Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

become a mockery. I have five chldren, my wife stay's home to take care of our children. We live above the poverty level(middle class) in the United States. Her family fufills her.....but, she isn't American......she is from El Salvador. Her culture is the same as ours was 100 years ago (as far as marrage goes). The divorce rate in her country is around 6% (the last statistic I saw) and is closing in around 60% here in the US.....In El Salvador, men work as well as women......I can't explain our high divorce rate away on women........it's society........and the way women are percieved......way too much sex.....seems to me if women were at home with the kids, there wouldn't be so much infadelty by women.
When a man cheats (I would never cheat) on his wife, it's usually because she is holding out emottionally (P@ssy Power), but when a woman cheats, it's because she's looking for something better. Basically, Men want every woman, Women want the best man. WOMEN stay home!

2006-10-23 02:39:01 · 12 answers · asked by 6ft5inallman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a question to ask u all i have a friend who is very jealous because i have a boyfriend which is her ex of 7 years ago now she says shes fine with it as she is with my ex but when i am with him she turns nasty to me and im gettin fed up of being treated this way and thinking of breaking our 18 year friendship together anyone have any advice on wat to do next

2006-10-23 02:36:43 · 20 answers · asked by blue_lead_sky 1 in Friends

Include any details that you wish like at park, movie, church, job, my friend hooked us up, blind date, internet, i rear ended her, whatever!!

2006-10-23 02:35:42 · 25 answers · asked by porsha226 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a new boyfriend and I like him but I'm a realist and I don't love him. He has been hinting on wanting to mess around and have sex. I kinda want to but...I have my doubts and worries. Is it wrong? to have sex with someone you don't love?

2006-10-23 02:35:07 · 27 answers · asked by grace 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think i should just keep them closed or what?

2006-10-23 02:35:01 · 21 answers · asked by No Name Joe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I stupidly got very drunk this weekend and made a fool of myself in frony of my boyfriend's friends. I can't even remember being at the bar let alone doing any of the things people have said i did so it's difficult for me to actually know what happened. I need to make my bf see how sorry i am and that i only want him, no other guys.Please help.

2006-10-23 02:34:35 · 28 answers · asked by emz180789 1 in Singles & Dating

How much freedom , and privacy should a young teenage boy have in relationships with girls .
Should they given absolute trust or supervised, and advised , Should you keep an eye on them, or give them absolute trust.
I just want opinions

2006-10-23 02:33:13 · 4 answers · asked by kevin d 4 in Singles & Dating

I found out 3 weeks ago that I'm pregnant. We have been together for 4 years. A year ago I moved out and we've been tryinig to salvage what relationship we have left. Basically we're starting all over. He has always accused me of trying to "control" him by asking him to do nice things for me. He tells me how much I mean to him, but he doesn't seem to understand the concept of "actions speak louder than words". SInce we found out, he has been proclaming his love for me. He wants us to move back in together a.s.a.p. and has has the whole wedding pretty much planned. He did a lot for his ex wife, (so he says) and she left him after 11 years, so he's convinced that it will happen with us, so I get JIPPED out of good treatment. I've never asked to expensive things. All I ask for is him to accomadate my cravings when possible, and make me feel like I AM pregnant. He thinks I'm trying to "make him my personal robot". How can I make him understand what is ecpected of him right now?

2006-10-23 02:32:03 · 18 answers · asked by G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Youth between the age of 16 to 24 involved in sex scandal which may put them at risk of having infection and also unwanted pregnacy.

2006-10-23 02:30:46 · 54 answers · asked by matareth 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that women put this fear in men. Is it a way of getting back at men coz in some ways they are made to feel inferior? Or is it sexual satisfaction? What the hell is it?

2006-10-23 02:30:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My niece is 10 and lately she is hating herself. She is always saying she is ugly, which she isn't, and she is stupid, which she isn't.

This is a new thing with her and as many times as I tell her she isn't ugly or stupid she argues with me.

How can I make her see what we all see.

2006-10-23 02:30:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-23 02:29:20 · 18 answers · asked by T R 2 in Singles & Dating

They says I am good looking but I cant find anyone to go out with me, last approch I had she said that she would not go out with a man that doesn't have a car, another said she was scared to hang out with me at night. Wow what's happening?

2006-10-23 02:28:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How come when a question is up for voting, the stupidest answers are usually chosen for best answer? I put lots of thought into my answers and all of them are more than a sentence long. Not to brag but I think most of the time my answer should be chosen as best answer and I'm getting sick of one worded answers being picked. Like does every1 have a group of friends that goes to each others unresolved questions and pick their stupid answers for them? If so I need to find me some of those friends! Lol I'm not looking for my answers to be picked when they're bad I want people to look at my answers and help me out when they're really good! If any1's interested in starting a little group to help all the really good answer's email me! And I'm not saying all of the people's answer's are usually bad, just the one's with no thought. If you know the answer let me know. Thanks Everyone!!! {And yes I know this is probably the wrong catagory but this is the one I usuallly visit}

2006-10-23 02:28:21 · 12 answers · asked by bcch89 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

raul and me got back together again he told me he would only trust me a girl lies to him and he breaks up he dosen't even ask me if its true or not and i know what i did or didn't say and i didn't and its over now but he was the first guy who i loved

2006-10-23 02:27:44 · 14 answers · asked by tomboy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is your opinion about living together before marriage or before possible engagement. I told my girlfriend that if we were still together in 9-12 months that I would like to live with her. I don't see why we won't be together, I just said 'if' to not freak her out. Anyway, she said that she doesn't see herself living with anyone until she is engaged or married, that it takes away from the actual marriage if two people live together before hand. Any thoughts?

Especially from people that waited until marriage before you moved in together.

2006-10-23 02:26:40 · 29 answers · asked by tightlies 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this question might have been asked like a zillion times, but I'm holding my breath because I think my boyfriend might pop the question soon... I'm just curious :)

2006-10-23 02:25:14 · 15 answers · asked by girliegirl 2 in Weddings

He's a very understanding boss, but I don't like him as a "man" know what I mean - HELP! b/c of this I avoid speaking directly to him and I feel that he's noticed that I blush!! I feel so embarassed! I can't control it I can't control the blushing

2006-10-23 02:22:27 · 18 answers · asked by shyone 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Pretty much since i was born i grew up going to church with my parents every sunday but the truth is I never felt had God in my life & whenever i was in trouble or in need i prayed to God I never got a response as I was in a pentecostal denomination church this personal relationship people had meant you'd have people saying "oh God told me to do this, i heard his voice telling me that i can feel his prescence etc etc I guess i grew to question his existance when things in life went from disaster to disaster eventually it lead me to just give it all up all together i just felt like i've been wasting my time trying to get connected to God when ever i tried as hard as i could i never got a response since I left the church scene altogether the so called friends I made a church have all disowned me never to contact again so now at 20yrs old i'm starting over again just would like to get some tips on where to find new friends out of church & former schoolfriends are all but uncontactable.

2006-10-23 02:21:55 · 8 answers · asked by heikz_h 1 in Friends

I have a friend and we have always liked and respected each other as people but now whenever we are around each other i get this incredible urge to touch him and be near him so i do and he always touches me back and we are always mucking around and play fighting and picking on each other, and he sticks up for me and calls me sweet nicknames. i feel that there is somthing am i mistaking this? Is he just being my friend?

2006-10-23 02:21:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 02:21:41 · 15 answers · asked by G 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just curious what happend to make it come to that after so many years and how did your life turn out after.

2006-10-23 02:21:19 · 8 answers · asked by mksjmyd 4 in Marriage & Divorce

For those that do not know, a Bridezilla is a bride to be who focuses so much on the event that she becomes difficult and obnoxious. I watch the show on WE, and though it does not apply to me (I had a small wedding and I'm not into the fuss of a wedding), I find it funny. If you were not one, do you know a Bridezilla? What happened?

2006-10-23 02:20:57 · 11 answers · asked by GreenEyedSista 4 in Weddings

What do you think are the chances of you actually succeeding would be?

Your answer does not have to be based on actual real life experience - I for one don't indulge in one-night-stands - but a truthful answer (especially from men) based on your best judgement would be great.

I haven't done it, but I reckon that for me it would be 1 in 5 - That means that if I went out 5 times, I would succeed once.

I am curious to see the different scores from men and women.

2006-10-23 02:20:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he loves me a lot.. he`s acting like he`s really in love.. but i don`t.. i don`t want to...it`s not that i don`t love him..

2006-10-23 02:20:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

whois watching football all the time and have no ideas of what to in leisure time?

2006-10-23 02:20:36 · 47 answers · asked by monisiagr 1 in Family

I have no outstanding morgage on the house, It worries me because i want to leave my house to my niece. My late husband left no will. We were married when we brought the house. Does the house naturally go to me although the deeds are in my husbands name or should i have the deeds changed.

2006-10-23 02:19:43 · 9 answers · asked by Dexter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I have been together for six months. I have cancer and sometimes I fear death so much that I don't think it is fair to her. She is married and planning a divorce for me but they have a two year old son. I could die tommorow and I feel like I am ruining her life because I don't know what my tommorow holds. She is waiting until we can afford to live on our own before she divorces him and I am so afraid that I may be ruining her life. I know she loves me and she doesn't care about the cancer and how long she has with me. It is just that if she had decided to divorce him before we were actually together then I would feel more confident. It is just that she that I love her so much that it breaks my heart sometime.

2006-10-23 02:19:16 · 14 answers · asked by mtjs06 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is having problems with her boyfriends ex girlfriend, he has a 2 yr old daughter with this girl and this girl keeps calling there house, calling her names and harrassing her, she doenst know what to do cause she doesnt want her boyfriend to loose his kid and the ex girl friend to not let them see her, what should she do?

2006-10-23 02:18:39 · 7 answers · asked by Pompin Jo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I seem unable to follow a stable lifestyle, I like to rock the boat and move out of my comfort zone. Why do I do this? Its unsettling and counter-productive to my social life and career. Is this normal?

2006-10-23 02:17:50 · 18 answers · asked by Kirsty X UK 1 in Other - Family & Relationships