Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

married man 33, well settled have 2 kids, family is back home for some time....i work in another country where my X (who cheated me b4 in our relation)is also working...i wish i can go back to her to lust/sex ......i am finding diff to stop myself from going to her...she wants me...to use me..for...money & sex ...how can i be bold enough to make myself stay away or get convinced that sex is not everything in life...outside marriage it can be trouble as well...I know all this....but still i wish i get her....please advice ....

2006-10-27 23:59:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 23:58:46 · 7 answers · asked by festivus64 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 23:57:52 · 6 answers · asked by Shyamala R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

1. Sex: whenever he feels like it has to be no matter what. if i suspect something then i say lets do it he will say wrong timing.
2.Family: We are married and he does not want to balance the two families he is still so much on his side and when i talk about he will be like marrying u does not mean that i should stop supporting my family!
3. House: He controls everything my clothes, buying furniture for the house, beddings, kitchen every thing u can think of color of the curtains and this makes me to feels that he take me like i dont think.
Respect: He does not respect me at all he says iam dull,helpless and lazy but i really work for this man in the bedroom i finish my energy, kitchen i cook ideas i bring them up and he has never agreed to any idea i bring and this demoralizes me badly.
I will be telling a story he will just say u know u iritate me how can i be irritating to my Husband?
I have got a lot i can say about this man i just do not know what conclusion can be made.Help

2006-10-27 23:57:48 · 9 answers · asked by Poki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He is 14 and about 2 years and 10 months younger than me, but I can't help it, he has told my that he always fancied me since he was 8, which really flattered me I suppose, as now he is gourgeous, the thing is we have to keep it secret as I'm terrified of what my friend would think of me being in love with her brother! We have kissed a few times, but secretly, I'd love to be his girlfriend but I'm afraid of what could happen!

2006-10-27 23:57:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with the ugliest guy or gal on the planet . and there was no chance of rescue .do you think you could resist having sexual encounters with them.or would your desires be to strong?

2006-10-27 23:57:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

see we've been together for 2 and a half years.i love him so much.but see he's never been the type of boy that calls alot.so i really don't know.i mean his phone is disconnected and he doesn't have a cell phone.so i don't know.what should i do?we only see each other once a week.cuz he has no car and he has football practice everyday till 6.i mean i've asked everybody that knows him if he is cheating and they all say no.i've smelled his bed and it's this girl at his school.she loves to tell stuff.so i ask her all the time if he's doin something and she says no.i even ask people if he is ever with a girl and they all say no.everybody tells me no.i don't know what to do.what should i do?

2006-10-27 23:54:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Christmas is coming up and I have an idea of what to get my guy though I'm not quite sure if he'll like it.
His favourite car is a 69 Camaro ss and I've stumbled across on the internet a model sized car. What are the chances of him liking it and what else could I get him?

2006-10-27 23:51:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What could be the reason... (The relationship with her fiance is not broken )... Bcoz normally the lovers spend more time talking with each other.... why she likes talking with the other boy.... rather than talking with her fiance...

2006-10-27 23:49:44 · 6 answers · asked by $$$ 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend, a 40 year old woman has had fantastic sex with a guy. Now they are friends, and she wants sleep with him again. It is a strange relationship where none want to commit because of circumstances. But would the guy like being propositioned - for pure, good fun sex.

2006-10-27 23:48:22 · 7 answers · asked by 40andgoing 4 in Singles & Dating

I´m 23 and German. At the moment I´m working in France.
One of my colleagues (he´s about 27 or 28 and from England) all of a sudden asked me how old I am while we had a discussion with another colleague (so there were not just me and him).
Is this just a try to be polite?
But why then does he ask such a queer question?? HELP!!

2006-10-27 23:48:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have gf she is from another country. right now i am in her country wroking. i like her but not sure whethere i can marry her or not as her culture language everythin is different. what should i do ??should i leave her OR should i continue with her ..?? i already told her that i cant marry her...but i am unable to deside should i realy leave or not?

2006-10-27 23:46:55 · 7 answers · asked by .. 3 in Singles & Dating

Wife & I intimate yesterday tells me she loves me.
Tonight she at party with some guy whose been txting her .
I know right now if she asked to come back i would take her.Married 10 yrs separated 12 months .
I want to regain my self respect i want her back i want my family of 5 back.
Im dying right now shes at party!!!
I know i need to pull back so she cannot rely on my support But i dont know how.One look from her & im back in the vortex.She is the only woman to control me before her I was the original male nothin & nobody bothered mr but when I met her WOW it all changed instantly.
However this is affecting me at work, at home with my kids im not eating ive lost heaps weight perenially down .
I want to be able to let go but dont have the willpower to do it.
Some helpful advice would be appreciated no yobos or dickheads please

2006-10-27 23:46:21 · 7 answers · asked by 69frustrated69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this is for all the ladys out there!
i like this girl but she might not like me and i want to know if i should make my move! my only question is what if we have sex and then she dumps me, its happend to me befor and i hated it.
she would get layed and dump me the next week i mean the sex is good but i want luv

2006-10-27 23:45:00 · 7 answers · asked by ben b 1 in Singles & Dating

my question was...'Did anything exciting happen to anyone today?'....i had it removed for violating community guidlines,lol...wtf...im gonna give up soon, its getting so that all the perves can ask all their questions and seem to have no probs posting them but normal ones are in violation...gggggggrrrrrrrrrrr!!!

2006-10-27 23:43:58 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is my first cousin.and its not against the law to marry first cousin in my country.

2006-10-27 23:43:55 · 13 answers · asked by Blade 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to do something special tonight for my boyfriend. We both live with our parents so its not like i can cook a meal at home. Any suggestions?

2006-10-27 23:43:10 · 6 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 23:41:41 · 11 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend's game was cancelled friday but i told him i was goin to mine.his phone got disconnected the other day so i couldn't call.he never called me that night so i don't know what he did.could it be that he didn't have a phone?could he be cheating?he's never cheated on his girlfriends before?i'm very very very jealous.i accuse him all the time.but i can't help it.what should i do????????????should i assume that he's cheating?

2006-10-27 23:40:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please any recomendations would be appreciated

2006-10-27 23:37:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-27 23:37:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have chatting friend ,i meet him first chat,he take cate me a lot, if i chat with others he very angry on me & tell u like only them not me ,he always tell me I like U,I want wife like u,he told that when u want to chat then u just misscall me we chat,he is so busy untill he chat me simultaniously doing work,somtimes he is very possesive abt me.i feel that he love me becz when he type anything i relize his emotions,but we r from good family anyone don't want to move first,becz i always tell him we r only good friends it is not possible any marrige relation betn us then he told forget abt possibilities,i want ans,so i am so confuse what i do? i nees suggestion?whether i leave him? or continue our friendship relation.

2006-10-27 23:36:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

As many of my fans on this site know,I accidentally asked for women to send me thier pants for err! a study, but I am now getting 2 van loads a day and I cant cope, my washing powder and electric bills are sky high and my washing line has been targeted by male yahoo answer monkeys, please help I am up to my neck in panties!!!!!

2006-10-27 23:33:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 23:32:29 · 5 answers · asked by HOke 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is kind of big and is sending all this money to some women in the Philliappines who he met through this stupid site. Lately he hasen't been able to reach her, even though he paid for her cell phone and the minutes that go on it, and I think that he is wastig his time with her. He has already spent hundreds of dollars on her and her family. He has even been there to see her but she won't come here to see him. He is a very sweet and nice person and I really want to show him that he has some options. If any one knows what I can do to help him find a women here and boost his confidence, I would really appreciate it. Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-27 23:31:54 · 12 answers · asked by Kate H 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 23:31:51 · 27 answers · asked by Khadija D 1 in Singles & Dating

i know alot of married women chat pretty intimately with guys on the internet behind theyre husbands backs,but i dont think theyd actually cheat,or would they?

2006-10-27 23:30:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I would welcome answers from both M and F could you please indicate which you are.
A couple are having a heated discussion about their 8 month relationship. The general gist was both had been feeling unloved and unimportant to the other.
Neither wants to be the one in the wrong.
The lady sniggers at one of the mans point of view.
He sees it and rage sets in. He smashes a glass not hurting either of them.
He jumps up and starts shouting and swearing at her..she does not respond. The verbal abuse and swearing goes on for a further 5 mins then he leaves the room.
The arguement ends there.
In your opinion was the husbands reaction one of Violence or Temper?
Or something else.

2006-10-27 23:30:05 · 23 answers · asked by Lellyboo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a sister who I have not seen in 20 years, as well as two neices. Our mother passed away almost a year ago, and I have decided to try and track her down.

I was wondering if anyone here has been through anything simular and had any suggestions as far as resources, websites, etc. that may aid in my search?

Thanks.
JJ

2006-10-27 23:28:04 · 2 answers · asked by restlezangel 1 in Family

I said goodbye and he still wanted to fight so I told him I don't love him anymore and today he sent me an IM...why he is 15 doesn't I don't love you anymore mean its over..why is he so selfish?

2006-10-27 23:26:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating