Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

I always feels surging with hormones and infatuation for nearly everything that moves. So this kid I like and just imed on Thursday had a nice chat where he admits that he dated the wrong girl. We both went to private school together and were kind of enemies in middle school, and we hated eachother. Now we're both in a public high school, I'm no longer an annoying ugly duckling and he says he's no longer mean and ignorant and apologizes for his past behavior and not talking to me more this year. We greeted eachother twice this year, and had a long im conversation on Thursday. So now he's a new kid, and I've been going to public school for a year and I feel really odd feelings about him. I feel every feeling you can imagine from jealousy of him being rich and instantly popular to comfort that he's going to public school too. I feel so many things... is it love?

2006-10-28 17:25:44 · 2 answers · asked by Jenny 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I will be celebrating our fifth year wedding anniversary next weekend and for once I've completely given up the control and let him plan everything.
My question is that I have no idea what to get the man who doesn't want anything and everytime I ask him he just says "nothing"
Our relationship had been strained lately but just over the last two weeks things seem to be getting back on track.
I've already bought new lingerie and that part of the evening planned but I'm still stumped on a gift.

2006-10-28 17:25:29 · 12 answers · asked by princessslave 2 in Marriage & Divorce

of a previous love? It's over, but I just keep thinking about it. I need something to keep it off my mind.

2006-10-28 17:25:14 · 19 answers · asked by Norah 6 in Singles & Dating

i m really feeling alone. can any girl tell me how to keep myself happy, without any girl.

2006-10-28 17:25:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

help

2006-10-28 17:24:35 · 6 answers · asked by babii nekee 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 17:23:44 · 4 answers · asked by Eric M 1 in Singles & Dating

I once loved two men and I chose. I married the one that I chose only to discover 4 years later that I couldn't have been more wrong. I destroyed the other man's number. Now I would like to find him. What do I do? He said that he'd always be there when I decided that I wanted him. And I realized that he was much better suited for me. Love ended up not to be what I thought it was. It's not the fireworks and stars. It's the companionship, dependability, and respect. I loved him, but I'm afraid that it is too late. His name is John Connelly and he once worked for Fila USA and DETNY if there are any hopeless romantics out there who can help. Please don't be too harsh with the responses. What is left of my heart may break.

2006-10-28 17:22:42 · 19 answers · asked by stargirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I tried telling her already by the way, but I want to know another way.

2006-10-28 17:21:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need help with finding a girlfriend. I don't know who i like and i don't know who i could get. I need help getting started and what to say.

2006-10-28 17:21:47 · 3 answers · asked by qwerty q 1 in Singles & Dating

what's the point?

2006-10-28 17:21:23 · 20 answers · asked by mxncutie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 17:21:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel freaked out...?

Because my brother n-law's sister that we treat as family kissed my baby on the lips.. this is not my custom but I guess hers and it has freaked me out... I told her not on the lips and now things are awkward...what to do? I mean thats gross

2006-10-28 17:21:21 · 4 answers · asked by zassy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-28 17:20:26 · 11 answers · asked by ME 1 in Singles & Dating

Because my brother n-law's sister that we treat as family kissed my baby on the lips.. this is not my custom but I guess hers and it has freaked me out... I told her not on the lips and now things are awkward...what to do? I mean thats gross

2006-10-28 17:20:07 · 7 answers · asked by zassy 2 in Family

hey help me, i need advice for getting into mey girl freinds pants should i be slow or go for it shes pretty hott** ----------------im 14 and dieing for some pun tang

2006-10-28 17:18:34 · 12 answers · asked by qwerty q 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys: would you find a girl named Rebecca sexy?

2006-10-28 17:18:06 · 10 answers · asked by Emily E 1 in Friends

She wants email or online buddies cos she is temporarily going out to live somewhere else with her husband. She wants a buddy.

feel free to email her sammiyahudah@yahoo.com

She is 24 and she is a nice woman.

Not that she doesn't have buddies. Don't be rude

2006-10-28 17:17:54 · 2 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

my 2 kids ( aged 13-17) are against me having a relationship with someone, even if i'm going to be here for them until they complete their education. should i choose loneliness for the rest of my life to stay next to my kids or try to be happy with someone who loves me?

2006-10-28 17:17:30 · 16 answers · asked by monica06 2 in Singles & Dating

I've decided to step away from a guy that doesn't like me back. I've spent way too much time around him and I know I just need to slowly, but surely place him back into the "just a friend zone" in my head. Plus, I've reduce my quality time (hanging out, phone calls, emails, etc) with him since he's confusing me with this signals. However, it seems I can't stop thinking or talking about him. I've never fully gotten over a guy before, because I've always replaced them with someone else. This time, I won't do that! I'm trying to stop doing that and learn to heal before moving onto another guy.

Any advice on how to control it in my head before it comes out of my mouth?

By the way, I know it is obsessive. You don't have to remind me.

2006-10-28 17:14:36 · 6 answers · asked by cute_chocolate_buggie 3 in Singles & Dating

he's just a friend though so it can't be too gushy.

also, how can you tell if a guy likes you more than a friend? I like him as more, and i asked him last year if he liked me and he said no. I'm hoping he's changed since then, how can i find out without destroying our friendship?

2006-10-28 17:14:32 · 4 answers · asked by Dancing with love 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been single for a couple of years now and haven't been looking for a relationship but dang this single stuff is getting old and I can't fiind anyone that I like. The ones I like don't like me.
I'M SO DAMN LONELY!! And HORNEY as H*LL! I don't want to sleep with just anyone though. Getting a guy to sleep with is not the problem. Getting one I think is worth it is the ticket. Any advice would be appreciated.

2006-10-28 17:13:16 · 14 answers · asked by Peek@u 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been 2gether almost 9 years.We have no kids together but I have a 14yr son.The last few yrs have been a real strain due to my sons behavior.I've sort every kind support and help possible & it's paid off.My husband resents the luv I have for my son.He is very petti towards him and it drives me insane,he will ruin a lovely evening by picking over the most rediculus thing.A few mths ago we admitted to each other that we weren't happy and told each other why.During that discussion my husband told me he had been thinking about leaving because he didn't want my son to have his name anymore,he was embarrassed by him and his behaviour.Anyway we decided to try and work through things.Two weeks ago I admitted to my husband I'm not happy and am not in love with him anymore.We agreed to end it that day.
In saying all of the above,I'd like to add that my husband has always been good to me and treated me well.He just won't make any decisions and leaves EVERYTHING upto me to sort out.

2006-10-28 17:12:56 · 16 answers · asked by ra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend are dating long distance. I noticed that i'm very critical of things and when i tell him stuff that bothers me, if he doesnt change it, i just keep saying it thinking maybe one day it will get in his head but he just says he knows and its bothering him that i keep saying it...i said its not something hard to change like losing weight or stop drinking alcohol its stuff like if he says hes going to do something then he should, otherwise im losing my belief in his words. should i just let some things go, or go about it another way? im not very critical but certain things are hard to ignore and i told him maybe cuz we dont see each other enough and i like things like cuddling or kissing so a lot of things just build up the tension which leads to arguments. sometimes i think maybe he doesnt show enough attention or jealously. he said he knows lots of ppl in long distance relationships who dont argue as much as us so maybe were just too different...does anyone have a

2006-10-28 17:11:53 · 14 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Singles & Dating

Anyone have any suggestions on songs that I can play at my wedding... like while the guests are arriving and leaving and such! I love country music!

Tee

2006-10-28 17:11:49 · 20 answers · asked by sexymama2420052000 1 in Weddings

It sometimes feels like it is when I tell people that I like short women 4'11 and under. It's just been something that I've been attracted to since I was 16. That and me liking to interracial dating makes up 90% of all the reason(s) that I'm picky when trying to find a lady.

2006-10-28 17:11:42 · 10 answers · asked by hotjunior222002 2 in Singles & Dating

If ur dad keeps screwing up but u keep on 4giving him and he just keeps treating u bad and talkin about u bad then wat should u do. Bc im already sick of mine. he keeps screwing up and wen i stop talkin to him he keeps on talkin to me and telling me to 4give him wat should i do? Totally cut him off or keep giving him chances?

2006-10-28 17:11:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I love my little sister and we are very close out of my other 5 sisters. how do I tell her that her man wants to sleep with me and not hurt her feelings? He knows I'm single and evey chance he gets he offers to bed me and do other things to my body. I constantly curse him out and he thinks it's funny. I have avoided going to my sister house just because he is there. Now he has used my niece and nephew to call me so he can get on the phone when my sister is not around. I'm afraid my sister won't believe me and take his word. I don't want to lose our bond.The last time she broke up with her boyfriend she ended up in the hospital for depression.Even if I do get evidence, I know we will fall apart. SHOULD I TELL HER?

2006-10-28 17:11:27 · 12 answers · asked by jazzy 3 in Family

I just turned 25 and for the first time my mom completly blew me off and didnt contact me in any way on my irthday. She doesnt like my boyfriend and I have just told her that we really love each other and we are happy and I wish she would support us. ANother thing is that I have rally realized how manipulative and negative she has always been so I have really cut her out of my life alot. I only contact her with good news now when I used to vent. She semmed to always only give me attention when I had bad things happining. Anyway, I would say that our relationship was toxic and I am a much beter person without her in it but man, I cant believe she didnt contact me on my birthday. I feel really unloved. Im not going to confront her on it as i feel its her responsibility to do so. In a positive light, its made me see how NOT to belike her though. Ive relaly grown up cause she didnt contact me. I feel hurt but like i can move on also.

2006-10-28 17:10:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-28 17:10:23 · 23 answers · asked by Bender 6 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy at my church. I only get to see him once or twice a week, and every time we see each other he kisses my cheek(which only hapens with girls and older guys at my church). He's always staring at me and flirting with me. He already told a mutual friend that he likes me and last time we saw each other he asked me for my number and if he could hold my hand. He's 20 and I'm 16, what do u guys think of this?

2006-10-28 17:08:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating