Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

They must be size 4 or 5, about 3" or 4" heels and preferably hot pink, fitted up the calf (to wear under jeans) and with pointy toes. I've looked everywhere and am really struggling. Please help. I've tried my best already and want to get her the best present possible this christmas. Please help.

Serious answers only. (AND ONLY IN THE UK PLEASE)

2006-10-23 23:59:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 23:59:42 · 13 answers · asked by j 3 in Weddings

2006-10-23 23:59:33 · 11 answers · asked by tom 1 in Friends

My gf and I have been together just over a yr. We also live together with another roommate. On the weekend we had a petty argument+she was upset that I wasn't ready to talk. She walked out, I didn't hear from her for over 12hrs. She wouldnt answer my calls. She stayed at an ex's house over night. She said she had no-one else to turn to. She told me nothing happened. I found it hard but was ready to forgive her. Now she isn't sure about us! She says something is holding her back from getting back with me. She wants us to be slightly more independent from each other but i've already offered that. I'm sick of feeling in limbo. I either want to get back and work things out or cut loose and start moving on. Should I be understanding and just give her more time even though its really hurting me?

(By the way we are both female, as is the ex)

2006-10-23 23:58:30 · 12 answers · asked by angel74656 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-23 23:58:19 · 20 answers · asked by coolguy 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a very sad childhood,with my father always yelling at me and beating me,for nothing!
Now that I'm 24 I cant forget those bad memories and it makes me very depressed when I remember them.What can I do?

2006-10-23 23:57:52 · 9 answers · asked by sss 1 in Family

Im looking for a website or reference for verbal abuse from a parent to a child and it’s long term affects

2006-10-23 23:57:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Everything was fine the week before, we were in touch as usual (we usually txt each other everyday) and we're very close. She txt saying how she couldn't even touch another bloke when she went clubbing on Saturday. Said she didn't know what was going on with herself. When I asked her to meet up this evening for a quick drink she said no. Then she said she wasn't sure when we'd meet again and that she'll get in touch. I asked what the matter was, she told me that she's got a lot on her mind and don’t want me to contact her. We didn't argue or fall out over anything.

What’s going on with her? This has really surprised me!

Advice greatly appreciated

2006-10-23 23:56:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you know the ones that don't try and get their leg over first, and don't cheat and just treat girls how they should be?
if so...where the heck are they?! lol!!

2006-10-23 23:56:07 · 45 answers · asked by northukstudent 3 in Singles & Dating

or start to dislike them if this happens sometimes.......

We have a mutual friend, he is my age and Ive known him for years. When we are together and chatting he will sometimes grab hold of me, pick me up and squeeze me, more so when we've been drinking, it's very innocent, I guess he's just more of a touchy feely person.
When he brings a new girlfriend along, I feel uncomfortable about him doing that, not that there's anything in it, I worry that his partner wouldn't like him doing that and start to dislike me, do you think you'd feel like that, or is it just me being paranoid?

2006-10-23 23:55:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She's always criticising the way i dress and it makes me feel really conscious and embarassed. From what i've been told i dress pretty smart but recently she bought me an armani shirt and that told me that she expects that kind of standard. I'm only at university and am poor and I've brought the issue up with her but it's something that always seems to bother her. Sometimes i feel that she is really materialistic what do u guys think, and should i dump her?

2006-10-23 23:55:21 · 6 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 23:54:47 · 28 answers · asked by Gurpinderjit G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

does anyone have something against the fact that im smoking?or
drink coffee?pls be honest...........whats wrong with that?

2006-10-23 23:53:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-23 23:52:40 · 14 answers · asked by littlevanbeer23 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 23:52:18 · 3 answers · asked by dog_fish_carp_1 1 in Friends

I'l say right away that my good friend does have a girlfriend.
Him and I have always liked and respected each other as people. Now whenever we are around each other i get this incredible urge to touch him and be near him. We are always mucking around and play fighting and picking on each other, and he sticks up for me and calls me sweet nicknames. We are always touching each other and making extra effort to be near each other. I know its wrong for me because i dont want to cause any trouble, but when im near him i cant control myself. He is not a bad guy and he would not cheat. But i am curious as to why this is happening. Is he just being my friend, does he not think we are flirting? And should i stop with the flirting is it wrong of me? To be honest i really do care about him but i am not sure what is morally the best way to go. Insight would be appreciated.. Thanks

2006-10-23 23:51:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I can keep it completely secret?

2006-10-23 23:49:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-23 23:48:43 · 8 answers · asked by Jenni 1 in Singles & Dating

Long story short my boyfriend (well know ex boyfriend) cheated on me, I just came from his house and his roomate let me in not knowing if he was there or not so I go in his room and hes in there asleep with some girl and then the girls sister was asleep ont he couch in his room.

He got mad cause he got caught and didnt apologize or nothin. Well I had a bag of his clothes in my car that I had got from the cleaners, would I be wrong if I fuked up all his clothes and tore them up and returned them or should I just be the bigger person and tell him he needs to come and get his shitt from out of my car.

I am so hurt cause I still love him and I know that he still loves me but he feels like Im gonna cheat on him cause his ex-wife cheated on him 2 years ago. That doesnt justify him doing wrong by me but should I just mess all his stuff up or be mature and tell him to come get it. Please help cause I am still broken hearted

2006-10-23 23:48:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i feel that the emotional attachment in love (between a girl and a boy) is so high , that it hides the fact that it is basically caused by the physical attraction. I can understand that there are many relationships which is just emotional attachment like friendship, brotherly love, motherly love etc., My question is does love between a boy and a girl would exist in this world without the basic desire to touch, kiss etc., i dont want exceptions, i just want to know what to know the majority.

2006-10-23 23:47:22 · 2 answers · asked by v.arunmozhi 1 in Singles & Dating

How would u react if the girl u'e inlove with soo deeply sent u a message saying she doesn't love you anymore and is gonna move on , and then calls you 5 days later to see you?

2006-10-23 23:46:24 · 12 answers · asked by Karine 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I tell my wife?
My wife started grad. school. One week into the semester, she brought a friend home. We all went clubbing and all the time her friend, who was a bit drunk, kept on telling my wife and me how good a husband I was and how lucky my wife was.

As we reached home, she said she wanted to talk to me and we went down in the elevator. My wife went into our apartment. As the elevator closed, she started kissing me and I, who was also quite drunk kissed her back. We got a little passionate, however both realised it was wrong and so we got back home. My wife asked me what she wanted to talk about, and I said it was nothing, she was just very drunk.

The next day I called her and told her to forget what happened, and although I felt it was not my fault, I was sorry. We have met a few time afterwards with my wife along with me.

What should I do? I love my wife. Should I tell her? Also, I think her friend is very preety. Should I ask her what made her make a move on me

2006-10-23 23:46:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

as to whether a man cooks or not? I married young, my partner was still living at home with his parents, he has never cooked a meal in his life, if I'm too busy or back late, he'll go and get take away food. Do you think that a woman becomes a mother figure if her partner has never lived alone?
It's the same with housework, every now and then I'll have a moan and he'll push a hoover round, but I do it all.
It's what I have become used to so I doubt I'll change it, and not sure I'd like fried egg and bacon every time he would cook if that happened.
Are there any men out there that cooks well, and does the odd bit of housework, who have never lived by themselves ever?

2006-10-23 23:45:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

did you manage to resolve it?

2006-10-23 23:40:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-23 23:40:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-23 23:39:23 · 2 answers · asked by Seagull 6 in Friends

he's coming to this party tommorow that I'm gonna be at. What should I do? HELP!!!!! Another girl told me he was a serial flirt but she used to like him. Should I be taking her advice?

2006-10-23 23:37:35 · 5 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 24yrs my boyfriend and I both work and have a house in the mountains. His ex does not work never has she sometimes gets jobs with mentaly ill or elderly people then claims she gets hurt and sues..thats how she gets money. She lives in an apartment and is on welfare, says she cant drive more then 3 miles because it hurts (another attempt at lawsuit) we think she is trying to get dissability. her boyfriend also doesn't work, uses excuse "I cant drive a manual" she put a restraining order on my boyfriend last yr admits it was just to get abused spouse $ and in that it says He only gets the kids age 10 and 8. 4 days a month unless mom arranges smthg else. If he fights do you think he can get full custody?

2006-10-23 23:36:03 · 11 answers · asked by mnm4213 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this message is being sent to a good Greek friend getting married in greece

2006-10-23 23:34:09 · 10 answers · asked by john g b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what gave u the strength to get over it ? hope the answers to this question helps anyone in this situation today

2006-10-23 23:33:37 · 35 answers · asked by ho2asme 2 in Singles & Dating