She's always criticising the way i dress and it makes me feel really conscious and embarassed. From what i've been told i dress pretty smart but recently she bought me an armani shirt and that told me that she expects that kind of standard. I'm only at university and am poor and I've brought the issue up with her but it's something that always seems to bother her. Sometimes i feel that she is really materialistic what do u guys think, and should i dump her?
2006-10-23 23:55:21 · 6 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is trying to change and shape you. WHY?
What did she see in you from the start if you were so imperfect.
She is more worried about impressions and not concerned with character.
Suggest you let her go to find the guy who wants to wear the Armani shirt. She evidently has parents with money and that will most likely be a problem for as long as you two are a couple.
2006-10-24 00:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are very different, age makes a big difference and young woman can be very trendy which can be a big problem. She looks in the mirror every morning or when ever and think I like this or I don't. Sometimes it happens that woman compensate for they're lack of something, in this case probably the right friends. She is somewhat insecure and I presume she needs to feel better by showing of in front of who ever she sees.
It is not her fault and it might never change, look for someone who can benefit you and your life, it is as important you do that as it is for her to find someone who will benefit and suit her.
Don't feel bad life has ups and downs all you need to do to get through them is learn from the good and bad. Remember there is more than one soul mate for everyone. If you are happy with your partner she will be with you and if this is not so then you are with the wrong partner.
Good luck
2006-10-24 00:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Susanna G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. I married a man who was materialistic. I was more in to helping save the world. We have HUGE differences in how we wanted to live our lives and use our money. I made the wrong decision to marry him.
There are things that cause troubles in a relationship that just get worse as time goes on.
2006-10-24 00:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the long run you two wont work out because it seems as if you two have diffrent priorities, yours being in the right place. yes she is materialistic and borderline manipulative.
2006-10-24 00:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by emanon1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read my lips: D U M P H E R!!!
2006-10-23 23:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about how you feel...
2006-10-24 00:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by The phoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋