Were only 14, and i know im to young but then again im curious
what should i do
2006-10-27 19:52:21 · 15 answers · asked by kelso 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should wait, you are still very young, and the fact that you are asking this questions show that your not ready.
2006-10-27 19:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by lindsey9180@verizon.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first things first...curiousity killed the cat! Don't do something because you are curious about it! Listen, sex is not just the act of two bodies coming to together and some stuff starts happening. Sex is life-changing especially for a young girl like yourself. When you begin to have sex, you begin to open other doors of curiosity, that I just think no 14 year old should have open. Your mind and your body both aren't on a level to comprehend the things that go along with sex. Your body is a temple and very sacred. You may think that your current boyfriend is the "one" and this feeling you have is secure and it just feels right and it is the answer to your curiosity, but trust me when I say there will be 5 more "right ones" before you graduate high school! And besides all that good stuff, you don't want to start having sex to young, it opens so many door so many risks. You open the door to promiscuity, vaginal infections, and sexual diseases. Take it from a woman, who wishes a million times that she could go back and snatch her virginity back from the guy that took it. Wait...be patient, you have so much to wait for. Sex is not everything.
2006-10-27 19:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can lead to pregnancy, even when your boyfriend is using a condom. No protection against pregnancy works 100%.
If you think you are too young to get pregnant and have a baby, then you should abstain from having sex.
At 14 years of age, your boyfriend is not in a good position to marry you and help you take care of the baby. And taking care of a baby by yourself without any help is so much work and responsibility that it's difficult even for adult women.
2006-10-27 20:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
curiosity killed the kitten.We r both way to young to want to think about doing that with our boyfrinds. I am 14 too and i have many friends who have done it and really regret it and they r only our age too. Some of them have done it more than once. After doing that everyone lost their trust in these ppl. These girls keep on tellin me never to do it till their married cause noone trusts them and they feel like trash.They feel like they were just used.If they were on here right now they would tell u never to let curiosity take u somewhere cause it will scar u 4 the rest of ur life. Dont pay attebtion to the peer pressure. if ppl try to pushu into doing something they r not the type of person u want to hang out with or b friends with
2006-10-27 20:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by dramahotty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another boyfriend -that is something you should not rush into just because he is ready doesnot mean you are- save it for the real someone special- at 14 you'll have many boyrfriends so don't waste it-- if he comes back with I love you and if you dont do it, I'll leave--- all he wanted was sex and not as the person you are- it a ploy used for years to get girls to do what the boys want- don't fall for it-- save it and really enjoy it when the time is right
2006-10-27 23:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having second thoughts, I suggest you wait.. If this guy cares about you, he'll wait as well and won't second guess your answer.
You'll know when the time is right. It's hard to explain, but no second thoughts will get in your brain. It should just happen.
And don't let some ppl say " sex before Marriage is BAD" don't listen to anyone other then yourself.
Hope this helps.
2006-10-27 19:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T do it cause you're REALLY way too young. Your boyfriend only wants to have sex with you but he doesn't know what are the consequences he may have to bear if anything happens. You're going to regret 1 day too. Anyway, wait till you're slightly older and know what you really want before sex takes place. Worst scenario can be, he'll ditch you after sex. You'd never know what's going to happen.
2006-10-27 20:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plain and simple if you ain't ready, then don't do it. if he keeps on pushing you to do it, find you a new boyfriend. it is okay to be curious but only you will know when the time is right for you. don't let someone else tell you that now is the time. if he really cares about you and respects you he will understand and not push you
2006-10-27 19:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself, you're not for sure, and until you are, don't do it. You'll know when you are for sure, and until then, keep your self respect...the heck w/anyone else! Be happy! Keep on feeling good about yourself, cuz if you do what someone else wants just to keep them around, but you feel like ***##!, what's the point? You will enjoy yourself only when you are at ease with what you're doing, anyway. He just wants you to do what makes him feel at ease, and be satisfied with that. Your satisfaction will "come" only when you feel relaxed enough to let go, and if you're so worried about it, you will not be able to let go and you won't be satisfied with yourself any way you look at it. So, that's my advice...go with it, baby! :)
2006-10-27 20:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by Demonex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you know about it,,,,if not enough then you need to wait...if so then just be very careful, and u need to realize what you are getting yourself into...not only the physical, but the emotional parts....so you will enjoy the physical, but you will be hurt emotionally, so just prepare yourself, then enjoy...again be careful not to get pregnate, or too attached......
2006-10-27 19:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋