I'l say right away that my good friend does have a girlfriend.
Him and I have always liked and respected each other as people. Now whenever we are around each other i get this incredible urge to touch him and be near him. We are always mucking around and play fighting and picking on each other, and he sticks up for me and calls me sweet nicknames. We are always touching each other and making extra effort to be near each other. I know its wrong for me because i dont want to cause any trouble, but when im near him i cant control myself. He is not a bad guy and he would not cheat. But i am curious as to why this is happening. Is he just being my friend, does he not think we are flirting? And should i stop with the flirting is it wrong of me? To be honest i really do care about him but i am not sure what is morally the best way to go. Insight would be appreciated.. Thanks
2006-10-23 23:51:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He'll take whatever you offer but wont leave his girlfriend for you. I'd say him and the lads get a great laugh out of you making a fool of yourself.
2006-10-23 23:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by survival_paul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is morally wrong, and i guess the reason why u do it is purlu phyical, common u need to b toched, and wen u r good frnds, u have that extra attachment and comfort which u need, and yes u shud stop it, otherwise it mite land u in some kind of trouble, so before it gets too late, control urself, i know its notan easy job, but watz the fun in doing easy things, so from next time make an extra effort to stay distant, it mite cost u sfrnd, but u have to make him undestand, initiaaly it mite offend him( mite have offended u, if he suddenly stay distant) but if he is ur good frnd, i m sure he will undestand, all the best
2006-10-23 23:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by hmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't realize that what he's doing is confusion you. He's just being your friend do not live until he breaks up with his girlfriend trust me on this his horse around is just a Guy thing in joy it and when the time is come you to be more than friends he will let you know okay
2006-10-23 23:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really normal.
But the question is, do you really love him with your heart.
I have to be honest, it happened to me recently and i still can't get the feeling out of my heart.
My best friend also likes me alot more than I always thinked she did.But I never realised it.The way men think isn't always the answer, really!!. Just never do anything that might cause you your friendship
2006-10-24 00:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by TATSU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should say forget about this friend.But whenever you see him,try to get as far away as possible to avoid further trouble.Stop flirting is a MUST.
2006-10-23 23:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could be thinking he is flirting as your feelings have increased for him - if this is how he has behaved in your friendship then that is probably more his personality.
you should sit down and have a open chat about it all and see if he feels the same way
LIFE IS TOO SHORT!!!
2006-10-23 23:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by schmushe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you are merely flirting. Ever heard the expression, "Flirting with disaster"?
2006-10-23 23:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would help if we knew how old you are.
The guy is definatly flirting. If he has a gf he shouldn;t be flirting with you. But if you guys are like 12 yr old. thatz how it is
2006-10-23 23:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as a girl u should be strick to him..wen ever he touch u should avoid him cos girls is like flower...and now cant believe any guys and v dun know wat they talking and doing behind us so we must know our limit as girl..the feelings comes from heart so keep ur heart strong u can do it..now u can let him touch but day by day other guys will treat u in same way n ur name n imej as girl will go from u...
2006-10-24 00:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by priya s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop flirting you'll get hurt if you still insist that feeling.
2006-10-23 23:54:56 · answer #10 · answered by Vocal Prowess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋