So there's this guy who i hang out with all the time, like we flirt a lot, and up until earlier, we were both single. Well as of right now he has a gf and he like was all grabbing my legs and working his way up...i mean WAY up...if you get my drift....but he has a gf...what should i be thinking? out of respect for his gf, i told him to stop...what the hell? how can he be still doing this if he's dating someone? what am i supposed to think? am i like his F*ck buddy or something? (just an expression...lol) or what? im so confused...
2006-10-28 18:29:27 · 23 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a pervert and a jerk. Make sure he knows to keep his hands off of you - or his girlfriend may find out and think you both are whores.
2006-10-28 18:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok that is wierd. maybe he like u even if he's dating.and u shouldn't be thinking anything. and if i were u i would go up to his face and tell him to stop and that u have a girlfriend. i would also lose the friendship cuz if he likes u and he's also dating someone these boys aren't the good type mostly. but talk to him first and c what happends. u can find a boy way better
2006-10-28 18:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry this guy is just being selfish and greedy. I had to let my boyfriend go because i found out he was already involved with someone. Don't get seriously involved with this guy, you may end up brokenhearted like me. It is not appropriate for a guy that is in a serious relationship to be feeling and caressing other women.
2006-10-28 18:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, he had his chance to make you his girlfriend, but instead he went and found someone different. Your the one who needs to get away from him. He was totally disrespecting you, don't let dudes to that just for fun. Flirting is smiling and saying cute things, not touching like that. Some guys can be big ****oles!
2006-10-28 18:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by sue d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To find out something like that in such a way must be very disappointing to say the least.
Obviously he didn't appreciate your boundaries until he crossed them. If he does it again then you'll know what to do. Trust yourself, but not him.
2006-10-28 18:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...unfortunately, if he wanted you for more then you would be his girlfriend and there wouldn't be anyone else. Honestly, it sounds mean, but he has some respect for her, and not as much for you, for some reason. He' ll have fun, but he won't be taken you home to meet his mama...she might make it there, but that's OK cause you know he's trash...it might take her YEARS to figure that out....don't fall......move.
2006-10-28 18:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is there to be confused about? He wants sex. You should stop worrying about giving respect to his girlfriend and learn to respect yourself. You are very close to acting like a little S*L*U*T
2006-10-28 18:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well, like first of all I wanna say that I think its funny that you're practically like advertising your problem. Just the way you worded the question is all....anyhoo, I think you shouldn't talk to him...I mean he obviously doesn't want to be your friend or anything like that, he just wants to use you for his own entertainment. Be smart...don't let a guy like that in. :) PEACE.
2006-10-28 18:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK open your eyes, and see the big picture! His girlfriend isn't doing anything for him obviously he just wants to make sure he's not leaving what he's got now for nothing. Show him some interest you know you want to, why be shy? He's got a girlfriend, not a wife! GO FOR IT..
2006-10-28 18:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay away from him, if you ever end up dating him he will do the same things he is doing with you to someone else. Get away from him and don't look back. Good Luck.
2006-10-28 18:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋