i've been dating this guy for almost a year.. at first, when we started dating he's like the sweetest thing on earth. he do everything i want, surprise me every once in awhile, call me every frickin minute but then for no reason he has changed.and when i open it up and talk about it we just argue and leads to our fight.hes always mad on that topic. i don't know why he keeps on telling me that he loves me but hearing it and looking at his actions are different ways.
i always feel that im just his second highest priority.. now.
im holding on cos thats the only way i would break him being so insensitive but still hes doesnt see it. i feel thats his very comfortable settled in cos he knows im head over hills in love with him, i really miss the old times, and wish i could bring it back again..literally I miss Him.. the guy he was before.. and i miss being happy..
2006-10-20 22:47:36 · 17 answers · asked by Lo Carla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it sounds like eitheir hes slowly getting confortable, or maybe you are the type who doesnt expect hi to get comfortable. maybe he doesnt feel as thrilled as he used to when you two first hooked up, but one thing is for sure, dont let him have his cake and eat it too. maybe you need to stop demanding him so much and maybe he will miss you and realize what he has, maybe not. sounds like me ex. except i kept breaking up with him cause he kept talking to this ugly girl online. GROSS> anyways.
2006-10-20 22:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by Brown Beauty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation or being head over heels for someone is a natural process in relations. It is not necessarily love but may be a good start. The jerk needs to get over that and get to love you for whom you really are and not for his fantasy of an ideal love. If I were you I would drop him him right now. If he asks you for reason just tell him this: "it's been only one year and I feel you don't care much for me, can you imagine our relation 5 years from now?
2006-10-20 22:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by latin-solomon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wasting your time. This man is not meeting your needs now, so how do you think he will meet them in 50 years? Go your own way, don't be there all the time, and see what happens. Maybe he will realize he is messing up a good thing if you do.
2006-10-20 22:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl...
you don't have to suffer just because of that guy...
if he still acts that way then it just means that he only loved you in the beginning and he has no intention of marrying you in the future (if ever!) look on the bright side..
if you're single you can enjoy life to the fullest..hang out with your friends have a million crushes and shop till you drop!!!
no one'll get jealous..
i won't say follow my advice but i wish it could help you even for a little..
hope we can be friends!!!
2006-10-20 22:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by laurs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are always out there to impress their girls for a while...till they know that theyve got u hooked... I think that he's just comfortable with u...and doesnt need to call u every other min cos he knows that ur his gf..and u luv him...married couples dont call each other all the time...its just a phase..."honeymoon period"...I wouldnt worry...
2006-10-20 23:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u r wasting your time just dump this guy ok as the saying goes u don't know what u've got untill u lose it. so if i were u i'll just drop him like a bad habit. one thing u should have in mind when u r in a relationship that u r being wrongly treated just know that n blive that u deserve so much better n he/she isnt good enough for you.
2006-10-20 23:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by sleek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a big girl and drop him and stop all that whining. Don't waste your time on a sinking ship, or they will take you down with them. Go get someone not so complicated or make you that way.
2006-10-20 22:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes things don't last. Both of you have to compromise. You can't expect him to ALWAYS do everything that you want. But he should make an effort to give you more attention if that's what you need.
2006-10-20 22:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like the thrill is gone, Find someone or something else to do.
2006-10-20 22:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by Big Eagle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't know you....yet. he will, whether you stay or not, at least better, spending some time away from him will help him sort through why you are unhappy, guys are blinded to problems by their fears inexperience and stubbornness. he just has some growing up to do. it's a shame, but guys develop a lot slower than girls. can you please answer my questions:
here's the urls:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=An2LQmWOTP0ThBRXfdqlilzsy6IX?qid=20061021012709AAjolGu
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aoel5X0e2FVwfJYYUKyzDjvsy6IX?qid=20061021010620AA5SUSw
2006-10-20 22:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋