Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

I mean if she liked it and wanted it to be her career and be a manager ? lets say your were a computer repairman would you deep down think that was lowclass?I just cant really read him and I wonder if he looks down on me.He just says well everybody has to work somewhere.I wonder if it might keep him from wanting to marry me.

2006-10-20 23:59:30 · 24 answers · asked by butterflyspy 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just curious really. I love comic books, can't get enough of them. I read almost anything.
Now, I'm smart, funny, nice and reasonably good-looking, in case you think I resemble the comic book guy from the simpsons.
So is a guy who enjoy reading comic books seen as geeky or a turn-off to women?

2006-10-20 23:59:17 · 14 answers · asked by Knight-wing 3 in Singles & Dating

I have the worst crush on my uncle (by marrige) and he makes little hints about finding me attractive, etc but only when my aunt is not around...im scared this could turn in to something that could destroy their relationship...and my family. Whats the best thing to do??

2006-10-20 23:55:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Alryt, there was this girl who used to have a crush on me and used to be my cyber pest. She would constantly PM me thru chat and at times i find it so annoying, but as time goes by, ive learned to like her and be more open with her,we chat often and would share a lot about everything.We became really close online.Until several months past, I got a GF and she( girl) seemed to be gettin' low with our communication, but to that point we still communicate and would share a lot. We even consider ourselves as bestfriends coz by now she would just see me as a friend and the way i really see it, she really doesnt care with the relationship i had and would even give me advices on how to deal with it the best way possible. She found her guy already and now she would just simply see me as a brother. I even made a joke to her sayin "I'll marry you " but what she said was kinda disapponting, she insisted that " it's way too impossible, we cant go beyond friendship for we have to treasure it "..

2006-10-20 23:53:37 · 8 answers · asked by chester l 1 in Singles & Dating

rarely try to change females. They either accept, or walk away. Of course some resort to abuse which is totally wrong. Why do some women take the abuse and finally is cheating the same as abuse in a relationship if its the man cheating and the woman remains faithful? Is he really a man?

2006-10-20 23:53:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I like to do all the time

2006-10-20 23:53:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband will be turning 33 next month. He works really hard and is such a wonderful dad to my two little boys. I would really love to do something special for his birthday this year. Due to a monster mortgage i can't afford to do anything too expensive. I am sure you guys can come up with some great ideas for me.

2006-10-20 23:51:14 · 13 answers · asked by mountain girl 2 in Family

i am facing a father whos almost hyper towards his gurls interests..i have 2 sisters..and we r Jan 1971 ,March 1972(us twins) born.he has openly been biased ..and i dont think i need to explain..Horrifiyngly..my mom is almost the same..ne ways she has never worked and hence has little say.the gurls and their husbands have a free reign(add to it their extended families)i tried hard but have now left home..paying a massive rent.my wife has left me to live with her parents..saying u either rectify ur family and dad or be prepared for divorce..i am an indian punjabi..so hope u advice accordingly

2006-10-20 23:51:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He's asked me to masterbate in front of him, but i told him i don't feel comfortable doing it in front of him yet. Is there something wrong with me? Is this a real turn-on for guys?

2006-10-20 23:50:18 · 17 answers · asked by blueeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

my problem is recently while out shopping i ran into my ex and his new born twins, he has now asked to have contact with our to daugthers (there 3 and 4 yrs old) but its been 2yrs since ive heard from him and my husband has been raising them as his own. my 4 yr old remembers her biological father and his family and has asked if she can see them well she had a big sook about wanting to see them. i have never lied to them and told them my husband is thier real dad, they kinda get the situation. but it was really hard after the ex disappeared the first time my daugther was very hurt but since she seen him shes begging to see him and her new sisters agian, im worried she'll get hurt agian and my 3yr old as well this time also i feel im being unfair to my husband if i have contact with him. i dont know what to do plz help.

2006-10-20 23:42:27 · 6 answers · asked by mrs nevz 3 in Family

2006-10-20 23:40:36 · 15 answers · asked by Kassandra H 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 23:39:51 · 15 answers · asked by lady luck 3 in Family

my dad dotes on his gurls esp first one(1 yr my senior) her husband is obnoxious and his family keeps picking on me ..i have almost stabbed him twice..just abt stopped myself..dad keeps a stupid foolish smile as the guy goes abt his business..we r indians ..so plz advice accordingly...i have left home and am paying a massive rent..my wife blames me for giving up in to the bastard

2006-10-20 23:39:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-20 23:39:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Let me explain...I'm not actually planning my wedding, but I am in my head...more than other girls! I'm always watching "Whose Wedding Is It Anyway?" on TV, and I go online to research wedding gowns, hotels, cakes, flowers, etc. I can't help it....my wedding day is sooooooooo important!!! I know it's important for everyone, but I think for me, it means a bit more. See, I'm waiting for marriage to have sex, cause I think it's waaaay too important to give up to just any guy. I mean I think about Mr. Right everyday and every night!!! It's kinda like a Disney fairy tale...HaHa! I hope no one takes it the wrong way, but I just feel the reason I'm like this is because I've waited and will continue to wait for Mr. Right for sooo long.I refuse to be with any other guy, that I know is not him!!!Don't me wrong now...I'm not some coservative nun type, but basically I don't want to be in any real relationship with a guy other than Mr. Right! I love him that much! What do you think about all this??

2006-10-20 23:37:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

and the biggest she ever had

2006-10-20 23:36:39 · 19 answers · asked by PETE 3 in Singles & Dating

Some females say as long as a man is happy there is respect Ot

2006-10-20 23:33:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he always says he loves me to other people but he never shows me. my friends even tell me that it doesn't look like he's my boyfriend and that we were closer before we had a serious relationship.

2006-10-20 23:31:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 23:30:31 · 16 answers · asked by Jenni 1 in Singles & Dating

If your guy called you the nick name Turdgurl and wanted you to change your yahoo name to floatingturdgurl would you think it was cute and be proud of it?

2006-10-20 23:29:52 · 8 answers · asked by Carol F 1 in Singles & Dating

is there any way men and women can understand each other? how can two completely different individuals agree and make their relationship work? what do men really want in a relationship? how about us women?

2006-10-20 23:29:00 · 7 answers · asked by Corin 1 in Singles & Dating

hes kinda loose and hes not always in for a conversation and i feel like its becasue he knows that Im always there if he wants me if Im on can message me and Ill be thee.
and I want him to go after me so when I come on he wants to talk to me

we talked whenever we could (hes in the states so that complicates the time and stuff) and then he was like talk to you later and then he never messaged me back I didnt want to sound too desperate
and then yesterday I said Hey and he never replied and went offline after 5 mins how do I get him to want to talk

oh and btw were in a relationship...( and YES I do KNOW him)

does he want space? should I igore him and wait? how long before I realise he is not interested?

2006-10-20 23:28:38 · 2 answers · asked by ██████████ 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 23:25:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

HELP!!!! we're going on this school trip in 2 weeks, it's summer, and it'll be hotter where we're going, I'm afraid my classmates and teachers will ask me about my long sleves(I wear them to cover my cuts and scars).... is there any other way I could hide them? I have them up to my elbow, so bracelets won't do much...

PS: and if in fact they DO ask me about my long sleves (that's for sure) what are some excuses to tell them??

2006-10-20 23:24:53 · 13 answers · asked by Debbie 2 in Friends

2006-10-20 23:23:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is on income support

2006-10-20 23:23:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What makes them feel the need for this agression ? I am an 'ex' I have never once felt any anger towards my former partners new man. He treats my daughter well and treats my ex well too, so my daughter has a happy mummy... Could I ask for more ? No.

So... why did he expect total agression from me ? (he was very supprised that I was just cool with it). Shouting and fighting and threats and stuff.... wont 'win anyone back' it's over... I can deal with that, why can some men not come to terms with it ?

The worst I have faced so far, being followed down a road by an ex who was screaming paedophile at me because I was taking his ex to the pub, and had played football with his son, this was 4 years after thay had split up. I ended up having the guy arrested, but it ruined the relationship for myself and his ex... WHY ??

If youre are an angry ex, (male of female) why ? what triggered the anger ? I'm not pointing a finger or judging... I'd just like to know what happend ?

2006-10-20 23:22:37 · 21 answers · asked by mittobridges@btinternet.com 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister was desperate for a loan of $2000 so i did it on the basis she would pay me back in 2 months.Its now 3 and she has not spoken to me about it all even when i travelled to the same town as her and saw her at my mothers she said nothing yet bagged me out for talking about having another baby with my new partner.Now she is travelling to the same city that i live in and would normally stay with me but she is going to stay in a motel.Yes i was stupid to lend but what is done is done the more hurtful thing right now is she is being so horrid and not even discussing it with me.I would have record of the transfer from account to account but i dont want to make waves so to speak.Anyone think of any alternatives?

2006-10-20 23:22:35 · 8 answers · asked by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 in Family

2006-10-20 23:21:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 23:21:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating