I want to buy a cell b'coz all my other friends have it & they sms each other & i feel very bad that i dont have it. If i ask my dad he'll never agree to buy it. So i'm thinking of buying it by collecting my pocket money everyday & buy a new cell without telling anyone in my house am i right in my decision?

2006-10-28 23:21:03 · 19 answers · asked by nutan_nutty 2 in Singles & Dating

actually i have sex wid my bf once or twice a month. do u think sex cud be the reason for these probs

2006-10-28 23:17:02 · 11 answers · asked by tania 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband left me without any warning his last words were if you could have had children id stay.10 months later i hear hes had a baby with a much younger woman we were married 12 years his family have cut me out of their lives as i have no family ive lost everything how do i carry on i did nothing wrong only loved and cared for him i had 3 miscarriages and he didnt seem that interested at the time how do i get on with my life now please

2006-10-28 23:16:40 · 31 answers · asked by toto 2 in Family

Besides getting physical, is there somthing like candles, food, music, cuddling that a woman needs to make a "Romantic" evening? What is the que this is romantic?

2006-10-28 23:14:30 · 15 answers · asked by Red 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I notice that most man are seeking woman younger by 10 to 15 yrs than themselves ... to me it's like a parental love ..

2006-10-28 23:14:06 · 15 answers · asked by Alicia 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm currently on a long distance thing with my girlfreind, right until I get the cash to move to her place. No problem.

However I was given access to her mail account by her and found an email discussing how she loved me AND her best friend sent to one of her friends. She really serious with me and I'm pretty shocked. Although I'm pretty certain nothing has happened between the two of them.

So what do I do?

Leave it alone and hope that things sort out or confront her (everything is fine, apart from me finding this out) and admit that I looked through her account?

So confused....

S

2006-10-28 23:11:42 · 8 answers · asked by S Cobolt 1 in Singles & Dating

I was going to call wednesday since she was going out of town.
monday & tuesday. Should I call today to wish her a good trip
or would this sound too desparate or anxious? or pushy ?
I have not talked to her since past thursday..

If I call, should I keep it brief?
SHOuld I ask to set a time for this week to get together for
a 2nd date ??

2006-10-28 23:10:49 · 14 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this chick on my 21st bday which was october 4th and it turned out it was her bday too and we got together and had some drinks and hit it off...she is bi and after that night she has been flirting with me and she is really into girls...so i asked her if she wanted to watch some movies and eat some popcorn on halloween night and she said that would be great...see the thing is, i am super shy around females..i blush like mad if any female is hitting on me...i really like this girl...i have a hard time flirting..i get all choked up and stuff, is there anything i can do to make the night go smoother?....i don't even know if she even likes me that way or not, even though she has flirted with me...but people flirt all the time, sometimes it doesn't mean anything...i am lookng for a gf...but if it ends up being a friends with benefits thing i guess i'm ok with it....i haven't had a gf or a fling with a chick in a few years...

2006-10-28 23:07:27 · 3 answers · asked by Sydney 2 in Singles & Dating

He is always looking at me(smiling)eventhough I try to put on a serious look. He likes calling me names. Always making fun of me. Uses all kinds of names to call me. He likes play hitting me(on the forehead). Always talking about other girls that he like in front of me. His friends often making fun of him about me and him. He is shy of that and always change the topic and uses other couple names. Does all this mean anything? He is very talkative. He is a Pisces and I'm a Sagittarius. If it helps. Eventhough I don't really believe in this horoscopes.

2006-10-28 23:07:25 · 6 answers · asked by Alicia 5 in Singles & Dating

Im really curious cause Ive only been with my husband and there's loads of sexual tension between this guy Im chatting with. Im happily married and I think my husband gives me what I need sexually but what if..? Its just a one night stand and I cant stop thinking about this plz help.

2006-10-28 23:05:13 · 40 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Singles & Dating

I am having trouble looking for nice matured man to love ... where are you ?

2006-10-28 23:02:33 · 12 answers · asked by Alicia 1 in Singles & Dating

This happened In bed with my girlfriend last weekend, who was a little sick.

she was unenthusiastic when it came to sex, like she was doing it out of pity (I didn't react to the fact that she was sick at the time..)
The unenthusiasm completely turned me off, and we didn't finish our business. when she asked me what was wrong, i told her with a disappointed voice that "I've never been turned off so quickly before" (which was true, and how i felt at the time)
However, i didn't realise how selfish i had been.
She's the egotistic type of woman, and is very upset at the comment i gave her. she believes im no longer attracted to her but i still love her very much.

shes changed her attitude towards me since. I thought about it, I guess if she had told me the same line, i'd be upset too. so im in the wrong all up.

Any advice on how i can make our relationship go back to normal? i've tried apologizing, didn't exactly work...

any advice is appreiciated! thanks!

2006-10-28 23:01:47 · 11 answers · asked by Billie 1 in Singles & Dating

If an attached man was out and had a few drinks and an attractive woman came up to him and offered him sex with absolutely no strings attached, would he take her up on her offer.

2006-10-28 22:59:31 · 71 answers · asked by Ally 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-28 22:57:49 · 15 answers · asked by budi 2 in Marriage & Divorce