Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

well i have known this girls since preschool but i think ive only said like 2 words to her since pre-school thru highschool. my reason to go to school everyday was to atleast catch a glimpse of here walking thru the hall. the reason i never asked her out was beacuse i was extreamly overweight and now that i lost almost 100lbs and make almost 200k a year i want to find her but i have no idea on how to even talk to her i know were she lives about a 1/4 mile away but i dont want to look like a stalker lol so any help will be greatly appreciated thanks.

2006-10-27 20:11:07 · 7 answers · asked by jbuickgnx 2 in Singles & Dating

So, here goes the story ...
We dated for like 6 yrs, he left overseas and not planning to go back to US. I don't plan to go to his place either ... so when he left months ago, we promised we'd work things out and hoped for the best. Months passed by, things didn't work out as we wanted it but he's still in denial. When I broke up with him (which was a couple months ago), he cried and cried and told me how much he loved me. I almost felt sorry for him, but ... I toughed it up and said that it was over. He kept calling me and asked me to take him back because we had so much past together. I told him present and future are more important, and I think I am doing the right thing. How come I feel like a cold ***** though? Any advices for me so that I won't feel so guilty? ... I may be trapped to feel pity and end up taking him back ... which I think it's a big No NO ...
Advices pleasE?

2006-10-27 20:10:52 · 10 answers · asked by Nicegal 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont know i wonder why many people are addicted to the internet porn. Specially, the married ones. When they have their spouse, why would they want to watch porn? Does watching porn puts their marriage in a great risk? I myself hate to watch porn; i find no fun in it. It makes me feel sick. Real thing is the most pure and best. Internet porn has been destroying relationships as well as marriages. why do people take a risk to lose their loved just ones for the sake of pleasure that they find in watching porn. Dont they know these internet pleasure are not going to do any good to them but in fact they are going to lose everything at the end. How come some people have so much time to devote it to the internet porn, why dont they rather invest in something worthwhile. Internet can be used for good reasons but mostly people are manipulating its use. I feel bad for them, they indeed dont know they are lost their most precious time of thier life. One should use the internet but for good

2006-10-27 20:07:25 · 19 answers · asked by mind 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How come is it tall guys in the mentioned range are always seen with the petite ones?

2006-10-27 20:07:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 20:05:43 · 9 answers · asked by Sueeee....... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey well first off I'm not gay, bi or curious. I don't know how the hell it happened, but it did. We were celebrating the engagement, and were drinking alot. So the next morning I woke up, and my fiance's dad was next to me naked, and I was naked. I know what you're probably thinking. How do I know anything happened. Trust me I know. I don't remember everything that happened, but I remember some. I think somehow I got so drunk that I mistook her dad for her. I don't know what was up with him, but he was really drunk to. So anyway when I woke up, he was still asleep. I just got dressed, and left. I went home right away, and took a long cold shower. I can't believe what happened. I don't know what the hell I should do. I don't believe in keeping secrets from the people you love. I just don't know how or if I should tell her about this situation. I also don't know how to face her dad. I'm hoping that maybe he'll be so drunk that he wont even remember. Someone please help

2006-10-27 20:04:54 · 17 answers · asked by Matt Harris 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

the emotions that i feel just by his lack of caring.Depths of pain I kant put into wordzwhen there is no understanding on how he has no concern on the way what he does really makes you feel.

2006-10-27 20:03:59 · 7 answers · asked by riddilious 1 in Singles & Dating

I have come across many woman who likes their male partner to be younger than them, is it because the woman can take materialistic advantage from their partner?

2006-10-27 20:03:52 · 9 answers · asked by Vivin 1 in Singles & Dating

I can have lots of other girls but i find that , my ex (who broke up w/ me, over " i dont have enough time") is the only one that i really feel happy around. I'm told that surrounding urself with other girls will help get ur ex of of ur mind but it isnt. I 've only talked to her a little bit since we broke up, which was about 2 months ago. How do i get her back?

2006-10-27 20:02:53 · 15 answers · asked by david edwards 2 in Singles & Dating

IF the person is able to judge the person who is askin such type of question that person will really be generous and Clever to make very good long lasting relation with me as well as anyone in this world..Take Care ..will wait up to destiny for that person

2006-10-27 20:02:48 · 5 answers · asked by Meghal 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going through a really bad break up. We were together a year and a half and lived together. I am in the military and currently deployed. I am so redicilously sad, I still call him, most of the time he doesn't want to listen, or he's out at bars...while i'm patheically sobbing on the floor because i can't believe it fell apart. He's obviously having a good time not thinking about me, How can I stop calling daily? I'm deployed, I don't have friends or family near by, I'm so lost and depressed, can any1 help?

2006-10-27 20:02:32 · 12 answers · asked by Kbailey 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 20:01:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My live in boyfriend and I have been going together for a year and a half. About four months into the relationship he started accusing me of cheating on him. I love him so much I havn't as so much touched another guy since I have been with him. He says he will never trust me. He verbally abuses everyday and tells me to get out of his life. What is my other option other than moving out. im scared Iam only 19 Iam really scared!

2006-10-27 20:01:19 · 4 answers · asked by Kristy 2 in Singles & Dating

It's an old question, and yes, I have looked up passed answers to this very question, but I am stil a little unclear. I guess I want a personal response to the horrible and intense pain I am in- for support really, too, but I must ask: How do you stop loving or make youself STOP loving a person?(When it is clear- cause they TOLD you, that they don't love you back.) I realize my relationship is over and will never work, cause only one of us truly seems to want it to work, and so I ended it, but now I am stuck with the broken heart, cause I can't just turn off my feelings for this person. Does anyone have any recommendations on how to just STOP loving the person. I don't want to HATE her, I just want the hurt to go away, that is why I feel I would be better off if I could STOP feeling love for her.(cause I KNOW I can never have her- meaning be in a relationship with her.) Any suggestions, please? A step by step plan would maybe be best. Thank-you.

2006-10-27 19:59:23 · 1 answers · asked by asylum07 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont know if she has a bf or someone she is talking to that's why i dont know how to approach her. Im afraid that if i tell her that i like her and she is with or talking to someone that i will feel ashamed whenever i see her again especially when i have her in class!

2006-10-27 19:58:37 · 14 answers · asked by bryan 1 in Singles & Dating

I have so much hatetred for my mother in law. It seems like she says and dose things just to hurt me. I just don't talk to her anymore because I just can't take it anymore. But ofcourse my husband dosen't have a realationship with his mother, because he defends me, and takes my side. He hasn't seen his family in five years. I think that is so sad. Her latest thing is she is getting in the middle of things that she really shouldn't be, because really it isn't her buissness. But like I said I don't even want to waste the time and call or email her, because it gets me nowhere! It just gives her more opportunity to say hurtful things. What should I do?

2006-10-27 19:58:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The last question i answerd was about a girl who cheated on her husband an wanted to know what to do... Just about every answer from guys an girls was " dont tell him an learn from your mistakes" Guys and girls if your spouse cheated on you wouldnt you wanna know??? I mean i know everyone makes mistakes but do you really believe that hiding it will make things better? You dont think one deserves the truth???

2006-10-27 19:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by ohio_gurl042 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

said he was sorry he cheated affair lasted 8 months he was sleeping with me getting out of bed going to her then he would screw her come back home before i woke up get back in bed with me i was paying for all while he went to school taking care of his needs he was calling her while i was in the room pretending it was his male friend i found out left after 2 mths of emotional abuse/turmoil i got my own place he threatened suicide i call 911 they locked him up overnite in the psy unit he went back to work and was calling me leaving messages at home cell work i had to get a restraining order against her for harassing me (she happened to be his supervisor) apparently 1 day after she tried to run me off the road he told her he loved me not her wanted to work it out with me pissed her off he told me im all he wants i let him stay with me thought i could do it but cant still lying and wont work unless i pressure same old crap now he says im cheating he says will kill himself im dumb

2006-10-27 19:57:29 · 20 answers · asked by hamhead 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this boy in school. I think he likes me too. But.... He likes more than one girl. How do I know this? Because he told me. I have a choice. Should I choose to get him to like me or just skip him?

2006-10-27 19:56:56 · 1 answers · asked by Ashleigh D 1 in Singles & Dating

my mother usually angry with me if she dont have much money on her wallet,,,althought iim never make her angry or make something to disturb her,,,plis help me,,she always angry with me and make me felt afraid...my mother works beauty centre

2006-10-27 19:56:26 · 3 answers · asked by raras b 1 in Family

I mean when a girl likes a guy, will she really wait for the guy to make the move? As in she won't initiate the conversations, etc...

2006-10-27 19:53:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have always wanted a boyfriend but then always turn down the guys that ask me from my school cause i just think of them as friends.Is it alright if i get a boyfriend over this and internet date him?

2006-10-27 19:53:46 · 12 answers · asked by dramahotty 1 in Singles & Dating

We were college schoolmates, I really like her that time but she never really knew me and i knew she's married and got 1 kid. She's 4 years older than me and by the time I graduated, I saw her again in the same company where i'm working. We became close and eventually fell in love with each other. We're so much in love that we even think of things we shouldn't be thinking like planning a house, having kids, etc. To think that she's MARRIED!?! We even went out of town together. I broke up with her. For reasons of morality and all that sh*t. But I'm in so much pain. And I know she is too. We both knew its hard for both of us but we never really talked about it after we broke up. She is the love of my life and I am the love of her life too. Just the wrong place and time. Now we're treating each other like nothing happened. I can hardly tell we are friends. What should I do? or what would do if you know your meant for each other but just no right?

2006-10-27 19:52:44 · 8 answers · asked by RyE 1 in Singles & Dating

A good story for all of us to follow in our careers and social
life........
...very true

Once upon a time a Washerman was bringing up two donkeys.

Donkey-A felt it was very energetic and could do better than the other.
It always tried to pull the washerman's attraction over it by taking more load and walking fast in front of him.

Innocent Donkey-B is normal, so it will walk normal, irrespective of
the asherman's presence. After a period of time, Washerman started pressurising
Donkey-B to be like Donkey-A.
But Donkey-B unable to walk fast, got continuous punishment from washerman. It was crying and told personally
to Donkey-A "Dear friend, only we two are here, why to compete with each other....we can carry equal load at normal speed ".

That made Donkey-A all the more energetic and next day it told to
washerman that it can carry more load and even it can run fast also. Obviously happier washerman looked at Donkey-B, his BP raised and he started kicking Donkey-

2006-10-27 19:52:25 · 3 answers · asked by Com Nerd 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Were only 14, and i know im to young but then again im curious
what should i do

2006-10-27 19:52:21 · 15 answers · asked by kelso 2 in Singles & Dating

I have know a guy for almost half year.he is my colleague actually.before knowing him,i feel he quite cool.after knowing him and together working for a while,i have a crush on him. the moment with him really happy. i did give him hints that i have interest on him and he also realising it.however,he have girl friend already.however i do not mind just be friend.during this time we used to sms each other .one day,i consider to resign and he promise me to appear on that day,however he did not.i feel so sad till i cried on the way home.he sms me one day and say he oversleep.i feel so disappointed.during the moment with him,i used to help him financially whenever he ask me.but i never regret eventhough i know he might he using me.we continue keep in touch till one day he told me to stop sms him for a period till he contact me.however,i cant stop missing him so i called him and i realise he the one pick up.this shows that he never think to contact me even he got his hp.what should i do?

2006-10-27 19:51:52 · 6 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Singles & Dating

about two months ago my boyfriend of eight month and i broke up.. be cause it was just not working and i felt like i was the only one really working at it, trying to keep it afloat, he has cheated lied and hurt me so many timessss but i still love him alot.. and i'v tried everyhing to move on but nothing or noone seems to compare and going back to him is not an option, i wont be able to handle it

2006-10-27 19:51:39 · 8 answers · asked by swt chik 1 in Singles & Dating

Few days back, we were trying to fix something. Somehow, the back of my hand brushed against his hand. However, I did not moved away my hand, and we were like 10 seconds "connected".. Likewise, he did not move his hands away. Under normal circumstances, how will the guy feel? Will he feel anything? Or just take it as an ordinary thingy? Guys, please help me understand! Thanks!

2006-10-27 19:48:22 · 9 answers · asked by SinJanegle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 19:47:53 · 4 answers · asked by Polly 3 in Friends

can someone tell me why! im like heartbroken

2006-10-27 19:46:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating