Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

i've been dating this guy for almost a year.. at first, when we started dating he's like the sweetest thing on earth. he do everything i want, surprise me every once in awhile, call me every frickin minute but then for no reason he has changed.and when i open it up and talk about it we just argue and leads to our fight.hes always mad on that topic. i don't know why he keeps on telling me that he loves me but hearing it and looking at his actions are different ways.
i always feel that im just his second highest priority.. now.
im holding on cos thats the only way i would break him being so insensitive but still hes doesnt see it. i feel thats his very comfortable settled in cos he knows im head over hills in love with him, i really miss the old times, and wish i could bring it back again..literally I miss Him.. the guy he was before.. and i miss being happy..

2006-10-20 22:47:36 · 17 answers · asked by Lo Carla 1 in Singles & Dating

once randomly (because of something we talked about) he said wanna hook up and then said joking we both agreed that wouldn’t work out because we don’t know each other that well (I HAVE met him) so after he called me all these names like
Sexy muffin
Sexy Dina
Baby girl
Babe and stuff like a boyfriend would say to his girl
(We had normal conversations until then)

I thought it was just like he feels we have reached a level of friendship or something and I guess he felt comfortable saying that but then he got all serious and was like
wub you (Love you?) or did he say that and not mean love…maybe it was friendly…
I told him I loved him too and then i felt like we were doing something and he said luv you so I felt like we were in a relationship
It was obvious he loved me but does that mean were in something? Even though he never said were dating?

More details if you want to read:
He never actually said Love as in love always wub and luv and these cute icons and like kissing icons which means he does love me but maybe not? Im really confused and I DON’T want to ask him to his face incase he feels that I didn’t realize we were in something and feels something.. I don’t know Im just confused… maybe I want something and he’s like that with everyone after a while and I just like the idea of him wanting me?

2006-10-20 22:44:12 · 7 answers · asked by ██████████ 3 in Singles & Dating

i love him but i can not marry him b/c i donot whant to marry who is out of my religion

2006-10-20 22:43:45 · 10 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does it revive the sexual relationship that died between the husband and wife? Please explain your answer.

2006-10-20 22:43:45 · 6 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-20 22:42:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

...sexually? That is if you are taken, other wise does it intrigue you to be with a stranger? And why?

2006-10-20 22:41:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a 7month old little girl w/ my man for three years but suddenly i feel like hes maybe cheating on me. He tells me he isnt that im the only one he wants... he also is the 1st guy who's cried for me about our problems once or twice. he says he loves me its just that he just doesnt want to fight anymore w/ me thats why he rather hang up and turn his phone off and call me tomorrow... should i believe he or not??????????? to he sometimes acts weird when hes out late w/ his friends.................

2006-10-20 22:40:37 · 5 answers · asked by mybaby_des 1 in Singles & Dating

one of my frend is sweet ..& smart.many guys proposed her.. and the relationship would break within in 1 month... she complained me that guys are cheaters ,they are very mean and asked me never to trust them....but i really want to know is this true......?as i am not aware of this type of relationship....and also i want to know their character...

2006-10-20 22:39:39 · 12 answers · asked by anusha 2 in Friends

i have a 7month old little girl w/ my man for three years but suddenly i feel like hes maybe cheating on me. He tells me he isnt that im the only one he wants... he also is the 1st guy who's cried for me about our problems once or twice. he says he loves me its just that he just doesnt want to fight anymore w/ me thats why he rather hang up and turn his phone off and call me tomorrow... should i believe he or not??????????? to he sometimes acts weird when hes out late w/ his friends.................

2006-10-20 22:38:23 · 6 answers · asked by mybaby_des 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-20 22:38:03 · 6 answers · asked by brandy t 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am having a long distance relationship and i am certain as to when i am going to meet up with my guy. is it healthy to flirt around with other people around me when at the end of the day i know i love my guy only? i would definately know my limits when im flirting. would it help me out in missing my guy less and getting over the distance?would it help me out in getting less distracted?...or would it spoil the relationship unnecessarily?

2006-10-20 22:36:50 · 16 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom used to compare me with other child and i feel insecured and neglected. shes always like that specially when i did something wrong or shameful.

2006-10-20 22:34:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if your kinda casually dating a guy, and you've called him the last 3 times, and on the last call he said to call him to go for coffee sometime, should i really bother calling him again?...i mean if he was really interested wouldnt he call me instead of always waiting for me to call him....hes not a boy, hes in his late twenties, and he's def not shy or anything. Just dont want to feel like i have to chase him, but who knows if he'll ever get around to calling me.

2006-10-20 22:33:06 · 10 answers · asked by ash1 4 in Singles & Dating

ive recently broken up with my boyfriend we were best friends for 5 yrs and together for 5 months, but i want him back so much we broke up on Sunday and all ive been doing is crying and i get angry really quickly, im at the point where i hate myself and i know nothing is going to be ok for me, im not going to kill myself because i have 2 young daughters but i will hurt myself i deserve to be hurt, it was over a silly row and now iv lost him for gd he just wont take me back

2006-10-20 22:31:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-20 22:29:02 · 7 answers · asked by vachool 2 in Friends

I love girl but she loves another

2006-10-20 22:26:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know that almost 99.99 people have already had sex before time..but do u think its really sinful ?

2006-10-20 22:26:10 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do girls feel bad when they turn someone down? It's not like they can force themselves to like the person, either they do or they don't.
I showed interest in a girl at a club, I winked and starred at her for the longest time and she didn't even want to look at me. So I walked over to the pub bar to wallow in my sorrow and when i turned around, i saw the girl looking at me all sad. The girl approached me but i think she did it out of pity. Why do girls feel bad for turning someone down?

2006-10-20 22:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 22:24:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

he was avoiding me well hed like say ill be on later and then he would not message me and once I said hey and he didnt respond. I was told to avoid him a bit to make him want me more because he probably feels loose around me knowing Im always there and im not going anywhere how 2 make him want me more?

does this sound ok for a message to him?
should I post this now or to wait and see if he wants to talk to me after I "avoid" him...

hey, muffin is everything ok?
you dont seem like talking lately?
(please tell me if Im doing something wrong) - I was advised not to put this in.
wub you!

should I put love instead or nothing at all?
he always puts like wub or luv so maybe to sound like him...?

btw Its ONLINE so I cant see him to tell him to his face

2006-10-20 22:23:26 · 9 answers · asked by ██████████ 3 in Singles & Dating

do u like the name caitlin? would u call ur daughter that name?

2006-10-20 22:22:55 · 13 answers · asked by ben b 1 in Family

What are some things that make a girl "ladylike"to you?...What are some things that make you think a girl is not a Lady?

2006-10-20 22:21:55 · 8 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have an asian boy friend thank you.its just when we walk around alot of english lads shout things like what u doin with one of our gals.i love all nationalities if there nice with me then its great

2006-10-20 22:21:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i think i have a high sex drive, cause i well its hard to say but, my mum has it too...but i dont know how to handle it..i just feel like haveing sex all the time...

2006-10-20 22:20:52 · 19 answers · asked by maz999379 2 in Singles & Dating

how do u no if a guy likes u. can he sometimes be shy and other times not be.

2006-10-20 22:19:01 · 8 answers · asked by Fay 1 in Singles & Dating

Do genuinely "classy"people blatantly tell others who have less that they are of a lower class?....Bluntly acknowledge that they have more than others?..Rub it in the faces of the less fortunate?.......Is that "classy"?

2006-10-20 22:18:17 · 14 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-20 22:17:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i like my best friend but right now he is in some other place finishing his 12th. he has a girl friend out there, but she is damn stupid and i am sure they will not be continuing once he is back. i know him since a very long time and i am very compatible with him. he is going to be back in 6 months. what should i do? i sometimes feel very bad when he talks about his gf to me but i as well know that he can leave her for me. should i help him in his relationship? or should i be selfish enough to see what i like and to act accordingly?

2006-10-20 22:16:54 · 16 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

does it bother you when you see english girls going out with asians

2006-10-20 22:10:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't have as many friends as other people might have, and what few I do have I'm really, REALLY close to. But I just don't like engaging in the activities that everyone else in the group like to do. Paintballing, rpging, Xbox Live, virtually everything they do just does not appeal to me on any level at all. Whenever they ask me what I'd like to do to spend time with them, I can't offer any alternatives aside from going to the movies (but who wants to spend $9 a night just to hang out?). I make an honest to God effort to try to get into what they're into, but I just can't. What can I do?

2006-10-20 22:08:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends