why do married people watch porn?

Question

i dont know i wonder why many people are addicted to the internet porn. Specially, the married ones. When they have their spouse, why would they want to watch porn? Does watching porn puts their marriage in a great risk? I myself hate to watch porn; i find no fun in it. It makes me feel sick. Real thing is the most pure and best. Internet porn has been destroying relationships as well as marriages. why do people take a risk to lose their loved just ones for the sake of pleasure that they find in watching porn. Dont they know these internet pleasure are not going to do any good to them but in fact they are going to lose everything at the end. How come some people have so much time to devote it to the internet porn, why dont they rather invest in something worthwhile. Internet can be used for good reasons but mostly people are manipulating its use. I feel bad for them, they indeed dont know they are lost their most precious time of thier life. One should use the internet but for good

Answer 1

It's just another form of entertainment! No big deal. Some people are pervs and take it too far.

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with watching porn. It can provide a sense ot titilaltion if your watch it together and a safe form of sexual release when alone. There was actually a study that showed people who watch porn and masterbate are less likely to commit adultry. It only becomes a problem when a partner feels neglected. You need to talk to your partner about his frequent use of porn, but don't preach down to them because then you will only alienate them. Make them relize how their porn use make YOU feel don't spot cliques about porn ruining lives.

Trust me you'll be a lot happier in the long run knowing your man is in the study watching porn and horny, then finding out he was out enjoying this precious time of life with Trixie the waitress at Hooters.

Now I do understand the difference between porn and chat room sex. If he is watching video clips thats one thing but chatting online with tramps is something else. If he is doing that, to me that is adultry. So then you tell him to stop immediately or you'll break his laptop (and I don't mean the one from Dell) :o

Answer 3

There are so many arguments for this question. I know of people on both sides of the debate. On one side, its' one of the partners looks at porn for personal arousement, while the other does not and this has led to a break down. On the other side, both partners watch and enjoy it. But they use it as an enhancement for their relationship. They get an idea of positions, use of language etc and find it's really helped boost their sex lives. They do moderate it, and don't use overley hardcore porn, as they feel it pushes the limit.

Also, guys are 'visual' creatures. We sometimes need visual stimulation for arousal, whereas a female is more emotionally aroused. Sometimes foreplay can be the lacking factor in a relationship where one partner uses porn.

Problem with internet porn, is it's easy to access, and so much is free. Like anything that provides satisfaction, it can be easy to get hooked on. Hence the need for that person to get out the house more often.

But in defence of the guys, it's been proven that looking at naked breasts LOWERS our blood pressure :-)

Answer 4

First of all, porn was around long before the Internet.
My husband watches porn. It's just something he likes to do when I'm asleep. It doesn't bother me. In fact he is more insecure about me watching certain actors in regular movies than I am about him watching porn.
I really don't see what he does as being any different than me self- servicing when he is asleep..

Answer 5

Well men are visual creatures and if it is on the internet then they are going to look. It is like the forbidden fruit to them. They actually do not see it as cheating. I am a woman and I really do not think of it as cheating. I think it makes us women feel bad because we do not understand what is going on in the male mind. We end up blaming ourselves and thinking that our husbands have lost interest in us. I think a lot of people are addicted to it because it is so forbidden. I let my husband look at it and then he finally got bored.

Answer 6

using fact he's a guy. that's typical till he does it 24/7 .that's typical for adult males to look at porn now and back .they might locate actual bare women to look at . that's what adult males did a super form of circumstances previously there became porn available.

Answer 7

seems to me porns been around way longer than the internet. many couples enjoy watching together. it is not a problem unless one of them objects. usually the female. the female usually objects because she feels she doesnt measure up to the competition. what a shame.

Answer 8

Ha... You can't just say porn is wrong... Without sex half of us wouldnt even get married let alone be here. Porn dates back even to the roman days, where they had drawings on the walls... They watch it because it turns them on.

Answer 9

Mostly its just entertainment !!
Life at home with a long term partner is very boring most of the time.

Answer 10

Well, when we used to watch it , for me it was like the foreplay my husband didnt satisfy me with. He like most men, was an eager beaver. But when we watched it together we were more than *hot and bothered* he was too anxious and I tried to show him slowly and gently. But, he tried and just got frustrated... I guess. Or selfish...