Do you think that a love relationship occurs even if the both haven't talked to eachother?he started looking me for 2yrs and i think that he like me but he hasn't ever talked to me .And he tried to come close to me but i ignored it but now i think that i too love him.i don't know how to continue this relation
2006-10-23 00:08:04 · 28 answers · asked by simran 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Simran..
Well to be frank with you LOVE HAPPENS auomatically..i mean even a first sight is enough for Love...
Anyways in your sitauation still its not clear as to he LOVES you or not becos he just tried to come close to you and still he didnt talk and infact even you too didnt talk to him as of yet..
In such situation its very tough to predict or read ones mind..but one think i can say it that he might feel good when he wish to be in your company and so only he tries to come near to you..and now that u to have certain feeling for him...then the best way to get solution is that u need to go forward and talk to him...
Dont feel that if u go forward it maybe bit shy or extreme step..just a casul talk couldmake things easy for you,..
GOOD LUCK TAKE CARE BYE BYE
2006-10-25 18:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by lalit_jain123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a relationship occurs when two people interact. It seems the two of you aren't yet interacting. Therefore, you need to have actual contact. You said you don't know how to continue this relationship.
For starters, talking would be the best thing. If you don't feel you can do that in person, then email or phone might be a safe way to start. You can get to know him that way first.
But for the relationship to occur, there needs to be something to go on besides just him looking at you.
Good luck!
2006-10-23 00:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by 7aliens 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey the only reason i am answering this question is that even i was once in such a situation not the same exactly. But u know what i did through some of his friends i gave him my email id and i even got his id. I thought if he does not e mail me i shall go ahead.That was only because he had an id try and find out the person u like has an id or no .But if not then the only thing i can say go smile at him or speak to him show him Ur interested in him now.
2006-10-23 00:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by tanya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think liking or infatuation is the first step of any relationship. but if even feel in the same way then i would suggest talk to him on comfort zone what he wants with talking how could u came to know that the person is really good or bad. or what his intension. igorent might give you later on a gility conssious that if u had spoken or this or that so better speak and then decide
2006-10-23 00:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by VKS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's attraction i think. i fell in love really fast once but i've only ever had crushes on people i haven't talked to, and then they can be really different once you get to know them. i had an instinct for the guy i fell in love with (i knew when i met him) and we were together a year. If you see this guy again just go for it.
2006-10-23 00:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It might. The problem is that both of you seems don't have the courage to start to talk.
I think one should start it, and why not you.
Try with a single word "Hi ..," and see what his respond would be.
Hope this work for you.
2006-10-23 00:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by Harry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, When u don't know whether he loves or not doesn't matter but query tells that u love him. so, i suggest u to do propose him and see what happens. I wish u all the best. Love live long.
2006-10-23 00:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by ashu k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not invite him for a coffee. Talk about the weather anything to get a dialogue going!!
2006-10-23 00:10:32 · answer #8 · answered by athomemommy_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. You would be surprised how a heart to heart talk would do wonders to clear the "cloudy air" of non communication.
2006-10-23 00:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for god sake dont ignore someone like that. as u have already ignored him, i suggest u go to him and be freinds with him. u can know him better and then u may disclose ure feelings to him. its better to know someone very well before u commit to him.
2006-10-23 04:34:09 · answer #10 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋