did you wait before having sex with your boyfirend/girlfriend? I've been with my boyfriend for 6 weeks, and we've talked about it, but I never know how to ask him about it when we're in bed. We're both virgins and I don't want to pressure him.
2006-10-23 00:19:43 · 24 answers · asked by jowigley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 21 and he's 25
2006-10-23 00:37:36 · update #1
I waited 6 weeks with my partner, you know he may be thinking the same as you and is afraid to push and ask, have you even discussed the issue of sex? One other thing how old are you? Please don't rush into anything, yes sex is great but its not the most important thing. Good luck in the future.
2006-10-23 00:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by scotlandsno1yummymummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take things slowly. I rushed into having sex with my first major boyfriend when i was 16 and i wish i would have waited. When the time is right you will both know and it will just happen. So just enjoy the time you spend together as it is and don't worry to much about the sexual side of the relationship.
2006-10-23 09:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by syrrens_angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember you only have one first time ,and you want to remember it with pleasure.I was with my girfriend for 2 years and never went further than a bit of heavy petting.Then on our wedding night it seemed the normal thing to do, we relaxed and got on with it,and do you Know it may not have been the best sex we ever had ,but it was the lovliest and most memorable,so theres no rush the moment will arrive,and you dont have to get married to do it.
2006-10-23 10:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by wozza.lad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any time when you are ready.
Honestly, if you think he's really a keeper and he really thinks the best for you, he will wait as long as you like.
If you really want to share love by having sex now, tell him that you think you're ready.
Make him give pleasure to you first so it won't hurt you.
Do never forget to use a condom!!
2006-10-23 07:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are ya'll doing in bed if your not having sex? Does he not make any moves or attempt to have sex? I might be worried if he doesn't! If you have a sexual attraction alot of this just comes natural, don't ask just stuggle up next to him and start rubbing his chest and back and see what happens!
2006-10-23 07:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you want to have sex with him.
If you do and your above age then maybe you could just leave a condom visible one day so he knows that you are going to talk about it.
Later you could smile sweetly and ask him if he would like to try it on !!???!! If he does great, maybe you could help him try it on, if he doesn't tell him you love him and say it doesn't matter there is no pressure but ask him when to talk to him about it next.
Good luck.
2006-10-23 07:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it will happen in time if you both are ready, if you are ready why dont you make the first move ur man might be a bit worried about making the first move! i hope you are both over 16 and use protection hun!
2006-10-23 07:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by princesssp8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will both know when the time is right. Dont rush into something as major as this because its something you will remeber for the rest of your life.!
2006-10-23 08:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel comfortable together do it!!
Plan a special evening and have a nice meal and some drinks(not too many) and the rest will follow!!!
Good luck...
2006-10-23 07:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by HIMSELF 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen Girl 6 weeks and you thinking of breaking your virgin? that's crazy! Keep it as long as you can! 6 Weeks is nothing! Maybe a year, but both of you sounds so pure, don't be stupid! 4 Play, its better! But be cool! Please don't put so much stress on the both of you. DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-10-23 07:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by confussie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋