Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

i m a male, since past 8 years i love a female 'First', but for the last 7 years i am married with female 'Second', Both the females love me very much. I have continued relationship after my marriage and even my wife knows about my previous affair and the continued relationship. I love the first lady very much. Now its long time...the parents from first female are forcing her to get married. Its difficult for me to leave her and even she cannot live without me...we are facing a very uncomfortable situation and not ready to accept whats happening in our lives. We love eachother very much but i cannot live my wife cause even she loves me very much and it will be difficult for her to live without me...WHAT CAN I DO. I want to live with my first girlfriend without her i cannot think of a moment.

2006-10-27 23:24:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if you read the question that i posted yesterday saying " i didnt do anthing" you can get the whole story. after the whole story happened i talked with my bf and told him what has happened and he was of course mad and furious. he kept on telling me how he is not mad since i did not lie to him but rather told him the truth but the problem that he has is that i should of thought and expected every single situation and that i could of avoided it except that i did not. he called me yesterday and twice today-that is good i guess- but there is so much tension between the two of us on the phone! to keep myself from crying or thinking that the relationship will be called quits or to forget everything i went and worked out and cleaned my dorm and did my homework and broke down into tears 4 times today! i have lost my appetite because of the whole thing, eat 2 vs. 4 meals a day, work out to take my stress out, and am so miserable! i feel like i am my lowest low and cannot concentrate for skool.

2006-10-27 23:24:04 · 2 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

Whould u feel jealous if ur bf went to the other city for the weekend to meet his female friend? My bf just did it, he knew this girl for more than a year but never met her. inicially i was supposed to go with him but then he asked me if he could go byhimself for the 1st time. I know i can trust him but i don't know if i can trust this girl... sitting at home, being angry....

2006-10-27 23:23:28 · 13 answers · asked by frida 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 23:22:24 · 7 answers · asked by serene 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 23:20:06 · 16 answers · asked by Bandice 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a very nice guy but I keep having girls break up with me because they say I am too nice. Is that even possible?

2006-10-27 23:19:45 · 16 answers · asked by <a href="http://shop.fig 1 in Singles & Dating

isn't a tattoo over the whole back extreme? you can't even wear a
bikini and not look like a freak? does anyone think this
is sexy ?????????????

2006-10-27 23:17:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 23:16:50 · 7 answers · asked by sacrazy 1 in Weddings

Your in college and you meet alot of girls, so you decide to go out with one! You end up taking her home and getting naked/foolin around! Question is,, does she discuss specifics with her other girl friends about the guy?? what do you girls talk about behind our backs, size? performance? style?

2006-10-27 23:15:52 · 11 answers · asked by Bobby W 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats it meen when somebody say he or she is down to earth. I have been told i am very down to earth what do that meen. {{thanx}}

2006-10-27 23:12:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a female and i once did poty when i was just going to be married .i did poty in my panty just before kissing my husband and i didnt tell that to anyone that time and i had to sit in that, that day and after that i saw people laughing at me because the colour went to the gown and it was yellow.

2006-10-27 23:12:57 · 29 answers · asked by manisha_sexy101 1 in Weddings

2006-10-27 23:11:42 · 21 answers · asked by suneeti w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 20-year-old male. I'm ugly, shy, and skinny. I've never had a girlfriend, ever. I've liked just two girls in my life, both of which I could never get. I'm lonely and at times I feel depressed. I work out at the gym, meet new people, but I'm not the kind they'd want to hang around with. I've asked some "buddies" of mine if they wanted to do something the other day, but they all rejected. I was wondering if there was anyone out there for me? I've sort of accepted the fact that there isn't any. I know I won't find anyone by 30 because I'm very shy, and I don't know how to start a conversation. Sad, yet true.

2006-10-27 23:11:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 23:06:28 · 10 answers · asked by suneeti w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We start getting closer & he pulls back from me. We didn't move fast at all but he says he wants to take things even slower?! But heres the deal he's met all my friends & family and I have yet to meet anyone he's associated with, he makes comments about when i meet them but has yet to offer for me to. He is sooo great sometimes, he was last weekend, & then its like something snaps. All week he's acted funny, not returning calls when he says he's going to & so I told him I couldn't keep doing this, I was crazy about him & wanted to date him but it was hurting me going back & forth like that. He says he's scared of getting hurt or hurting me he hasn't done the relationship thing in a long time & had no intentions of feeling the way he has about me and that I just want more than he's willing to give! I haven't heard from him since I broke it off (2 days) but he acts really wild about me & then this happens? Whats going on with him, I'm good with this stuff but he's totally confused me??

2006-10-27 23:03:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 23:00:54 · 52 answers · asked by toe 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever fell in love with someone and they did not feel the same way. If so how long does it take to get over something like that. Because it has happened to me. And it was my first love. We don't see each other now and she is out of my life but I can't get her out of my mind. She is all I think and dream about I even cried about her a few times. I mean we never even went on a date I just felt really close to her is this normal. And how long did it take you to get over someone that did not love you the same way you loved them.

2006-10-27 22:59:00 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

What are the questions that you wanted to be asked by a guy?

2006-10-27 22:58:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to know how many women out there feel this way about themselves. In other words, you're not going to meet someone going clubbing, because you're not into that. You're not going to meet someone on-line, because it's just weird and you can't subject yourself in this way. Your divorced or single, but not by choice; circumstances beyond your control led to your being alone. Please email me a brief story about yourself and what emotions you go through each day. I have some interesting stories that I'd like to share as well. Thanks for your time in advance

2006-10-27 22:57:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 22:55:48 · 23 answers · asked by drgurdev 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I e mail and say "Hope weekend went well" as in confirming I know of the lie. And then walk away. Or should I just walk and kind of let him have the upper hand.......

2006-10-27 22:55:32 · 6 answers · asked by pink 2 in Friends

What did the men in your life say to you, to get a date? I'm kinda curious.

2006-10-27 22:55:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 22:54:46 · 13 answers · asked by johnny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 22:52:35 · 8 answers · asked by randeep s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 22:51:21 · 28 answers · asked by Deepesh Nair 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 22:51:00 · 6 answers · asked by randeep s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for those of u who know the story please respond i need your help ? i have been through alot trying to support my gf and my little baby girl and its been hard. i think she isnt really happy with me but yet using me till she finds something else. She will miss me changing diapers and buying her weed and breaking my back to pay for things while she sits at home and plays online. I think she needs a real world wake up call. But i really love her , should I be understanding she is only 22 and hope for the best or find someone who wont play games, shouldi getin my van and driveto ontario now and dont look back ????????

2006-10-27 22:50:14 · 4 answers · asked by Candy C 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 22:46:56 · 1 answers · asked by Pele 1 in Family

Also is it morally wrong? Why are these willing (not trafficked) ladies shunned because they are willing to do anything to feed their families condemned to be thought of as a plague? Dirty. Less worthy?

2006-10-27 22:43:07 · 8 answers · asked by Robert B 1 in Singles & Dating

where is a nice place in the bronx to get married that is cheap? also a nice place to have a reception/luncheon that's budget friendly?

2006-10-27 22:41:31 · 3 answers · asked by lyn 1 in Weddings