Im twenty, and well I have had a problem with sex since I started engaging. I physically can have sex, and have no problems gettin horny or wet, but when it comes to actually havin sex, it is not a great experience. And its not the guys, but for me its very mechanical. I get no pleasure from it, but it does not hurt or anything either. So, I talked to a therapists and we explores some possible some reasons why, there were some issues in my childhood(i wasnt raped or anything like that), but now that I know why, I dont know how to fix the problem. I cant very well go and have sex with just some random guy to see if my problem is fixed now that I know the underlying cause, so what do I do? How do I know if i like sex now? And, if I dont, what are the odds of me have a healthy relationship, or any relationship at all, if I dont have sex, at all?
2006-10-23
02:08:38
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ImAGoodGirl0605
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