Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

How Many? Im 20 years old. I dont work. ive got married 1 year ago. My husbands 21. He works. We own a big house. We pretty much have everything that we need. My husband earns over 50,000 dollars a year. Hes an architect, So money isnt a problem. We love eachother and feel the need for kids. We have been wanting a kid for the longest and now were ready. How many should we have.

2006-10-28 18:46:34 · 22 answers · asked by Irene 1 in Family

I am 2 months pregant and my ex boyfriend does not want anything to do with me or the baby and my ex-fiance mary wants me to go back to michigan to try to work on our relationship. How do I tell her I am pregant I don't wanna lose her again? I was with her for 1 1/2 years and lost my virginty to her. I lost her cause i was afraid to move all the way across the country, were I would only know her plus i have a granteed job here and plenty of friends and family here. I live in florida we have been talking again for the last month. Should I tell her over the phone or when I go vist her in 3 months. I don't know what to do I know she would help support me and the kid but I don't know how are familys would react. Should I let them know at all? I really need some info

2006-10-28 18:46:14 · 7 answers · asked by lovelyaquariusfairy 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 28 years old and have been married to my husband for almost four years (our anniversary is next month). Our relationship has been rocky to say the least for about two years now, but recently it has gotten much worse.

We fight constantly and he calls me some pretty awful names. The other night, we were having one of these arguments (it was because I didn't tell him exactly what he wanted me to tell him the way he wanted me to tell him) and he hit me. Not in the face, but in the ankle and then in the leg four or five times. After this he got up and left for a little while. When he came back, he said he was sorry and that he knew he was wrong and that he needed my helped to keep him from losing his temper like that. I told him he needed professionaly help, but he refuses.

I guess what I am asking is, what should I do? Should I stay or should I take my little boy and leave?

2006-10-28 18:45:30 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

shes ben my friend for like ayear. I have so much feeling for her that it hurts to know that she is not mine, and shes nothing more than a friend. im coming to this question of hope. I want to express my feelings to her, but im scared. would i look weak? i dunno! ive want to let her know how i feel. why? because latley shes been saying things but she says it like she is playing. im not sure. she calls me im her sexy man. she says maybe one day ill marry you. she says i miss you when she sends me a tx messege. but the thing is that i dont know if she means it the way i mean when i said i miss her. see this girl moved to utah and im inCA and i know she is debating to move back or to stay. you know i told her today i want to go see her in utah. I want to tell her so much . should i go?? but if i go i want to tell her there. and i go there and she tells me no? man! that would suck. but i think would it be more romantic? would that show her how much i really care?

2006-10-28 18:45:24 · 7 answers · asked by Daniel R 1 in Friends

i really got to know. please and thanks....details if you dont mind

2006-10-28 18:44:51 · 10 answers · asked by this sucks 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 18:44:28 · 12 answers · asked by Jr 2 in Singles & Dating

She notices me, but she like this other boy. I am very SHY, when it comes to girls.

2006-10-28 18:43:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok theres this girl and she went out with a guy i know but they broke up after 2 days but the thing is he is always tryin to feel up on her and all of her friends dont like him and their afraid he gonna take advantage of her my question is what can we do to get her to stop hangin out with him so much??

2006-10-28 18:43:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 18:43:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well this is dicucult but like i'm pretty much in love with a sl*ut. i shouldnt love a sl*ut. how do i make myself.....not be in love? she is always flirting right in front of me cheatin on me.etc. but i still freakin love her to death. so...wut am i supposed to do?

2006-10-28 18:41:52 · 8 answers · asked by Your queer bait 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a recently married man, got married 4 months back. During intercourse my wife is moaning a lot, i am nervous whether she is having any pain when i ask her she is saying No it was really nice... why my wife is making sounds like this? is there any physcial problem, why does she moan? Serious answers Please.

2006-10-28 18:40:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-28 18:40:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok here it is quickley

i love this girl ( amber ). we went out, she cheated on me twice, i loved her too much to let her go... then she broke up with me...

we are still friends but i still love her, and now she likes someone else and has changed and it makes me want to like cry / hurt my self

like before ( on aim ) she would talk to me and not sign off untill her mom or dad like made her get off..

now when im talking to her and the person she likes signes off, she is like " im going " and just signes off even if i need someone to talk to...

now there is this other girl i sorta like ( ivy )
we talk on the phone almost every day for like the last 3 or 4 days
and i want to go out with her

but i get jealous when amber like talkes to the person she likes
but i still like ivy

if you need more info read my other questions to see a little more about me..

also ive lost just about everyone in my life i was adoped and i havent seen my real mom since i was 5, and ive never seen my dad

2006-10-28 18:39:52 · 15 answers · asked by justin_shore 2 in Singles & Dating

First were going to my pal's junk yard, Then we are going to work on my 73 pento and she will hand me parts, Then me will head over to Mc'y D's and we will just eat in the car because we will be to dirty to go inside.

2006-10-28 18:39:52 · 10 answers · asked by Frank 1 in Singles & Dating

this is m 3rd question tonight.. about my husband and him cheating baout a year ago.. he told me a few months ago and cut off all comtact w/ the girl and his cousin but last weeken he was drinking and wnated to know what his cuz had been up to so he tricke me into going up there. when i asked him what happened he said he doens't rember he was truck i think that is bull **** he does rember and doens't want to tell me .. but tonight i agreed to lethimgo to his cousins provided he would be homw at 12:30 it's now 1:30 should i be trusting my gut feeling when i thinkhe has cheated again or give him the benifit of the doubt and hope he lost track of time

2006-10-28 18:39:37 · 17 answers · asked by trblmmmy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-28 18:39:17 · 8 answers · asked by arthur_vintor 1 in Singles & Dating

I was such an ***-0le.i TAPED HER WITH OUT KNOWING AS A JOKE.AND TOTALLY FORGOT ABOUT IT UNTIL I WAS UP LOADING PICS ON HER COMP AND SAW IT.i DIDNT TELL HER THAT NIGHT COZ SHE WAS BUSY.SO THE NEXT DAY I TOLD HER ABOUT IT BUT IT CAME OUT WRONG AND IT SOUNDED LIKE I WAS TREATINGING HER WITH IT. IT'S NOT THE FIRST TIME I TOOK VIDO TAPES OR PICS OR RECOEDING OFF HER. IM SUCH AN IDIOT. SHE MEANS THE WORLD TO ME. SHES ONLY SORT OFF TALKING TO ME AND ITS LIKE SHE CANT BE BOTHER WITH ME THAT MUCH OR AT ALL ANY MORE. SHE EVEN SAID THAT DAY WHEN I TOLD HER ABOUT IT THAT WERE JUST GOOD FRIENDS NOW AND NOT BEST.THIS IS KILLING ME AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO OR HOW TO PROVE TO HER THAT SHE CAN TRUST ME. EVEN THOUGHT I MADE THOSE BIG MISTAKES. PLEASE HELP ME.I REALLY WANT MY FRIEND SHIP BACK THE WAY IT WAS.

2006-10-28 18:38:42 · 3 answers · asked by trucalling_21 2 in Friends

i love my 7 yr old son more than anything and will tell you i feel a great deal of guilt over divorcing his mom.when i left i gave them everything the house,car,bank accounts...i just took my clothes.i also pay child support and daycare costs. because of all this i have in the last 4 yrs ran into some debt(about 30k) My gf(were engaged) live together and split the household bills.i make more than she does but take home less because of child support she has no chilldren.she also has a large amount of money in the bank and i had asked her if she could help me out with my debt after all we are getting married soon and would like to be out of debt.long story short she said no and basicly said i should have thought about it before i gave my ex everything.i don't know what to think now.do you think she is selfish in not helping me out its not like a have a drug problem and ran into debt its all from me trying to do the right thing for my son.

2006-10-28 18:37:34 · 15 answers · asked by tommyboy5671 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a 19 year old sophomore in college.....im cute , handsome and im a virgin which i dont regret at all bcoz i think my virginity is the best gift i can give to my wife.....now the thing is that i came through a profile of a girl on facebook who is very much like me.....god fearing and believes in celibacy.....im interested in her as she might be my soulmate but i dont have any experience with this dating thing so i dont know how to approach her.........i dont even have any common friends with her so this task seems quite difficult.......girls plz help as i dont wanna loose her......

2006-10-28 18:37:06 · 13 answers · asked by J D 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you think is the normal age to date? How about 14?

2006-10-28 18:35:41 · 11 answers · asked by wonder why 2 in Singles & Dating

has made it obvious to me that she is predjudice. She even told me that if i had mixed children, she wouldnt love them. Question is: should i deal with someone who obviously has a large amount of hate stored away for a certain group of people on this earth? Isnt this clearly hate, or should i just overlook her comments and keep the friendship..Wouldnt love my kids though?

2006-10-28 18:34:34 · 4 answers · asked by INFINITE CONSCIOUSNESS 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

ie get along with your stepmom, give you head more often, pee sitting down, clean, etc..

2006-10-28 18:34:12 · 12 answers · asked by George Costanza 1 in Singles & Dating

Like is it a really big deal to you?

2006-10-28 18:33:40 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 18:32:24 · 14 answers · asked by li b 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex saw me at my work with his dad about 5 days ago and I swear he said hi to me but I wasn't sure since we haven't spoken in so long, so I looked down. then 3 night ago I saw him, he ran into the store to get something quick,paid at customer service and ran back to his car, mind you it was a very cold night. while he was running to his car he saw me and kept looking at me as if he wanted to talk to me but was sorta scared( I was his first and maybe only g/f). I'm 24, he's 22. He has avoided me in the past. we broke up 9 months ago. could he be ready to want to hang out again?do you think he still has feelings for me.Please help me figure this out. I have very strong feelings for him. we never had a problem, jus too many things happened all at once,it was overwhelming and I guess scared him away.but I'm hoping I get a 2nd chance at love with him.Thanks

2006-10-28 18:31:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy (+might just like me back)but i probably shouldnt, he makes me so happy, he is the funniest, sweetest most sensitive guy iv ever met, and hes really hot and one of the best sportsmen in the school! he is loved and respected by all (inc other guys) and he makes me laugh and compliments me all the time and means it. heres the catch....he's been with his gf (shes like perfect!stunning! impossible to compete with.)for 1 year now, and shes my friend (not best friend or anything bt still..)but lately their relationship has been on the rocks and they're taking a break they're having problems and he comes to me for advice and to talk,but if we dated i would she her and she would see me and her ex and tht would be like betraying her almost,also i have a history with his lil brother (and we were best friends for like 3yrs then we dated and things changed and its not the same, we barely talk and we're always having problems.) he was there for me when his lil brother dumped me.nyw

2006-10-28 18:31:22 · 2 answers · asked by karin v 2 in Singles & Dating

father suddenly appears and communication stops with mother

2006-10-28 18:30:46 · 3 answers · asked by paulaR 1 in Family

So there's this guy who i hang out with all the time, like we flirt a lot, and up until earlier, we were both single. Well as of right now he has a gf and he like was all grabbing my legs and working his way up...i mean WAY up...if you get my drift....but he has a gf...what should i be thinking? out of respect for his gf, i told him to stop...what the hell? how can he be still doing this if he's dating someone? what am i supposed to think? am i like his F*ck buddy or something? (just an expression...lol) or what? im so confused...

2006-10-28 18:29:27 · 23 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Singles & Dating

Is this how ignorant our youth has become?

2006-10-28 18:28:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

To make a long story short, a guy I used to work with at a job wanted me to go to the movies with him. I politely declined b/c I don't date. It's personal, and sometimes embarassing, but I haven't ever been on a date with a guy and I'm 25. Yes, I'm pathetic, but I'm not afraid to admit the truth at least.

Weeks go by and the pressure "grew" and he asked me when I was getting off work some nights when I worked a later shift over the weekends. He said we could catch a late night movie b/c there was a theatre close by the job. I still politely turned it down.

Where I really became paranoid is where he shifted the direction differently. He would ask me to start coming to his house with him after work. He said he wouldn't charge and I could come over free. I was FURIOUS

I thought he thought I was an easy piece/slut .
I kept fearing I would get raped if I came into his house considering I didn't know him.


My question: Was I being paranoid and immature-with a long way to go?

2006-10-28 18:28:03 · 10 answers · asked by Maureen T 1 in Singles & Dating