i dont know if she has a bf or someone she is talking to that's why i dont know how to approach her. Im afraid that if i tell her that i like her and she is with or talking to someone that i will feel ashamed whenever i see her again especially when i have her in class!
2006-10-27 19:58:37 · 14 answers · asked by bryan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start with, "Hi" and go from there.
Less is more. Keep it simple stupid. Insert more cliches here.
2006-10-27 20:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by IceTrojan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait, take a step back. You've never talked but you like her? I find that hard to believe. What you need to do is just approach her and just talk. What's the best way to now if she's with someone? Talk to her and find out. Be friends. Don't skip that step, it's pretty important.
2006-10-28 03:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Gavind R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't tell her that you like her. You show it. Introduce yourself and ask if she'd like to do, whatever. Start small. Coffee, whatever. You're trying to break the ice. Settle for that and take it from there. It's low risk and something you don't have to be ashamed of trying. But if you start off saying you have a crush on her, that's high risk and certain to make everyone uncomfortable.
2006-10-28 03:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have never talked to someone how do you know you like her? All you know is that she is cute. She doesn't know you either. So before telling her you like her why not take your time and get to know eachother first. You may find that you aren't for eachother afterall, on the other hand you may have the time of your lives discovering that you really enjoy eachothers company.
I suggest you remember what the Beach Boys said 'We'll get there faster if we take it slow.'
2006-10-28 03:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens to me all the time in school. through countless failure and some new friends u learn to be a lil risky.. not to sound rude but if u like her let her know and if it was meant to be then it will happen.. a famous saying : it is better to have loved and loss-ed then to have never loved at all.. so just tell her and live with no regrets. u get 1 chance in this world so do live it in wonder and what ifs.
best of luck on deciding
2006-10-28 03:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by koshtip 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go up and say 'hi' and start talking to her and knowing the person. Trust me know her first becuase I asked out this girl which I barely talk to and I thought she would say yes but she shot me down so quickly I thought that she was joking which she wasnt
2006-10-28 03:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her and introduce yourself... you need confidense in yourself... and don't feel ashame cause she might be talking to someone... and if she is or isn't talking to some 1 just look you have confidense by taling to her... beside there is plenty of fish out there... the more you practice it becomes 2nd nature...
2006-10-28 03:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by James C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start talking to her.. dont tell her you like her, just get to know her.. it does seem like you're attracted to her, so just talk. since she's in your class it shouldn't be a problem... if she is with someone you'll find out, but start with talking. it helps break the ice. it def worked with me, so it helps..
2006-10-28 03:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say Hi to her. Ask her to go to the mOVIES OR SOMETHING WITH YOU. That's when you get to know her and then she'll tell you if she's available or not. That's all.
2006-10-28 03:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by Ashleigh D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might want to try talking to her first. You might not like her after that.
2006-10-28 03:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋