i was wondering, lets say i like this girl, and i treat her real nice, for ex. paying for stuff, taking her out to places (not romantic places);
would she think im just being a friend, and NOTHING more?
2006-10-28 19:31:31 · 18 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the issue is how you feel about her . .
if you feel an attraction, let her know . . . and ask her how she feels . .
if you both want to be more than friends, you can explore that
if not, you can stay friends
2006-10-28 19:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really depends how your relationship is. Well for me, I had a friend that did that for me, and I just thought of him as a reallly nice friend, but I never thought of him in the romantic kind of way. So I guess, if you want her to realize that you like her, you're gonna have to do that romantic stuff. When I realized that he liked me, and I like him back, it was too late, becauase he already moved on. But things would have been different if he actually made a move rather than do all this friendly and un-romantic stuff.
2006-10-29 01:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mcdreamy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure abt her, but if it was me, i'll definitely think tat u r treating me as more than frenz.... but then be careful, some girls love it when men do these kinda stuff for them, but with no strings attached.. so my question for u is, r u trying to show this girl tat u have a thing for her? or u were juz being nice to her as a friend and tat u feel tat as a man, u should be footing all the bill when u guys go out together? so watever ur answer is, u should draw the line and let her know abt it so there will be no other conflicts or misunderstanding.
2006-10-29 01:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. It depends on how you act when youre with her. If you try to hold her hand and gaze into her eyes and coo at every word she says...she'll know you want more than friendship. ;) Especially if youre trying to impress her with stuff. Some women can be 'bought' some cant. Being nice is always a good thing for any gal. Good luck.
2006-10-29 01:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way man. I say that if you pay for something, you're probably trying to get with her, and I mean that in a non-sexual way. Sure, it's a gentlemanly thing to pick up a dinner every once in a while, but if it's more than that, I'd say you're sending the message that you want something more than friendship.
2006-10-29 01:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by ynyang05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point you will need to give her some idea that you're interested in her romantically.
2006-10-29 01:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might think that. The best thing to do if you like her for more than a friend is to tell her.
2006-10-29 01:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could think that. If you want her to go out with you so you can be romantic, you should ask her.
2006-10-29 01:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you guys do things for each other or are you the one that does this mostly? But yea, either way she might think your just being her good ol' buddy.... Is that what you want??
If not., speak up.....
2006-10-29 01:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by MedicineWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she would think that. If she says she didn't know you were trying to be more than friends I think she is not telling the truth.
2006-10-29 01:34:34 · answer #10 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋