well i have known this girls since preschool but i think ive only said like 2 words to her since pre-school thru highschool. my reason to go to school everyday was to atleast catch a glimpse of here walking thru the hall. the reason i never asked her out was beacuse i was extreamly overweight and now that i lost almost 100lbs and make almost 200k a year i want to find her but i have no idea on how to even talk to her i know were she lives about a 1/4 mile away but i dont want to look like a stalker lol so any help will be greatly appreciated thanks.
2006-10-27 20:11:07 · 7 answers · asked by jbuickgnx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just found out she has a kid and a boyfriend but i would still like to get a cup of coffee with her just to catch up but just as friends now what do i do.
2006-10-30 03:50:14 · update #1
"Accidently" run into her somewhere, and pretend that you dont recognize her at first, then ask if she is so and so from school. If she recognizes you, your in! Go for a cup of herbal tea, or something to try and catch up. Quite frequently, people tend to know you not always by just hanging out, but also by word of mouth, and never got the chance to know you. So thats a possiblity.... I have worries that i may end up in same situation, so have made a list of girls i need to date. So far, in just seniors, I have 97.
2006-10-27 20:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by Michael D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try things like MySpace, Classmates, etc. See if she is there. If so, start communicating with her that way. You can then learn about her, if she's married or dating anyone serious or single. Start to build a relationship with her that way based on the similar experiences that the two of you had growing up going to the same schools. Who knows, since you never talked to her you may find that she's got the dullest personality ever, or you may get a new friend, or a girlfriend. Good luck.
2006-10-27 20:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by sunshineandsilliness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 01:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by wheelwright 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since u were frm the same skool u must b having some common frnds!!
or if u ever c her arnd go upto her and introduce urself !!
tell her tat u were in the same class if she doenst remeber
ask her wat she is doing
make conversation !!
then mayb u cud call her once in a while an dall !!
dont b too strong ...........back off a lil sometimes !!
call a couple of ur ex-classmates for small reunion kind of a thing and ask her to join too !!
make sure u hav some of hers frnds on the invite list !
dont try to win her over by money!!
all the best
tc
2006-10-27 20:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, find a situation where you can talk to her. During gym, during lunch. If you want to ask her out though, make sure to say it to her face. I hate it when guys ask their friends to ask me out. If there is a dance coming up, ask her to that. Look at her and smile. Just make sure you don't practice it in the mirror. Make it genuine.
2006-10-27 20:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call her up and say " o hay how u doing its me "insert name" i was just going through my old year book and i seen ur pic and i just wanted to say hello had i was j/w how things are going?" then if she can't talk ask if she wanted to catch up on the weekend over some coffee. then play it from there
2006-10-27 20:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by koshtip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her by gttng her numbr from smwhere
2006-10-27 20:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by sweety 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋