I have the worst crush on my uncle (by marrige) and he makes little hints about finding me attractive, etc but only when my aunt is not around...im scared this could turn in to something that could destroy their relationship...and my family. Whats the best thing to do??
2006-10-20 23:55:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Do u think a guy like him...whose being unfaithful to his wife at the same time hitting on a relative whose so much younger than him..is a kind of a person that deserves a sweet, emothional, caring girllike u. Ok lets supppose u do end up marrying him?? than what ...would u be able to live with the fact that he made ur aunt so unhappy, ruined her life??
I know these kind of men coz Ive had to deal with them by a dozen...most of then my class mates and some my cousins. they only hit on girls that are innocent.
Also for future dont be with him a lone. At the same time dont get so rude all of a sudden that it becmes obvious.
This way hell get aggressive. Be light wiegted and act dumb as if it never happened.Also act as if u were just playin around and not in love or anything.
Can u believe that hes so scared of his wife finding out that he doenst hit on u infront of her?? U think hell be bold nough to divorce her for u. He is trying to get u into having it with him. Then he will black male u that if u seak...it will ruin his life and ur family relations so u better keep ur outh shut. Ppl are right .THIS IS A SERIOUS QUESTION. They have warned u.
Prayin with allmy heart for ur crush to just start to feel as foolish and dangerous as it is in real life.
2006-10-21 00:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, is this a serious question?
Stop flirting with him!! He's your aunt's husband! Don't you care about the fact that if you actually tried to pursue this you would literally tear your family apart?
You may be reading too much into it anyway, he may just be being nice to you. And if it's just a crush then it'll probably go away in time anyway.
What's your age difference?? If he really is sleazy enough to be attracted to you and want to cheat on his wife, is that the kind of guy you'd want to be with anyway??
No offense, but you'd have to be an idiot to want to continue in the direction your going.
2006-10-21 00:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by jenieatworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look Miss..i am 34 today..and have really seen bad days after i made out with a cousin(her mom and mine r real sisters) we r the same age and we went really the whole hog one day in 1986 aged 14 and 15 resp.. and we continue till today secretly from our spouses..its a difficult passion thing..and i would warn ne young kid to keep a safe distance from love between relations..it can destroy u totally..he is prob just finding u fresh and exciting for a temp phase...so AVOID.
2006-10-21 00:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop fueling this titillation by flirting with your uncle. This man (who's probably old enough to be your father) is behaving inappropriately and is being "emotionally" unfaithful to your Aunt. In other words, he is disrespecting your aunt and you by flirting with you. His behavior should repel you for those reasons alone. Do you want the attention of a married man who feels it's appropriate to flirt with young girls? He's a loser- find yourself someone your own age and who is not married. Give him short shrift every time you see him so that he will get the "message".
2006-10-21 00:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your initial reactions are the correct ones.
Nothing good will come of this. There is something not right with your uncle-in-law. I suggest you confide in your mother or father, whichever is the sibling of your aunt and ask for advice. She/he knows your aunt best and will know what to do.
In any case do not be alone with your uncle!
2006-10-21 00:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by Carl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing for you to do is get away....weigh out the pros and cons of this situation..now its just a crush for this minute dont let this crush grow into love then things will really be all out of control...find someone else and ignore this little feeling of liking your uncle...he's not yours he's your aunts and you should respect that
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2016-10-15 06:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a "thing" with my aunt (by marriage). I was 17 and she was 30. It can be explosively dangerous. Don't encourage it. Find a boyfriend.
2006-10-21 00:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already answered your own ? .....im scared this WILL(not could) turn into something that WILL(not could) destroy there relationship ....and your family ,,,,,if any one found out it would reek havoc on all involved wait till there div. or seperated at least or find someone similar,,,,, a one nighter who knows,, dont go any where with it if its just sex it will lead to something complicated because he's so close
2006-10-21 00:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by txtx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from this guy, you're right, it would destroy your family and you would carry the burden of all the guilt. he's probably a cheater and would hop ion your bones given the chance. he's probably cheating on your Aunt. Stay away,
2006-10-21 01:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋