My ex-boyfriend and i broke up, he was abusive mentally and physically. His cousin and him was best friend until his cousin found out that he was abusing me, when my x gave me problems his cousin would hide me at his mom house and hold me all night until I fall asleep. One night I went to a guy house that I knew that my x hated just so he would leave me alone, but his cousin forund out and ran in his house, picked me up, and carried me out of his house; I told him I know you love me but it just can't be. I know he loves me I see it in his eyes, I saw it when he carried me out of that house, I see it when he wants to kiss me and don't. A couple of days ago my x gave me a black eye and his cousin beat him for it I am so tired of all of this we were not that serious for him to fight me like this. I am in love with his cousin, his mom says we spend to much time together and she is scared for us. He wants me to move in with him, he said he loves me to much to watch anything happen to me.
2006-10-28 19:30:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should get your ex to give your cousin a black eye because he gave you a black eye and black eyes hurt and that's what families are for and your ex ain't family and blood is thicker than water but you're ex could have been family one day but now he's not going to be but even if he was going to be family he wouldn't be family by blood because you and he don't have the same parents unless perhaps you are from West Virginia and I am from Virginia and thank God I am not from West Virginia and where was I oh yeah why is your cousin holding you anyway because maybe you really are from West Virginia because that sounds kind of freaky and oh I see it's not YOUR cousin and it's HIS cousin so forget about the blood being thicker than water stuff I said earlier because it doesn't pertain to you and oh look! I said pertain and that means I'm kinda smart and because I'm smart I think you should find another cousin.
2006-10-28 19:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you got a man who really cares for you and wants you for who you are. I'm sure you hear this all the time but you have to make a decision and see what is best for you. If you are not ready to be in another relationship yet than its OK. Take time for yourself and learn who you are. Don't rush. If you say that he loves you and he really do then he will accept your decision and wait for you. For now, I think you need to be by yourself and clear your mind. You have too many things going on & its not good for your health. About your EX, I wouldn't take that $#!T from him and I would get a restraining order. It seems that your Ex have that attitude like "If I can't have her then no one can". Girl, you gotta be careful cuz I see why his cousin is scared for you. He know's that your EX is a psyco and will ended up hurting you really badly. I dont know what you believe but God is with you, you will make the right choice. What ever you are going thru, you will become a stronger woman. I have faith in you and you will make it. Love you girl! Be strong. I'm sorry if I sorta freak you out with that love thing. Its just who I am. heheh anyways, keep your head up high and don't go down. You made it this far, further then some girls I know who's six feet down. Take care ok. If you want to talk more you can email me.
2006-10-29 01:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by khmer_gurl_336 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move in with him.Follow your heart. move away together if you need to and stay away a couple of years But you do need to put that guy in jail that gave you a black eye and keep putting him in jail until he stops.Sounds like the cousin has knight in shining armor complex and you have some kind of victim complex You all sound very Immature but you should start standing up for your self now, you don't need a man to do it call the police.
2006-10-29 01:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a situation like yours. I was in bad a relationship and his best friend got me out of it. By telling me grimey things my x was doing. I wanted to believe my x but I couldn't. so I walked away from the relationship. His friend still calls me but I don't want to get into a realtionship with him because he'll be a constant reminder of someone I want to forget. Is this why you don't want to be with his cousin? Or are you afraid your x will constantly attack you guys relationship? you must question these things and then weigh the benefits you could get from this relationship versus the answers to your questions
2006-10-29 02:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first get a restraining order and then move in with the cosine for get about the ex move to another state if u have to just get away and be happy with Ur new love
2006-10-29 01:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
report x to police?
not an answer really
but I support you find a solution quick
2006-10-29 02:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ove is stronger than anything love his cousin and do not leave him forever
2006-10-29 01:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by beauty girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So - what's your question? You need the number to the Jerry Springer Show?
2006-10-29 01:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should stop writing such long questions. It's annoying.
2006-10-29 01:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by sendmedaisies 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
go anywhere and do prostetute job
2006-10-29 01:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by lovely_remo_2006 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋