Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

and we've been spending time together. I realize he's not marriage material, he's been married 3 times but we do have fun and even more fun in bed. My question is it wrong to just have a casual relationship? He's been talking that since we're sexually active that it is wrong and we're committing a sin because we're not married but given his record, I wouldn't ever marry him. I sometimes have guilt but he is a lot of fun, what should I do?

2006-10-23 00:35:37 · 10 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't really believe in one-upmanship in relationships, but my boyfriend has done something three or four times that really annoys me. We live together, and he'll be out drinking with his friends, and he says he'll be home at a certain time. He never sticks to that time... then I'm wondering where he is... he'll let me know at 3 in the morning that he's staying at a friend's (usually his brother's), or once he didn't let me know either way and stayed out overnight. I do trust him and I'm sure he isn't out doing the dirty on me, and this isn't a huge problem as it's only happened a few times, I just think it's very inconsiderate. He always apologises and says he won't do it again. Anyway he did it last week and I just wonder if I should stay out all night and not tell him so he knows how annoying and rude it is, there's only so many times I can tell him... advice please!

2006-10-23 00:34:36 · 19 answers · asked by Miss J 2 in Singles & Dating

This is the six month since we started our relationship. But this lady is too demanding. Everytime we meet or she calls, she just ask for money. She just like please but me this......... buy me that.........

She has just sent me a tex in my mobile phone "I dont love her because I dont take the responsibility"

I have stopped giving her money since September.I really dont like this sort of relationship. THAT IS EXCHANGING LOVE FOR MONEY!

I just ask my self, this is just a very beginning step in our relationship!, how about when we get married?? what if a guy with more money that I have comes? Does she really love me ??

Please advise me, what further step should I take to deal with this. I really love her, but her habits makes me really uncomrotable and feel like she is using me as an ATM.

Please advice me!! Please

2006-10-23 00:34:05 · 28 answers · asked by imma 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 00:33:37 · 13 answers · asked by naturalherb_101 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-23 00:33:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anyone have any good sites on where I may fnd some not low budget looking black gowns that are medevil type? I would be most gracious if you could.

2006-10-23 00:32:13 · 10 answers · asked by Neece 2 in Weddings

My guy has a friend who has a gf, and we have been out on double dates. However, I am not comfortable being around the gf at all and don't really like her. I have been going to these double dates out of courtesy but I would like to start turning it down. Can anyone give me any ideas on how to turn it down without my guy and them knowing I don't like them.

2006-10-23 00:31:21 · 7 answers · asked by teddytrin 3 in Friends

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2006-10-23 00:30:44 · 17 answers · asked by Vig 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-23 00:30:37 · 40 answers · asked by Strawberry Cheesecake 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi guys,it is not a good thing to seek for a divorce I know.But when you are not respected and your spouse still chats on the internet with her male firends,then the best thing to do is get out.I got married about 4 months ago and I want out.
How do I start?

2006-10-23 00:29:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

one day a acquaintance friend and I went to buy two computers and we had cut the price of computer very lowly, just we went to pay, he told me"I did not money to pay and if you would pay for it, I would pay back next week, because of my parents would give me next week." Did you known what I do?

2006-10-23 00:29:15 · 1 answers · asked by peng w 1 in Friends

My mom seem to like my sister more than me she buys her stuf and her kids she has a really good paying job and i work and make 6.00 pr. hr. i moved out and trying to live their and take care of my son. and before i moived out my sister would leave her kids their with my mom and grandma and she went out drinking and i had to beg for them the watch my son so i could take a shower and i just turn 21 and i haven't been able to go out for my brithday but she can go out and drink all the time, my mom just lovers her kids and gets them everthing my son hardly has any clothes cuz my sister take all of them and my clothes too and my boyfriend too and give it to her kids and her boyfriend and mine she keeps for her self and when i say something to them they say i am a big baby and i will fale in life and my mom wondres why i am takeing meds for depresion. what do you think?

2006-10-23 00:27:53 · 8 answers · asked by ASHLEY 3 in Family

i have heard that love is nothing in this world from many of my friends i want to know that how far is it true.

2006-10-23 00:26:09 · 21 answers · asked by tanya 1 in Friends

2006-10-23 00:24:51 · 9 answers · asked by Jane Smith 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-23 00:23:33 · 16 answers · asked by ashee 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-23 00:21:10 · 3 answers · asked by Eboni 1 in Friends

Fireworks were going offThursday, Friday nights and untill 2.30am Sunday morning around here.

2006-10-23 00:20:35 · 15 answers · asked by ann n 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this is slightly off topic but my fiance and I have decided to give up smoking so we have more money for the wedding and also so we're not both dead by the time were 40.
we both smoke 15-20 a day and have done so for half our lives. has anyone succesfully quit? how did you do it? we do really want to stop but im not sure if my will-power alone is enough.
we know tensions are going to be running really high in the flat until the cravings subside but i dont want us to kill each other!

2006-10-23 00:20:29 · 34 answers · asked by ladyjinx 3 in Weddings

child support/maintenance and left his country to live overseas with his girlfriend.

2006-10-23 00:19:59 · 13 answers · asked by Emeraude E 4 in Marriage & Divorce

did you wait before having sex with your boyfirend/girlfriend? I've been with my boyfriend for 6 weeks, and we've talked about it, but I never know how to ask him about it when we're in bed. We're both virgins and I don't want to pressure him.

2006-10-23 00:19:43 · 24 answers · asked by jowigley 2 in Singles & Dating

Neither of us had really grown up and he finished it which resulted in me being very depressed and ill for a number of months. Although I love him very much and am still sad I've been getting on with life and when I bumped into him he seemed sad and keen to meet up for "a cup of tea" to say hello. He also acted quite jealous about any potential men I may have! I'm confused as I love him and worried if I meet up i'll be very sad and let down as he'll only want to say "hello" but the signs he gave out to me were that he missed me and still wanted to be with me (despite finishing with me)?? Should I meet up with him or not?

2006-10-23 00:18:35 · 2 answers · asked by Tilly 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 00:17:27 · 8 answers · asked by tumishok 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For 18 years of marriage my husband was agressive and controlled everything. Where he comes from men are head of family but I think that position stressed him. I put up with it for the sake of our daughter now 16 but I was very unhappy. However, I loved and still love him very much. Last year I found out he was having an affair and taking Viagra (he is 41). I was very hurt. He said affair didn't mean anything etc etc but he wanted to move out so he could re-assess what he wants to do in life as he always had to please others and compromise. Now he lives alone but comes back to our house every weekend. He treats me really well and we are enjoying our time together, but I can't understand why he needs to live away from us in order to treat us well? When I suggest that perhaps he should stay away in order to work out what he wants he gets upset and says he won't be given ultimatums, but I don't think thats what I am asking. Can't he see what he is doing to me?

2006-10-23 00:17:23 · 13 answers · asked by Nancy S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-10-23 00:16:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a recently married girl, during intercourse i make some noise(moaning) which irritates my husband and he want me to keep silence,i am controling but still its happening, is it wrong to moan? does every woman do like that if so why?

2006-10-23 00:14:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It is bothering me to no end....why do guys think that women are so difficult to understand? they always ask 'what do women want?'....it is not that difficult really...but why are guys so confused?

2006-10-23 00:14:13 · 9 answers · asked by Ice Princess 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is doing alot he watchs the baby when i am working but their are time he gets so up set at time for well beening a baby he has never done anything to me but i still worrie about my son. And i work 3rd shift sometime i get off of work at 7am i get home and when our son wakes up he wants me to watch him after i get home and he has been home he could of slept but he stays up all night till like 4:30am and i all ways says he is tired and i worked 8 hr. and he don't even work. What should i do?

2006-10-23 00:11:25 · 7 answers · asked by ASHLEY 3 in Family

I am 17 years old and my entire life no girls have liked me. The only girl that did became a lesbian but thats a different story entirely. But literally within 5 minutes of each other 2 of my friends told me they have a crush on me. I don't live near any of them so I can't go by location, I really like both of them, and I just don't know what to do. I've never had to deal with anything like this in my entire life and probably never will again but I just need some advice... and since I don't want to pay for a therapist I thought i'd turn to complete strangers, they always seem to have better advice anyway

2006-10-23 00:11:10 · 12 answers · asked by Absinthe 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think that a love relationship occurs even if the both haven't talked to eachother?he started looking me for 2yrs and i think that he like me but he hasn't ever talked to me .And he tried to come close to me but i ignored it but now i think that i too love him.i don't know how to continue this relation

2006-10-23 00:08:04 · 28 answers · asked by simran 1 in Singles & Dating

the woman has a very good pension scheme and I have very little pension ...... she is 48 I am 57

2006-10-23 00:07:46 · 15 answers · asked by bill s 1 in Marriage & Divorce