Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

or it doesnt matter? Who should bring more income into the household? does it matter who brings more or who brings a little less. i think there is more into a marriage than who brings the more income into the home as long as you both are financially stable and both bring money home??

2006-10-28 17:44:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I actually belive in that, slim tall fair pretty girls are more attractive and always will be, i belive its human nature for us men to be attracted to slimmer girls who are light, only chubby, ugly guys will chose or get a chubby ugly girl (lolz) no effense to them people, but i know as guy slim girls are more attractive to be intimate with, i dnt get when u see sum chubby girls always be in denial and say i can get a skinnny man, i belive its embarassing, imagine making love and all the flesh of the girl to a slim man, it dnt make sense, and for about personalaties both good and bad looking people can have, so all u chubby dark skinned girls out there wake up and accept reality, u cant get a slim fair handsome man as most men i tell you will always want slim fair pretty girls, it dnt make sense for a girl to be bigger then the guy, u have to be physcally attracted to eachother to b intimate so that means likiing sumone's personality aint enough, so big up the skinny pretty fair girls.

2006-10-28 17:43:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 17:43:16 · 21 answers · asked by utternutter 2 in Singles & Dating

We have known each other only for a few days, but I have made up my mind to ask her to marry me. Here's the plan: I have a house under construction and it's nearing completion. I haven't told her anything about the house. I am thinking of taking her to the house, have her open the front door, show her around, ask her if I can hold her hand and propose.

Ques:

1. It will be around the middle of December that I'll be taking her to the place. Is 2 months of knowing each other a little too early?
2. I went through a lot of difficulties during the process of house construction... loan approval, land acquisition, etc, and I didnt borrow a single penny from my Dad or my friends. I cut down on my personal expenses, lived on a strict budget, and it has finally paid off. I wish to share this with her when I am showing her around the house because I want her to know. Will it sound like I am bragging or is it alright?
3. Should I keep the ring box closed or open when giving it to her.

2006-10-28 17:42:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just got aout of a relationship 2 years ago. He was an alcholic, abusive. Now I'm with this guy for 2 years, he has always kinda been mean. What's wrong with me? He does crank, coke or ice. He is always talking about it! I trry to get him stop using. I want him to do good. He stops than starts using again. He calls me names, like fat ***, I stink, but I don't I have lost alot of weight since I been with him. I got in a fight with him tonight because he wants to use, I do love him very much. He does not hit me like the other guy. I think that's why I have better respect for him. But isn't a drug user alot more worse than an alcholic. I don't know what to do? I sick of this I feel Like I want to run away into a hole somewhere. Why didn't I pick a better guy for myself in the long run. I am really considerate girl I am very compassionate. I wish people didn't take advantage of that. I take care of people if you know what I mean. Am I'm just tired. I feel so sad.

2006-10-28 17:41:58 · 31 answers · asked by Christal R S 1 in Singles & Dating

i got preg. by mistake 1 yr ago. when i told my bf of 2yrs about this he was very calm and i was the one very upset.i was surprised he took it so well then i found out why.he had no plans on me keeping the baby.he asked me when i got home what i wanted to do about it and i told him i wanted to keep it.he then went into all the reasons he did not want this child all which were just excuses.i was really upset with this and took a few days to decide what i would do. all this time he keep asking what i was going to do and would not let up.when i told him i was going to terminate the preg. in tears he almost seemed happy and jumped up and said i'll take you.what makes this so hard is we are not poor teens or he is not some dead beat dad.he has a child from a prev. marrage that he loves to death and wants to be with every chance he gets.its so hard for me even a yr later to see him look at his son with so much love and joy and think he felt nothing about the child he made me terminate.

2006-10-28 17:41:52 · 31 answers · asked by debmorroy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to my daughters Maskarade party dressed as a Whor.. She first taped me to the bed, Then she called the police and had them give me a warning not to do business in that area. Now she has another plan.
She wants me to meet her neighbor who is a pimp. Should I meet him? Won't he take most of my money? Just kidding. Ok, I am a bit bored.
I did dress as one but it was at my apartment complex. I was the bell of the party, so to speak.

2006-10-28 17:41:42 · 1 answers · asked by grannywinkie 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 17:41:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you have a Filipino blood?-- like being Phil/Fil-Am (filipino-American), fil-chinese,fil- french??

will you site a Filipino experience you had, like a friend, boss, neighbor, have traveled in the philippines, are they pretty for you..

merely share anything about Filipino (philippines), bad or good.

Peace! just curious.

2006-10-28 17:41:12 · 5 answers · asked by MARIA JANICE 31 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you ever attended a wedding ceremony at Our Lady of Angels Cathedral or a wedding reception at the plaza next door? If so, can you please tell me what your impressions were? I'm thinking of having my wedding reception there and I've heard that the food and service from the catering company is not very good.

2006-10-28 17:40:38 · 2 answers · asked by Elaine C 2 in Weddings

2006-10-28 17:38:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

another date. But I dont want to be rude about it, I would not mind being friends but nothing more, there simply was no sparks..

2006-10-28 17:38:34 · 16 answers · asked by Mommy Dearest 5 in Singles & Dating

My dad talks to his girlfriend like she is dirt under his shoes and that he is a God, blah blah blah. He talks to me like that to, which I am also a girl. My question is do you think that it is even the least but okay for a man to talk to a woman disrespectufully no matter the circumstances? If you do think so then why?

2006-10-28 17:38:22 · 9 answers · asked by KelseyKatastrophe. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what should i say to him on monday

2006-10-28 17:38:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years now.... things are starting to get bad we fight and everytime we try to solve things we end up getting into a huge fight NO MATTER WHAT.. its awful, also his family, mom and brothers, really dont have much respect for me, i try to be a perfect housewife and i feel very un appreciated and i feel like a used door mat.... i work full time at the #3busyiest store in canada, i come home and we fight, his job isnt great works 6 hours a day, all i ask for is a little r and r sometimes, we fight whether its over regular house chores, talking the dog for a walk or anything, and when we try to solve it ends up turning into a bigger mess... weve lived together for 4 years now and i think that its falling apart.. we have a house , a dog together and i almost want to end it but im scared to.... also he is very jealous over any guy who talks to me or i talk about even friends... he doesnt trust, but for 5 years he has me on a leash what can i do???

2006-10-28 17:36:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been best friends with a girl since kindergarden. we both have other frends but we hang out with eachother more than anyone. i hang out with more older people and she hangs out with people our age, or a year younger. she has a close frend that is a year younger than us. she is nieve, childish, and isnt ther for my frend when needed. it seems like the only reason she is close with my frend is to gain popularity. and all of her bad habits are starting to rub off on my frend.. my friend is somewhat annoying me and i cant seem to explain to her how she is acting. what should i do? should i just ignore her and just hope she matures into finding a new friend? or should i confront her about it?

2006-10-28 17:35:39 · 4 answers · asked by Mololina 2 in Friends

Is it looks, money, personallity etc.

2006-10-28 17:35:18 · 15 answers · asked by Lily N 3 in Singles & Dating

we have been dating for the past eight months and in the beginning, we used to make great love every day but ever since three months ago, my boyfriend has been complaining about tiredness and we have reduced our love-making sessions to probably once a week. i have never enjoy making love that much before but ever since i was with him, i crave that intimate moment with him. he works seven days a week and we only meet in the evenings for dinner and we would then go straight home after that. in the beginning, we have more enjoyable times as we usually stay till the wee hours of the morning before bidding each other good-bye. these kinda rscenes were no longer in existent as he is too lethargic or tired to keep me company that late. we have been arguing over this issue (making love) recently as i was trying to communicate to him my needs as i feel that he has ignored them. he blamed me for not being understanding and i have thought of giving up on us but i just can't becoz' i luv him ...

2006-10-28 17:34:45 · 5 answers · asked by alluring1314 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are cool with everything, so it's not a prob convincing them. (as long as i keep my grades up) the thing is, i'm not sure if i am ready. there's this one guy i like who is 14. he's deeply religious. he's a nice freshman. i believe he is responsible. we would NOT do anything above w/e we can handle.

i skipped 3 grades, so i'm a junior right now. i'm not 'pressured' into doing anything at the moment, dating-wise. it's just that my friends, who are 16 and 17, are dating and seem to enjoy it. i honestly believe that i am as mentally (if not physically) mature as my best friends. (don't get me wrong, i'm not like...an underdeveloped 13 yr old) we talk about stuff that's interesting to us all, not just them or me.

do you think i'm ready? or will i just 'know' when i am?

2006-10-28 17:34:01 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She says that they are all lies but im to depress to think what is real and unreal. I just love her to death and she knows it.

2006-10-28 17:33:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's even admitted while we've been kissing that she doesn't have much kissing experience, so she is aware of it. My question is, would it be bad for me to give her advice (like, slow down, for example)? Should I just let her follow my lead and let her figure it out? Girls, what would you want the guy to do?

2006-10-28 17:33:00 · 12 answers · asked by someguy 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok... This is dramatic and stupid, but I need help. Two choices of boys; Boy one is sweet and creative and I've fallen in and out of love with him for the last three years. He seems perfect in every way, but he has this ability to break my heart every so often. He talkes about other guys all the time, not that he's serious about them, but still. He says he loves me, but he won't officially date me. Boy two is georgous, older than I am, and treats me right, I don't love him yet, but there's a definate possibility. He's soo amazing, but, he has a husband already. They're in an open relationship, but it's still awkward. We have had so many touching moments already... I just don't know what to do... any advice would be welcome! And please, don't rain Hellfire down on me about being gay. I understand not everyone agrees with it, and believe me if I could choose I'd be straight, but lord knows I'm workin' with what I've been delt... Thanks all for reading...

2006-10-28 17:31:49 · 7 answers · asked by Chipper 3 in Singles & Dating

So there's this guy that I've been talking to from work (he works out of another office) and I thought he was really in to me. He always acts all nervous when he's around me or talks to me on the phone and I can tell he thinks i'm attractive. He says things sometimes that are definitely alluding to being more than friends, but then he'll go AWOL for a bit. Finally last week he asked me to get together on Friday night after I got done with work which i confirmed with him Friday afternoon. He seemed really excited to see me and said he would call me when he was ready to meet up. Well it gets to be about 7 and I decided to call him and see what was up. He said he was still working but would call me back in a few minutes. He never did. I'm so pissed at him, why did he do this? Why go to all the trouble to ask me out and act all excited, only to bail? Is he just scared or did he just not really want to go out with me? I have NEVER been stood up by anyone, much less a guy so i'm dumbfounded

2006-10-28 17:30:31 · 14 answers · asked by foxyl83 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this person A (I confessed), but he is dating other person and he doesn't feel the same way I do. But, he wants to be freinds with me. Anyway, he (A) set up a guy (B) for me. B is not my type. What should I do? If I hang out with B, there may be more chance that I will see A more.

2006-10-28 17:29:44 · 5 answers · asked by yahooquestion 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay...So there's this guy i REALLY like a lot, but he's friends with girls on my soccer team who are upper classmen, and they scare me because they are so much older and I think they are going to think bad of me...So I need help on how to talk to him without them having to know...I need help and FAST! Oh, and he knows who I am by the way and he wants to know more...I think...JUST HELP MEEEEEE!!!

2006-10-28 17:28:31 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently found god an I'm considering dating a girl who's did something thats hard to get over, god forgives, should I forgive her?

2006-10-28 17:28:24 · 21 answers · asked by chase6661990 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a married male with kids and a great wife, except my sex life is dismal at best. I don't want a divorce and don't want to destroy my marriage. I want to know what I need to do, if there is anything I can do, to suppress my unfulfilled sex drive. Is there a medication I can take? Is there anything I can do to stop the constant cycle of anticipation of sex and denial? Please help, its driving me crazy!

2006-10-28 17:28:11 · 13 answers · asked by want to stay married 1 in Marriage & Divorce

in a girls personality? outgoing or shy? and how outgoing?

2006-10-28 17:26:31 · 18 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 17:26:27 · 14 answers · asked by lilmrsgracefulone 2 in Marriage & Divorce

All my husband does is pay the video game or get on here and look at porn or mess around with the games on here. Therefore, I get on the computer more to try and show him how it feels. He hardly ever spends anytime with me. It seems like all I am is a bedwarmer and someone to have sex with. What should I do? I have even tried seducing him and he pushes me away or tell me later or hang on a sec. He stays up until all hours of the night which makes it hard because I have issues with sleeping without him. When he finally does roll into bed he either wants sex or goes right to sleep. I just don't know what to do anymore.

2006-10-28 17:26:22 · 19 answers · asked by babygurltexas 1 in Marriage & Divorce