Need some adivce about my love life?

Question

I am 2 months pregant and my ex boyfriend does not want anything to do with me or the baby and my ex-fiance mary wants me to go back to michigan to try to work on our relationship. How do I tell her I am pregant I don't wanna lose her again? I was with her for 1 1/2 years and lost my virginty to her. I lost her cause i was afraid to move all the way across the country, were I would only know her plus i have a granteed job here and plenty of friends and family here. I live in florida we have been talking again for the last month. Should I tell her over the phone or when I go vist her in 3 months. I don't know what to do I know she would help support me and the kid but I don't know how are familys would react. Should I let them know at all? I really need some info

I did not try and get back toghter with her cause i am pregant I just found out last week that I am pregant

Answer 1

explain your situation to her, and go from there. if you love her, and she loves you...who cares what everyoen else thinks.

Answer 2

You need to ask yourself some questions and actually listen to the answers. If you were not scared and pregnant, would you be looking for Mary's support and love? Was what drove you apart still existing? Is the love you profess to have for Mary the type that you would scale mountains and crawl through the desert for? (For a love like that what wouldn't a person do?) If you have faith in yourself, then you can face her. If she is the type of person you think she is, great, if not, better to find out now. Phone her, ask what she thinks about having children. A family, a renewed relationship. With a child on the way there can be other options...adoptions etc. Children need fairness and love when brought into the world, and need loving STABLE relationships to grow in. How commited are you. How are you feeling about yourself? If all this begins to gel in your mind and heart, you will know the right direction.

Answer 3

Okay, let me see if I got this. You were engaged to a woman, then broke up , now you're pregnant from a guy. You guys broke up and now you're thinking about the ex fiance.. Is that right? If so, you should probably call her before showing up with your surprise. I would think that you should get your sexual orientation figured out, unless you're bisexual. Tough question to answer but if you have a loving supportive family, they will help you. I'm not sure that getting back with the ex b/c you are pregnant is also a good idea. You have to work through those issues of why you broke up in the 1st place. History does tend to repeat itself. There are many support groups for single moms, so don't feel like you are alone. Just take it one day at a time..

Answer 4

1st of all honesty always works no matter what.You have to follow you're instincts and you're heart.No matter what decisions you make in life someone is always gonna either like you're decisions or they're not. Either way its you're life to live,but remember just like you want to ''do you'' there are always consequences to our actions. as for Mary tell her the truth face to face whats the worst that can happen. if she really loves you shell be there no matter what thick or thin.good-luck!!!!

Answer 5

Confused. You lost your virginity to mary and now you are pregnant. Why would she help support your baby?

Answer 6

YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH HER AND TELL HER BECAUSE SHE WILL FIND OUT. AS FOR THE EX HE
HAS NO OTHER CHOICE BUT TO BE IN HIS CHILD LIFE
RATHER HE LIKE IT OR NOT. AND YOU NEED TO GET
READY TO GO TO COURT, AND FOR YOUR FAMILY
YOU NEED TO TELL EVERYONE BECAUSE YOU WILL
NEED THE SUPPORT OF YOUR FAMILY AND THIS
GOES ON. GOOD LUCK TO YOU.

Answer 7

just be honest, you will find that it works.