Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

i m doing engg.,3rd year.im going around with my boyfriend since we were in school.
now we are in same class in coll.Its still 2 yrs left before my engg. gets completed,n then i have plans to give GRE n study MS in the US,n so does he.
my mom wants me to stop seeing him right now,n then think about him later......after i get a decent job.
its hard for me to leave him.....
n i dont wanna let my mother down.
what am i to do?plz help!!!

2006-10-28 19:40:30 · 23 answers · asked by ankita v 2 in Singles & Dating

The guy I love moved 450 miles away. I have a child in school here but was going there when school was out but in 6 months he starts talking to someone else at work. Well he stayed there a year and then when his lease is up he moves in with her saying he is leaving if he gets a job somewhere else. He says "Oh I don't love her I thought I was waiting for you. Till your daughter graduates from school I still love you and he calls everyday saying I Love You. Why don't he just be with her and leave me alone?

2006-10-28 19:40:12 · 8 answers · asked by BC 1 in Singles & Dating

I have two best friends.. we are always together but they don't share secrets with me.. and everytime we are together, I cannot relate with their conversation because of that thing.. and it occurs everytime..

I decided to cut our friendship.. but they don't know the reason..

a friend tell them and they always want to approach me to ask apologize..

but I keep on staying away from them..

What sould I do/?

2006-10-28 19:40:05 · 7 answers · asked by Purps.. 2 in Friends

she is perfect! i love her SO much! b 4 she came to this school every1 would ignore me......i sat in the table by myself, i mean, people have tried to sit by me but i would ignore them when they would try to talk to me.......but when she came it all changed. I remember on the 1st day the popular people invited her over 2 there table but she said she wanted 2 go sit by me and they were all "o the emo kid, yeah......good luck w/that" she still sat by me and did every day until i started talking 2 her. now were really good friend......but i think shes 2 good 4 me......i feel like she only c's me az a frend. Right now shes going out w/her dumb guitarist friend, who i think doesnt deserve her.....i think no1 deserves her. Im worried wut 1day i might do 4 her......when i heard she went out w/that dumb a** i cut myself...........so yeah.........

2006-10-28 19:39:58 · 6 answers · asked by .............. 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I have this guy that I like and I asked him if he liked me more than a friend. He stared at me with his beautiful eyes for 2 minutes and said I'm sorry I only like u as a friend. I told him at a Halloween party and we've been talking a lot before then so I didn't know if he liked me or not. During the party he was just hanging around most of the time with another girl (who happens to freak me out) and also likes him as well but he doesn't talk to her anymore. Then he wanted to hug me when the party was over and I said ok. He hugged me for like 3 minutes straight then only let one arm go on me to where he had his arm around me, then we went our seperate ways home. Does he like me and just hiding it or what?

2006-10-28 19:39:49 · 6 answers · asked by brown eyed gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

Well we go to school with this gurl, Elenita, which my mom knows we can't stand her. She thinks she's all that and is very known around school (popular). We are so different from her, we have friends but aren't really known in school. She's soposely so perfect...a straight A student, she's involved in school activities well thats how my mom puts it. The thing that most pisses me off is that she's so skinny and we are fat, she's a gurly girl and we aren't, and my mom still has the balls to tell us we should be like that. Well we have thought of doing so much stuff just to please her. We haven't told her how we feel since she told us to be like ELENITA, we can't just stop thinking about that.So we need advice!!!!!! Help us please!!!!!Oh by the way she's always putting it in our face how ELENITA is going to graduate and is going to go to college and how we aren't even going to graduate.

2006-10-28 19:39:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

About a month ago, the promise ring that my boyfriend of 2 years gave me broke. Right about that time, things started getting pretty bad between us. Coinsidence?

2006-10-28 19:39:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends stuffs her bras so her boobs can look bigger, should i do the same, do guys like that?

2006-10-28 19:38:00 · 29 answers · asked by sexy lady 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 19:37:57 · 20 answers · asked by toe 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine are out of control, and they always have been. Sure, they make up a huge part of me, but how can I make them inspire me to do good instead of pouting and wishing and whining? Heehee.

2006-10-28 19:36:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You and your loved one were going on a vacation...and this man comes and tells you: I have billion dollers in this bag and shows it to you...he asks what do you choose? the billion dollors or your loved one? if you chose the money...your love one would leave you and you can never see her again....and if you pick your loved one, the men would leave off and never come by again....what whould you choose...???

2006-10-28 19:36:38 · 16 answers · asked by Mololina 2 in Singles & Dating

if i ask a girl if they like to go out, but im not TOTALLY familer with her, and she says "no" ..do u think i should try to get to no her more and ask her out again later on? or do girls find that annoying and thinks im just a dumba ss

2006-10-28 19:36:25 · 4 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

quick question, basically a girl tells me to go to movies with her, and she brings her mate, and boyfriend.The girl talks heaps to me and we are now quite close, and she even took me out for lunch the other day, My question, if they get their boyfriends coming along to movies is this a sign that shes not interested, or shes trying to see how i react,i really do feel she likes me....she talks heaps to me, txts in the weekends, and always wanting me to go out and do things with her....idont know whether shes playing with me or trying to see how i react?

2006-10-28 19:36:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with her clothes on, she looked smokin'. come to find out, she was wearing a girdle, bra was stuffed w a bra w fake built in breasts, scars from apregnancy and lets just say not what i pictured. i still like her, but am let down a little. she lied and said her bod was flawless w no scars, etc... i dont mind shes not perfect, but i wished she was honest in the 1st place. what should i think of this girl now?

2006-10-28 19:36:12 · 3 answers · asked by jos q 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i fell in love with this girl and then she cheated on me so i left her. then i fell in love with another girl and now she left me cuz she sad that she dosent need any more drama in her life right now and she was missing her ex from way back in the day. but my question is how and the hell is it that every time i fall in love somthing happens and i lose the person i fell in love with?

2006-10-28 19:36:05 · 4 answers · asked by n_jevne 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my girlfriend. But she has only had 3 serious relationships and has had sex with 9 people before me. My views are that you should only have sex woth someone that you truly know and care about. I have only been intimate with 2 people before her and they were both people that I dated for over a year. It really bothers me that 6 of the people she has had sex with were just casual encounters. How can I get over this? I feel awful but can't get it out of my head. I don't want to keep bringing it up to her because I know that there is nothing that she can do....

2006-10-28 19:35:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 19:35:20 · 20 answers · asked by rightio 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-28 19:34:52 · 17 answers · asked by yvonne c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been going out with this amazing, beautiful girl for 2 weeks and she likes me alot. she already writes me poems explaining that she LOVES me! i of course write poetry back, and she says she loves it. she one said she shead some tears and had an urge to hold me for life.

here is one of the poems

* i've repeated this question alot but i need to know from many other people*

It's about her and I, riding the bus to highschool. and this day really happened.



Time on the bus is short lived
But she makes every second count
Her presence makes a cheerful, warm, and cozy atmosphere
She gradually holds my arm, in a tender, loving fashion
My heart discontinues to beat, Frozen
Realizing that this moment is not dream
The realism sets my heart on fire
Knowing that she brought me to the splendor of paradise
She yet lays her cherished golden hair on my shoulders
Finally, we have our moment of harmony

QUESTION= what is so special about me, to her?

2006-10-28 19:34:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, so i like my friend (I'll call him Q) (and I have for over a year). I told him that a year ago and he laughed it off (we were'nt that great of friends after that) and finally time has healed my mistake and we are friends currently. I thought again maybe he likes me (cause he flirst w/me) but thinking about it. Now i realize he might like my BFF. He told her her eyes were pretty, and that he had a "dream" about her (sex dream), and he stares at her lots during lunch. They're great friends but she dosen't like him that way and already has a date to the dance. I want to ask him to saides as friends and maybe if he has a great time, he'll think of me as more. Or would it be stupid, and try to hang out with my firend and not me?

...I sound like a total drama queen, I know, I just really like this guy.and i'm so *#$#@# jealous of my friend and she dosen't even like the guy!!!! advice would be greatly appreciated, thanx for reading about my pathetic problems

2006-10-28 19:33:50 · 7 answers · asked by Dancing with love 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 19:33:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i was wondering, lets say i like this girl, and i treat her real nice, for ex. paying for stuff, taking her out to places (not romantic places);
would she think im just being a friend, and NOTHING more?

2006-10-28 19:31:31 · 18 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend and i broke up, he was abusive mentally and physically. His cousin and him was best friend until his cousin found out that he was abusing me, when my x gave me problems his cousin would hide me at his mom house and hold me all night until I fall asleep. One night I went to a guy house that I knew that my x hated just so he would leave me alone, but his cousin forund out and ran in his house, picked me up, and carried me out of his house; I told him I know you love me but it just can't be. I know he loves me I see it in his eyes, I saw it when he carried me out of that house, I see it when he wants to kiss me and don't. A couple of days ago my x gave me a black eye and his cousin beat him for it I am so tired of all of this we were not that serious for him to fight me like this. I am in love with his cousin, his mom says we spend to much time together and she is scared for us. He wants me to move in with him, he said he loves me to much to watch anything happen to me.

2006-10-28 19:30:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Really I would think if they were good friends it woun't happen what is your input.

2006-10-28 19:30:49 · 7 answers · asked by rivers_mom 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been thru the ringer this year, and I will not look back at it fondly. I am feeling wicked, and want to act on those feelings. How can I hold them back?

2006-10-28 19:30:25 · 24 answers · asked by desertskieswoman 5 in Marriage & Divorce

she is my sister in laws girlfriends daughter

2006-10-28 19:30:18 · 33 answers · asked by larryreallast 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 19:29:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 19:28:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are some signals a guy (who isn't a blatantly obvious sexual asshole) give off to let a girl know he likes her. Signs, like showing off ect?

2006-10-28 19:28:35 · 2 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

okay. so i was at the movies witha buncha friends. and we left early cuz the movie sucked. and so we just walked around. and i really liked this guy. and then we were in starbucks. and i was layin' on his lap and we started kissing. then like 10 minutes later he asked me out. of course i said yes. and then when we were just standing around waiting for our rides and we started kissing. like making out pretty much. like we were standing against the wall. with major tongue action. is that wrong/weird? to be tongue kissing on the day he asked me out.

2006-10-28 19:28:25 · 12 answers · asked by soccer loser0903 3 in Singles & Dating