become a mockery. I have five chldren, my wife stay's home to take care of our children. We live above the poverty level(middle class) in the United States. Her family fufills her.....but, she isn't American......she is from El Salvador. Her culture is the same as ours was 100 years ago (as far as marrage goes). The divorce rate in her country is around 6% (the last statistic I saw) and is closing in around 60% here in the US.....In El Salvador, men work as well as women......I can't explain our high divorce rate away on women........it's society........and the way women are percieved......way too much sex.....seems to me if women were at home with the kids, there wouldn't be so much infadelty by women.
When a man cheats (I would never cheat) on his wife, it's usually because she is holding out emottionally (P@ssy Power), but when a woman cheats, it's because she's looking for something better. Basically, Men want every woman, Women want the best man. WOMEN stay home!
2006-10-23 02:39:01 · 12 answers · asked by 6ft5inallman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with you 100% !! I feel that women's liberation has caused the divorce rate to skyrocket! Women have gotten so independent, that they don't need men anymore.Women these days don't understand submission in a relationship. When a women won't submit at least some control to her husband; the marriage will fall apart. I am American Indian....Cherokee....with five kids as well. I work at home. I know you are going to be called sexist; but what you say is true!! And, i also think it is wrong for women to emotionally blackmail their husbands with sex; like you said...it's wrong! When you marry someone...you really do belong to them!
2006-10-23 02:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Are you crazy? I tried that staying home thing being a great wife and mom. I didn't hold anything back from my (ex) husband. I loved him fully, did everything for him, and after 9 years of his infidelity, I kicked him to the curb. I was then a single mom with no education besides a high school diploma and scared to death.
Society has laxed a lot on morals and ethics and it sounds like your values are complete crap.... telling women to stay home. GIVE ME A BREAK! Many women are self-reliant and can be very successful in the job market. Working outside the home does NOT lead to infidelity!!!
I had to take it upon myself to work full time, raise three kids, and put myself through school. Would I have had to do this is my guy wasn't a dog? MAYBE ... he should've just stayed home and raised the kids and this would have prevented his infertility.
Wake up man... this is not the ice age... infidelity happens but it doesn't happen because of being in the job market. It happens because there is a problem in the relationship. END OF STORY!
2006-10-23 02:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by razzyrascal 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've been married 1 year, together with my husband for 3 years. Both of us work. There is no way around this. We have bills to pay and there are expenses that cannot be completed with just one paycheck. We don't even have kids. Asking women to stay home is not the answer to the problem - it is based individually on each person and how they handle things. Society is moving fast and it's always about having the next best thing, bigger is better - and people actually fall for that crap. No one has the patience to work on their relationships and the second something goes wrong, everybody wants out. What really should be happening is people need to redevelop respect for their partners and keep their focus on their marriage instead of on what everybody else thinks.
2006-10-23 03:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A BA with a spotlight in homemaking? at the same time as did homemaking change into so puzzling? Did I miss something? Wash dishes, do laundry, mop floor, follow recipe so on and so on. I do it popular and carry an finished time job. This takes a school training? i'm no longer knocking homemakers, this is an important job for a male or lady, notwithstanding it type of feels to me that it is extra of a proclamation of their beliefs (because the route is in basic terms for women) than a severe section for centred training. What a group of hooey.
2016-12-05 03:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by mehaffey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have some of it right. My wife was a stay at home mom until the kids got into school. now after a year of working she has found another guy and we are seperated heading towards divorce. Of course stay at home moms now have the internet if they decide to cheat it has made finding a willing partner easier. Men cheat for physical (sex) woman cheat for emotional (luv)
2006-10-23 03:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go live in El Salvatore. It sounds like that's where you would be happiest.
I agree about the divorce rate here being too high, but it's not because women cheat for different reason than men. We're not at work looking for a better man. Get a clue...........
2006-10-23 02:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I totally disagree If I were to cheat on my husband it would be for the same reason husbands cheat on their wives! Something obviously ain't happening at home! as far as the divorce rate goes our society has taught us that it is OK to get a divorce if things don't go the way we want them to. If your wife can't cook, leave her, if he wants too much sex leave him. If you really look at the things Americans get divorced for a lot of is really pathetic.
I don't think it has much to do with if a woman stays home or not, If she is going to be about her husband then that is what she is goin to be about.
2006-10-23 02:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by jeleaya82 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get over yourself. The divorce rate is higher here because women are able to work and support themselves instead of being locked into a subservient role to a controlling husband who considers her chattel.
Your attitudes toward marriage and relationships is steeped in 50's mentality. If your wife was out of the house she would probably rebel against that attitude as well.
Its an issue of cooperation vs. control.
2006-10-23 03:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I find a man that will provide for my and my childrens needs, provide all the money,take care of my and the childrens emotional needs, take care of everything but the house and the kids without whining and complaining, without nights out with the boys, with out a 6pack a night then I might consider staying home. For now Ill keep working.
2006-10-23 02:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are trying to place the blame on these american women, but it is just as much fault of these american men. it is called ignorance, americans don't know the difference between love and lust, commitment and playing the field. or the true meaning of marriage. american society has raped and pillaged the american language and the sanctions of marriage.
2006-10-23 03:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋